Am I doomed to care for my parents forever and never have my own family?

[Anonymous]

My family all got husbands and wedding and I’m stuck forever at parents senior home as I never had a boyfriend which means I never got marriage and move out to live in a house with babies with my man. 😓 everyone got to escape their parents have their own life and I can’t. Daily my parents complain of money and never bought a house and divorced so they fight daily and I thought as a child oh when I’m older I’ll escape parents fighting as I’ll have a husband and no I’m stuck as no guy is saying let’s live together no guy loves me 😓

I fear as since I’m not gone from home with a man, I can’t ever rent my own home and have babies as one day mom will lose her job and broke & need live with me forever if I rent a studio. So I’ll never live with a man and have babies and she’ll make sure I never have sex. 😓 I fear what if my dad passes away and then mom depends on him to work daily as they work together then I’ll need take care of mom drive her everywhere daily and never have a man 😓 I’m scared.

I don’t want live alone in a studio, I want a man, be apart of his family, trips, go to stores together , have life together 😓 I can’t be mute alone forever n ever in a studio. I want my own family have kids 😓😓 parties, dress up, love warmth not mute single girl forever n ever in a tiny studio 😓

[Anonymous]

Your parents are adults who made their own choices regarding money, housing, and their relationship. You are currently treating their potential future failure as your current emergency. If your mom loses her job or your dad passes away, it is not your automatic legal or moral duty to sacrifice your chance at a family to be their sole provider. You can love your parents without being their retirement plan.

No one is going to "rescue" you from that house; you have to rescue yourself so that when you meet a man, you are joining him as a partner, not a refugee. Men are attracted to people who have their own direction and boundaries. You deserve the warmth and the family you’re dreaming of. The first step toward that house with babies is deciding that your life belongs to you, not your parents.

Good luck.

[Asker]

They will depend on me take care of them , there’s no escape unless a man marries me so then they won’t bother me.

[Asker]

😓😓😓😓

[Opinion Owner]

Which country you live?

[samael_kmarty]

If you want to escape.
Just ask out any guy. If not work on yourself.
Or ask out me.😂 I won't turn you down unless we are like miles apart.

[Asker]

No guy wants be my boyfriend they only want sex and debt meet family deny live together deny baby guys just want friends with benefits or call me friend

[Asker]

You will be my boyfriend? And call me your girl? 😓

[samael_kmarty]

Yaa sure why not

[samael_kmarty]

Can u take care of me?
In a court ship from however long you want the relationship to stretch?

[samael_kmarty]

Thanks

[Iron_Man]

This is sugar right? I know the whole story between you and your mother and you blocked me years ago. I don’t know why you did that

[Iron_Man]

But you never should put your parents in a nursing home. They took care of you and you should take care of them when they’re older.

[Asker]

I’ll never have husband and babies tho if I take care of them forever.

[Iron_Man]

Unblock me, we can talk about this. I’ll explain to you what you can do.

[Asker]

U have to follow me back to message u.

[Asker]

I gave up. Each time I love guy they don’t like me back. I give up. I lost interest in men. I’ll be alone forever n ever. Life will be just work, eat sleep that’s it.

[Asker]

My partner don’t exist.

[JustMe019]

I don't know about you but I really am. It's my fault though.

[NathanDavis]

that's a choice you also make

[Caurav1997]

Aw send you hugs 🫂
Don't be sad ❤️

[Asker]

I don’t need hear a stupid awww I need a husband!! 😓why wants be my husbnd? 😓😓😓 are there no single guys? Who wants a girlfriend a wife? Who?

[Caurav1997]

Ohk noted maam ❤️🥰

[Asker]

Do u know anyone that is single and need a girlfriend /wife?

[Caurav1997]

Pm me

[jahaims]

You aren't responsible for your parents

[Agape93]

Nope