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Has past trauma made me hypersensitive to patterns in others’ behavior?
So right now im on medical leave, but I was on nightshift for about 5 years. My ex was on nightshift but moved to dayshift at the beginning of the year. During that time, a mutual coworker started talking to me as...
Anonymous
(25-29) What does "the guy who likes to watch" actually want from a woman?
I tell a guy I love to dance and he starts to whine about how his dancing days are over. I ask "really"? and start teasing him about it bc he's physically fit and very sporty, so this seems odd. I tell him that it's too...
Am I mistaking a natural flirt’s behavior for genuine interest?
For my job, the people I work with switch from shift to shift. Sometimes I meet new coworkers, other times I reunite with familiar ones. There’s this coworker (32M) I’ve become more familiar with in the past couple of...
Anonymous
(25-29) Did he actually sense I was settling for him in our relationship?
I was telling him a funny story about a woman settling for a man. He laid in bed with his eyes closed and said "you can settle for me" I immediately stopped talking and was shocked. I had no idea how to react since he...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is he just using me or is this abusive jealousy after two weeks?
Me and this guy has been talking for two weeks now. I mentioned another guy and then this man starts fat shaming me and saying he doesn’t want me because of it and was just rude. I showed him a photo when I was sickly...
Anonymous
(18-24) How to help someone become more emotionally intelligent?
i'll try to keep this short since no one wants a whole essay. but i've been talking to this guy for almost four months, and i really do like him. we call multiple times a day for hours at a time. he's funny, witty,...
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Xper 1 Age: 19 Was my married boss flirting with me and then suddenly pulled back?
I’m an assistant to an executive manager - we get along great. I’m single and he’s married. Recently in the odd meeting we had online he would (usually before we took time off) would start being a bit playful (nothing...
Anonymous
(30-35) How do I start taking my friend’s much younger boyfriend seriously?
I've been close friends with this girl for around 5 years ago. she's lovely and we got talking as both are children go school together and are friends. Im married and have a 5 year old daughter called Mabel and she's...
Anonymous
(25-29) Addiction, emotional abuse, and a new house: should I stay or leave my husband?
I’m 25, and my life has become a tangled web I’m trying to untangle. My husband, J, is 35, and my ex, B (the father of my child), is 24. I met J two years ago after a long, on-and-off five-year relationship with B. We...
Anonymous
(18-24) Am I to blame for struggling with drive through orders with no training?
I'm talking about taking orders on the head set. We were short staffed today so they called me in early we were super busy my entire shift. It was me, my gm, and another worker. My boss is the only one who knows how to...
Joe917
Xper 4 Age: 34 What does it mean when a guy starts going out to bars/clubs every night during a relationship break?
My boyfriend told me he needs space from me to reevaluate our relationship. Every night since then, he has been going to bars and clubs. He’s normally so tired from social interaction and would not go out this much. He...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is my new friend being mean on purpose or just thoughtless?
So I noticed these two girls who seemed interested in being friends... they act weird. For example one of them had created a group with me and the other girl (they both know each other from before). We met up etc. Then at...
Anonymous
(30-35) How can I cut off a toxic friend without causing drama or guilt?
I feel terrible about the situation with this friend but it genuinely keeps me up at night. I made friends with this girl called Anna some years ago and at first we were total besties but then she got a premonition...
Babyseal23
Xper 3 Age: 28 Does this shy introverted guy actually like me or is he just being friendly?
Hi everyone. I’m at university and there’s this guy I’m interested in. At first, we didn’t know each other at all. We would occasionally walk past each other, make eye contact, and then go about our day. I initially...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why do I always feel left out and invisible in every social group?
I always end up being left out in every environment. I can’t seem to speak up when I’m around people. Everywhere I go, everyone is in a group, talking and laughing, while I don’t feel like I belong anywhere. I don’t talk,...
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Xper 1 Age: 20 What is this fluttery feeling I get around this guy?
Okay I want to know what this feeling is… So I get a fluttery feeling around this guy and I smile like an idiot and I don’t know why…. just that we started talking for a few minutes and I’m feeling something I haven’t...
Anonymous
(18-24) How can I win her back and make her fall in love with me again?
I made this girl online like 4 or 5 months ago and we connected and after that we've been on relationship and she wants me to meet her and I wanted to but I think I ignore it and you know being busy taking care of my...
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Xper 1 Age: 25 Was trashing birthday gifts from my ex and ex friend reasonable?
Long story short: I ripped up a picture album of myself, threw away a ring, and stuck a book in a suitcase that I probably won't open again for a few months. Backstory: So one friendship ended last year, but she's...
Anonymous
(25-29) On a first meetup, do you put your phone on silent or leave it on?
Ur going to meet up with someone you ve never met in person. Before ur face to face with them, do u put your phone on silent so u can give her your undivided attention? Or do u not even worry about it? With my ex, when we...
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Xper 5 Age: 50 Is it normal she wants pricey gifts and a ring but keeps options open?
I have went on 6 dates with a girl over 3 weeks. on the 5th date she showed me pics of a ring and asked me to go to the mall where that store is since my workplace is near there. Next day i went, sent her pics, and she...
Anonymous
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