Should I stop wearing shorts around my male roommates?

Question

My normal chilling in the apartment attire is a tank top (usually no bra) and a pair of workout shorts or spanx. I've only ever had female roommates, and they all wore the same thing (or less), so it was no big deal. However, I now have one female roommate and two male roommates. The female doesn't seem to care, one of the males is always trying to pants me, and the other male seems slightly uncomfortable.

Do you think I should start wearing something else?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I would not wear something like that around heterosexual men. Even though it doesn't sound like you are trying to entice them and you just wanna be comfortable, sadly guys don't see it that way.

First of all I have a problem with that guy that is always trying to pants you. I would be very careful around him because even though it may come off like a "joke" to you he could be a threat and may be one of those guys who sees a woman wearing little clothing as a woman who is trying to tempt him. Plus the fact that he has no reservations getting physical with you worries me and I would not want to be alone with him for fear of sexual assault.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

well you should stick with what's comfortable :o

i only stay braless when I'm in my bfs room...i put on a bra when I go downstairs even though I don't have to cause the mom doesn't wear one. but mine are perky so I need one lol

one guy likes it and the guys doesnt

i don't see anything wrong with it though. but if you wear a white shirt... id feel uncomfortable too

smexiliciousss · Accepted Answer

Whatever, who doesn't wear that around the house? But you should probably wear the braa.. hhaa

mikkie180 · Accepted Answer

Sometimes when you feel you need to ask a question, it means you already know the answer.

sinful1620 · Accepted Answer

If you like the attention then it doesn't really matter.

sikoo31 · Answer

he probably just thinks your hot.

if would be a tease for me if I hot girl was my roommate, and even more if she walked around in little shorts.

and especially if it were you since you say you're just the kind of girl I want.

poor guy.

sportychicky · Answer

I would tell the guy that is trying to pants you, to stop and tell him how you feel about it. As long as the shirt is not see though wear what you want, it's your place too.

Anonymous · Answer

"Sometimes when you feel you need to ask a question, it means you already know the answer." That guy nailed it.

AllDay · Answer

do you want your one roommate to pants you?  if so then leave it  if not then don't  if I were your roommate I wouldn't say anything and try to not notice

justplayin · Answer

well just make them get use to it... they probably will over time

Anonymous · Answer

y should your roomates dictate what you wear. theyre not your bf.

phife · Answer

just ask him to not and if he still does it he needs to get out of there to mature I mean I would total respect a girl is conferrable to wear that around me I would pants her that just sounds like a perv move

soe11 · Answer

Wear as you wear, be yourself as you were before and ignore others.

jacquesvol · Answer

They just should  get used to it.

Shadoww · Answer

No, some girls wear mini skirts in public.

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