Search Results: make these feelings stop

12 d

Should I cut my mom out of my life or no?

I’m 30 years old, and I feel like I’m still fighting for permission to live my own life. I grew up in a very bad environment. My mom struggled with meth addiction for years, she’s bipolar, and she also has MS. Because of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

16 d

Is this online guy emotionally manipulating me or is it really my fault?

I matched with a guy online but never met him, we arranged 3x and each time something happened, he was asleep till 4pm and then his phone broke He said was we would meet but never did because of how he looked and the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

24 d

My partner refuses to see my family—should I stay or walk away?

Look, the thing is, my partner can't stand my family, even though they haven't done anything to him. He just says he doesn't like them, and of course, that's meant that after a year together, he's stopped coming to family...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Other

27 d

Is this strong intuition, pattern recognition, or just a good eye for people?

Over a year ago, I started bartending at this new hotel. One evening there were 3 men that came and sat pretty much in front of the area where I would make my drinks. I quickly noticed 2 of the 3 men. One was being...

RavenWing057

Xper 4 Age: 32

Other

28 d

If emotional closure feels real even without understanding, are we slowly replacing truth seeking with comfort based perception of reality?

You can make every human experience feel emotionally complete the moment it happens.. Loss, failure, awkward moments, everything just feels resolved internally, even if nothing is actually understood. At first, it...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

1 mo

Do people truly want to be understood, or are they searching for someone who understands the parts of themselves they can’t fully explain?

I think about this sometimes because so many people say, “No one understands me,” yet very few stop to ask what being understood would actually change emotionally for them if it finally happened? Because if we’re...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Religion & Spirituality

1 mo

Why do I feel no wants or desires even though my life is going well?

I am a 25-year-old woman, and I’ve struggled with my emotions for most of my life. One thing I always promised myself was that I would become independent from my family. Nothing was ever handed to me because my family has...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

1 mo

How can I stop feeling so jealous and possessive in relationships?

I get jealous whenever i have a boyfriend, especially my recent boyfriend. I’d get jealous at things like him going out with friends (even boys), if he looked or spoke to another girl, also at one point even him speaking...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Break Up & Divorce

1 mo

Do you believe some people are mirrors or messengers from God/ universe even after a brief encounter?

For 2 years I had dealt with the long term consequences of a man who made me feel like I was nothing. Even after we stopped talking I had I had been depressed for a long time.. I didn’t even talk to anyone. I dealt with...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

1 mo

Did this 40M lose interest, or am I overthinking his slow replies?

31F and anytime there is a shift in the consistency of communication, I assume they’re not interested. That’ll mean either I’ll make sure it’s a slow fade or just stop replying since it’ll be inevitable at one point. This...

Anonymous

(30-35)

31F and anytime there is a shift in the consistency of communication, I assume they’re not interested. That’ll mean either I’ll make sure it’s a slow fade or just stop replying since

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Relationships

1 mo

Am I wrong for having feelings for a coworker while in a sexless relationship?

So I have a girlfriend of 5 years, she's always been good to me and I love her very much, but we dont get sexual, have not for about 3 years. Its dumb but im too big for her. She ends up bleeding etc and sometimes the...

Zally

Xper 5 Age: 33

Relationships

2 mo

How can I stop caring and lose feelings for my distant boyfriend?

So. I wanna lose feelings for someone and move on. I’m still with them. They still love me and I love them. But I’m tired. They didn't have time before for me. When they did I paid for everything to make it work out just...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

2 mo

How do I stop fearing I’ll meet someone better and just commit?

I’m an 18-year-old female. I’ve never been in a relationship, never kissed anyone, and never gotten physical. But it’s fair to say I get a lot of attention from men, and I’ve had a few solid talking stages. I’ve been...

sophia2007

Xper 1 Age: 18

Dating

2 mo

Why is this handsome, successful 29M so lonely and clingy toward me?

So I (22F) matched with a guy (29M) last year. He got out of a 2-year relationship with a girl who was a lawyer. He ended things, weren't in touch with her. This guy works in IT, has a remote job (works from his home),...

baddiska

Xper 4 Age: 22

Relationships

2 mo

True or false, The worst feeling isn't feeling alone, its being with people who make you feel alone?

Before you ask, this isn't me feeling alone, or people making me feel alone. I'm 43, married for 15 years, always made sure he knew I wasn't going to be some submissive housewife. We met in our late 20s, got married after...

Pointlesslife82

Xper 2 Age: 43

Dating

3 mo

What are the top 3 most cinematic, beautiful moments of your life?

We all have difficulties in life and I’ve had my fair share. 🪬 But thankfully I’ve had beautiful memories too, the ones where you close your eyes and you can run away to that memory in the times of difficulty. My Top 3...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

3 mo

I have developed this habit to belittle myself and portray that to everyone, especially in front of someone I am interested in how to get rid of it?

I was like this, I am like this, I need to change my own perspective towards myself. I want someone to fall in love with. And doing that required me to be confident and respectful enough to myself. I am good with...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Girls, I fell in love with my friend during a trip but didn’t tell her — is it too late now?

Hi everyone, I’m writing anonymously because this has been weighing on my mind constantly, and I’d love to hear especially a woman’s perspective. I’ve been friends with a girl for about two years, and honestly I liked...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Health & Fitness

Anyone ever experienced being a true workaholic?

I got this going on right now. I’m actually recovering addict from two other (legit) addictions. I found a new addiction that doesn’t leave feeling ashamed, broke or embarrassed: work. For the last three years I’ve found...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

How far would you go to help out a friend (see details for scenarios)?

Here is a list of scenarios (but feel free to make up your own and describe how you would respond): 1. You are waiting at a bus stop at night and to your surprise, you see your friend across the street being held at gun...

Anonymous

(30-35)