Search Results: how to read a shy guy

Interested in an older guy — are these signs he might feel the same?

i’m interested in an older guy in one of my classes, and i’m trying to understand whether he might feel the same way or if i’m misinterpreting things. he’s on the shy side, and i’ve been trying to approach the situation...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Does my coworker like me, jist beinh shy/nervous?

I started a new job several months ago and there is a guy my age who has been showing subtle signs that he may like me, such as staring at me, getting right close in my space, sitting next to me on break, etc. We don't...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it okay to tell a guy you were attracted to this?

I guess he’s not really interested and we work next door to eachother… sometimes he’s warm.. sometimes cold or shy… I can’t really read him.. he seems a tad more open to my other female coworker who looks… ehh.. I feel a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Not interested or shy? Why won’t he message me on Instagram?

A few weeks ago I met this guy at a shop where he fixed my laptop. I thought he was super cute right away, but I’m ridiculously shy and couldn’t even look him in the eye. He seemed kind of nervous too - he messed up the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My girlfriend couldn’t get over her ex. What should I do?

I met her on an online dating platform because for some reason I couldn’t get a girlfriend no matter how hard I have tried. She is my first girlfriend. I asked her if she has an ex. She told me she had one whom was...

TimothyLee00

Xper 3 Age: 26

I don't mean to generalize, but why are men mean to me?

I have been through a lot with men in my past relationships and even with my father, so I know all of my mistrust comes from these experiences. Online dating has made me depressed and as you will read men in public reject...

Sweetascandy1990

Xper 6 Age: 36

I don’t understand his behavior. Does he lose feeling?

I have been hanging out with a guy who is super shy. We went on date a couple of times and I included him for dinner with my friends once. All of his actions seems he likes me (he always make sure he is free when I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, would you date an Indian-origin guy like me?

I am a research scholar (physics) of Indian origin who lives in the West. A lot of people don't realise that India is a big country with a lot of variation, and they club all of us together. I grew up in a very liberal...

Anonymous

(30-35)

A guy friend/coworker is confusing the sh! t out of me, is this normal?

read plsss !! i had a crush on him a bit ago, now he is just a hot guy friend (figured i couldn't really form a relationship w him and didn't know him that much so i moved on) . now we just getting to know each other (on...

vampycowgirl

Xper 1 Age: 24

Flirting

Please read description! Who do you think is most likely to win over the prettiest girl in the bar?

For visualization purposes, let's say she is almost objectively the prettiest. Most people would say she's a 10. One guy is the best looking guy in the bar, a 10, who just sits and waits for girls to talk to him because...

Rab1901

Yoda Age: 35

For visualization purposes, let's say she is almost objectively the prettiest. Most people would say she's a 10. One guy is the best looking guy in the bar, a 10, who just sits and

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How to stop falling in love with people who are kind to me?

For context: my childhood was spent in a big, joint family full of judgmental elders. Growing up I was very quiet and shy and never really had much friends. I went to an all-girls school as well. I was never approached...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why does he acts like this? is he just shy or doesn't like me?

there is this guy I know through a mutual friend. My friend told him that I think he is cute and that I want to be his friend. When we met, a lot of his classmates were there and we didn't talk because we were both shy. I...

Anonymous

(18-24)

How to get him to be more affectionate?

I’ve been chatting to a guy for 4 months and on video call he’s very sweet and funny, but I find him hard to read over text. He’s never very flirty or affectionate towards me and I’m starting to think I’m wasting my time....

Anonymous

(25-29)

How am I getting this so wrong?

Okay so context I am a shy girl, I do the usual of going super quiet especially when I like a guy and then I don't know how to act around him so get it can be difficult to read. I was out with a group of friends, during...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guys, Do you think he's interested?

Before I begin, I have isolated myself for a few years, and I would like to try dating again, but I am clueless, right now. I met this really nice Korean guy who is the shy type, so he is hard to read, for me. All are...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to get my crush with ADHD and Autism to open up?

So here’s the backstory summed up in a nutshell…I met a guy online, we became good friends, then we developed a crush on each other. I asked him if he had a crush on me and he said he did. I asked if he had more than a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Zodiacs, Rise Again (Redux) 🙌

I’ve written something similar before and yes I’ll be writing something similar again. It’s very therapeutic when I express myself in writing about my experiences. So allow me to relax, see if you relate, and let’s all...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

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Girls, am I so bad? ... I am so lonelly and never had a girlfriend because of my introversion that really makes it impossibile for me to talk to girl?

As i said in the title i am very shy and i dont really understand if I will ever someone to end my lonelliness and depression caused by it , I just want to know because I feel very wrong sometimes and like a mistake since...

Eusebio

Xper 1 Age: 22