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Are my boyfriend’s violent outbursts signs he may eventually hit me?
My boyfriend has always turned to violence when he got angry, telling me how much he wants to punch someone or for someone to punch him. It was never directed at me. He’s only talked about hurting others and how he wants...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why do so many women seem unsure about serious relationships today?
It’s truly puzzling to me. On dating apps, most attractive women are “figuring out their dating goals” or “still figuring it out” and it’s a bit disappointing and actually disturbing to me. We live in a society where...
Anonymous
(30-35) Does her new tongue piercing photo mean it’s really hers and real?
i know this girl through her work , she is a cashier at a business i go to , don't follow her on social media but do know some of the other people who work there and did notice her page before but its private so couldn't...
Anonymous
(36-45) Do you prefer a same-gender or opposite-gender gym buddy, and why?
Anonymous replies encouraged for this one. Personally I prefer working out with women for 4 reasons. 1. It is more fun to me when working out with women. 2. It is not as embarrassing to me if I mess up in front of a...
LifeHitMeandRan
Xper 6 Age: 33 Do you meet and date people off the internet? what were your experiences?
Me personally will not meet anyone off the internet until they prove to me they are truly who they say they are , and look like the pictures they shown me , otherwise I won’t waste my time. A friend of mine meets girls’...
How should I respond to people who are very nice but really weird?
Had this happen this evening. Ran into a really weird yet very friendly younger man. The way he was acting had me wondering if he was gay (I'm not). He wasn't creepy about it at least. He was socially awkward, but he...
Anonymous
(36-45) How do I start taking my friend’s much younger boyfriend seriously?
I've been close friends with this girl for around 5 years ago. she's lovely and we got talking as both are children go school together and are friends. Im married and have a 5 year old daughter called Mabel and she's...
Anonymous
(25-29) Addiction, emotional abuse, and a new house: should I stay or leave my husband?
I’m 25, and my life has become a tangled web I’m trying to untangle. My husband, J, is 35, and my ex, B (the father of my child), is 24. I met J two years ago after a long, on-and-off five-year relationship with B. We...
Anonymous
(18-24) Are people right to judge your change when they caused it, and is it fair for people to assume your change was part of the original You?
I've been a little in my head about what other people think about another person around me. I'm not really on good terms with them either, but I think they feel safe around me. Having said that, they tell me about other...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do you try to maintain your life of your own while dating?
Instead of couples who text all day, some days I don't text him at all. On my days off, I always reserve at least 1 day a week where I work my own hobbies without him. I just don't like being too attached to 1 person. So...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why is losing weight so hard for me and how can I stay motivated?
I'm 32 years old and 14 stones (UK size) and I desire to be 9 stones (UK size). Why is losing weight so hard? Every time I try to exercise and loose weight, I lack the motivation to keep it off and then I put the weight...
Glittershine1
Xper 4 Age: 32 On a first meetup, do you put your phone on silent or leave it on?
Ur going to meet up with someone you ve never met in person. Before ur face to face with them, do u put your phone on silent so u can give her your undivided attention? Or do u not even worry about it? With my ex, when we...
RichardCranium6201
Xper 5 Age: 50 Why do white women try to put all the blame on white men for any sort of racial discrimination/hierarchy that existed in the past as well as today?
If this is the game you wanna play you don't get off scot-free
Desserter4
Xper 4 Age: 31 Friend mistook group hangout invite for a date and is telling people—how do I handle this?
To put it simply, me and my two friends were planning on hanging out together. The two of them are in a relationship and I didn't want to third wheel and wanted to bring one more friend. I wanted to bring a friend that I...
Anonymous
(18-24) How do I set healthy boundaries with a flaky, always-late friend?
How do you deal with people who tend to cancel last minute a lot? I can tell she does this to everyone too, often arriving either very late (about 40 mins after the time we agreed on) or just using excuses e. g. something...
Anonymous
(25-29) If you saw someone crying hysterically in a car, would you ask them if they are "okay" or if they need help?
Yesterday, when I was taking my groceries to my car, I noticed a young girl crying extremely hard in a car parked behind me. I don't mean wiping tears from her face, I mean she was rocking back and forth and eventually...
Twodogs0525
Xper 7 Age: 27 Heart monitor wasn’t recording for 30 hours – is my doctor at fault?
I had a serious heart problem In the past. I had surgery to correct it but they said it could come back. So so for a few days ago, I've been experiencing a lot of regular heart beats. I went to my doctor. Before my...
Joe917
Xper 4 Age: 34 How can I stop getting friendzoned and actually get a real date?
I have tried to get a date for my whole life. I am 27 and have never been in a relationship. It hurts and is an embarrassment, I want to fall in love, or even just a companion is good. But I am not getting anywhere....
Anonymous
(25-29) Do you make use of your free will?
I was at a pizzeria and I'm looking at the menu, they have calzones but the spinach and cheese one has no meat... So I'm like hey are these calzones made to order? Yes What do you think about putting sausage in there? The...
Are you losing money buy using gift cards?
It works like this. You buy, give, or recieve a "gift card" or "e gift card". That $ is never spent... either too small to use somewhere, lost, put away... to the tune of over 23 billion a year. The $ sits on the books of...
