Search Results: rushing into a relationship

2 mo

How long should I wait until I ask him to be my boyfriend?

So I met this guy at my senior prom a few weeks ago. He asked for my number, and we've been texting almost every day. I've been on two dates with him, and he gave me one of his hoodies today (I'm wearing it right now)....

FizzleMyPickle

Xper 1 Age: 18

2 mo

Do people just like the idea of a relationship more than real commitment?

It seems these days most people just like the thought of being in a relationship, but to actually be in the relationship and follow boundaries and commitment for each other, sadly seems like a thing of the past , Most...

Influencer Age: 48

3 mo

Do you think your previous relationships made you a stronger and wiser person?

I believe my bad relationships has taught me to be wiser and stronger when it comes to girls’ that try to take advantage of me I have witnessed and experienced so much nonsense through the years with girls’ to the point I...

Influencer Age: 48

Am I being dumb by falling for someone before my divorce is finalized?

I’m divorcing my husband I told him a few months ago I wanted a divorce. He is a pathological liar and cheater and I keep forgiving him and eventually stop caring after he cheated on me while I was pregnant and I lost the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My girlfriend moving in, is she giving off Red Flags?

I've been with my SO for almost 2.5 years and she is currently fully moving in to my apartment. At first it felt great to have her in my place all the time. She would spend a majority of her week at my apartment and over...

imnoangel90

Xper 3 Age: 35

Would this be wrong to text?

Me and my ex recently had a miscarriage she said she doesn’t want to date again and doesn’t see herself getting into another relationship, neither do I tbh. I was gonna message this so that we can have a healthy co...

Theodog18

Xper 1 Age: 28

When a guy says he wants to “take things slow” What does actually mean? (We haven't had sex)?

When a guy says he wants to “take things slow” What does that actually mean? Hi Reddit, I (23F) have been seeing a guy (27M, German) and I’m really confused about his behavior. We’ve been on 4 dates so far, and he’s...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Has frequently being sa lead me to abusers?

T. W~ pregnancy, sex, sex assault, abuse. I left my abuser in June. I went on a sex spree. I put myself in a dangerous situation and was getting attacked. Anyway, I met this guy. He was lovely. But I should have...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What do I do next?

Im in this kind of «hopeless situation» right now, and in need of some advice. I have been getting these urgent/intrusive thoughts about my ex lately. It feels like i miss him, the relationship and connection we had, and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

A lot of guys like rushing into relationships nowadays, is this proof that gender roles are beginning to reverse?

the above has always been the default. however nowadays a lot of guys rush into relationships like women do. is this a sign that many guys are taking their soyboy mentality to a whole new level?

Filthy_Immigrant

Yoda Age: 39

the above has always been the default. however nowadays a lot of guys rush into relationships like women do. is this a sign that many guys are taking their soyboy mentality to a

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Told me from the start wasn't ready for a relationship, when I asked if I should fall back cause I was catching feelings she said that would hurt?

Met this girl through a friend first night talking we talked for 5 hours on the phone. She stayed the night after a week of talking on the phone every night for hours, two nights in a row and we did sleep together, a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Am I being selfish?

I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, he's a single dad , he has a son but his mom also lives with him and his dad passed away years ago. So for the first time I met his kid 2 months ago, I absolutely adore...

Anonymous

(18-24)

For the people that were cheated on: Do you have a hard time trusting someone new?

Since I been cheated on before , it did effect me to a certain extent , it pretty much changed my whole outlook on relationships to the point it’s harder for me to trust a girl , another reason I no longer rush into a...

Influencer Age: 48

Learning not to get too emotionally attached

Getting emotionally attached to someone is something most of us do without even realizing it. We meet someone who makes us feel seen, understood, or happy, and before we know it, we start depending on them emotionally....

LiaRaven

Influencer Age: 29

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Why do a lot of people assume every divorce ends on bad terms?

My ex wife and I are still on good terms with each other , we both mutually agreed we are better off not being together and better off staying friends for the kids’ sake, our kids are adults now so we decided to part ways...

Influencer Age: 48

Do you think it’s stupid to give yourself fully to your partner?

When I get into a relationship with a girl that is choosing me like I am choosing her , and we are both on the same page as things , Do you think it’s stupid to fully give yourself to her , or should you back up some and...

Influencer Age: 48

I know im dumb for still chasing a would be friendship?

I want to talk still. I guess if I talked to him i would just tell him that I want to tell him more things he’s done that have bothered me. How I don’t feel like he truly understands my emotions are the effects his abuse...

Anonymous

(25-29)