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Search Results: saying no to a guy
How to help someone become more emotionally intelligent?
i'll try to keep this short since no one wants a whole essay. but i've been talking to this guy for almost four months, and i really do like him. we call multiple times a day for hours at a time. he's funny, witty,...
naowhat
Xper 1 Age: 19 How can a shy, quiet girl actually get a boyfriend if guys overlook her?
I do talk but still labeled as quiet. ironically I’m alone all the time cuz I have no boyfriend or husband next to clingy following me 24/7 in a serious relationship chatting laughing. As I don’t have that I’m alone...
Anonymous
(25-29) What did he really mean by calling it a ‘psychological question’ to know about me?
Me and this guy got along quick. We had great friendly banter at the beginning. Then weeks of no contact came between us, when he suddenly does this: He texted me one day, pasting this thing he asked from a group chat we...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is my relationship completely done?
I am crazy about this girl. We had a short but full on relationship. The last two weeks there was arguing then we broke it off and it was mainly her not wanting it. She did consider getting back, but felt a weight off her...
Anonymous
(25-29) How can I cut off a toxic friend without causing drama or guilt?
I feel terrible about the situation with this friend but it genuinely keeps me up at night. I made friends with this girl called Anna some years ago and at first we were total besties but then she got a premonition...
Babyseal23
Xper 3 Age: 28 Is a woman’s past a man’s business?
If a guy is marrying a girl, her past is his business right? women look at men’s trajectory, men look at women’s pst to determine future! A guy needs to know if she’s been up to no good and hooked up with men etc…...
Anonymous
(25-29) Was he leading me on, or did I misread his online flirting?
This is gonna sound very weird and confusing cause I am still very fucking confused. I met this guy online, and be seemed cool we exchanged discords and were talking. I even gave him my number. I have known him...
Anonymous
(30-35) Does my ex truly love me or is he just afraid to lose me now?
We broke up and yet he used to message me now and then and kept in contact. He came to meet me oncei asked him if he wants to say anything but he didn't say anything. After that i decided to get settled with another guys...
Engie
Xper 3 Age: 47 How do you share that you have an SO? Why are some guys so AWKWARD about it?
Guys... some of you make me laugh the way you announce that you're "seeing someone" or have a girlfriend/SO. If I'm seeing someone -- and yes, to me that is synonymous with "serious"/"exclusive"/"boyfriend" -- I just say...
Why do girls act interested then suddenly date someone else instead of me?
Hello i am 20 years old and i never had a girlfriend!!! I don't easily fall for someone and i could probably count girls i really liked on finger The problem is that i follow same exact patern and it happened 3 times in...
Anonymous
(25-29) First meeting in person was awful. Why?
i (22F) study in a capital city in my country second year now, university is very hard for me, i feel very lonely and for the last year I've been extremely depressed. there's a guy (22M), he's gay so its nothing romantic,...
baddiska
Xper 4 Age: 22 Why do people suddenly treat me like their emotional rant sponge?
I have now turned to an emotional sponge for many now. It's just I was the one ranting to everyone. I stopped it, started being good in my skin and with my life, made peace with all my issues cause I don't have any...
Anonymous
(25-29) Does “coworkers aren’t your friends” apply to all social situations?
I fell out with a co worker dropped me off not to my house just to be safe but long story short this guy we both know. Asking me all these questions about him why this and that I just shake my head don’t say anything....
Anonymous
(25-29) How do I move on from loving a man who still won’t love me back?
Okay so I met this guy when I was 11 years old and he was 23. He works for my dad and it started as a little school girl crush. I think he was aware as everytime id see him id go all red in the face and act shy but...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why did this flirty guy say he’s visiting my city, then go silent?
After 1.5 months of no contact, a guy I flirt with on and off texted me on Wednesday saying, "I'm coming to your city this weekend." I kept it casual and replied, "Cool, see you soon." I left the ball in his court to make...
Anonymous
(30-35) What can I do about a security guard who followed me and demanded my number?
The shopping centre I always go to after University has this one huge tall muscular hairy South-Asian, maybe early 30s man that I am lowkey really terrified of, and I'm not talking just appearance, but he stares in a...
Anonymous
(18-24) Should I stay no contact with a guy who lied and treated me like a rebound?
I started talking to this guy 1 month and I thought we were becoming really good friends. Very quickly though it became super intense. He would call me every morning and night, we would do sleep calls, flirt, constantly...
Anonymous
(18-24) Am I doomed to care for my parents forever and never have my own family?
My family all got husbands and wedding and I’m stuck forever at parents senior home as I never had a boyfriend which means I never got marriage and move out to live in a house with babies with my man. 😓 everyone got to...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do you believe some people are mirrors or messengers from God/ universe even after a brief encounter?
For 2 years I had dealt with the long term consequences of a man who made me feel like I was nothing. Even after we stopped talking I had I had been depressed for a long time.. I didn’t even talk to anyone. I dealt with...
Anonymous
(25-29) Advice for Guys: Avoid Unclean Women
Let me tell you a story about a girl I used to know, who actually turns out to be a few years older than me but who lied about her age because she looked very young, even younger than myself, and a lot of people often...
