for starters, I can already tell because of how much detail you go into just describing your question. I could truly care less that you think your "highly intelligent" or that your a good dancer. all you needed to say was that your a show off and that you wanted to know how to get better... anywasy, don't go so much into detail when describing yourself. and also, if your talking to someone, try asking more question then talking about yourself. only talk about yourself if that other person asks. and also, being highly intelligent isn't a talent. a talent is being good at a sport, or that you are good at dancing. And being attractive isn't a talent either. lf you think that other people are jealous of you being a show off, trust me.. they arent.. if anything they want to avoid you because you are just annoying. I think you need a reality check.
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Let your awesomeness shine sweety... let your awesomeness shine. The world needs people like you to take them out of their misery.
maybe just one it down a bit. Being a show off and in your face personality all the time can be highly annoying
I have been in a lot of rooms where I was the smartest guy. I was called a show off so many times, when whatever I said was not intended as self promotion or derogatory to other person.
Later I realized that how silly it would be if Leo Messi shows off his football skill against a noob like me, and how bad one would think of Messi's genius. Humility and Kindness makes us likable.
Solution to this problem is 1) Realizing that you show off 2) Laugh at you being an idiot. The best part about the first day I practiced this that I didn't show off and just smiled that I was about to show off but held back. There was a constant smile throughout the day.
Well for one, maybe speak about yourself a little differently. Assuming people are jealous of you because you're this incredibly gifted person just shows you are shallow and insecure. These things go away man, so instead of being a douche about it and act normal. Then people will say that you are a normal dude with above average talents.
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It's good to not care what anyone think's of you. A few things to remember is that one, we are all equal and yes you are a very talented person. That doesn't make you better then anyone else in the room. Cause there is always gonna be someone who is better than you at something, and there is always gonna be someone who you are better than at something. But at the end of the day you gotta realize no matter how good we are at something, we are all equal to each other. Yes you are good at something's but that doesn't make you better then another human being. Cause at the end of the day we are all human and all equal and all amazing to each other. The hard truth you need to learn is that, no one is jealous of you. In fact there probably not even thinking of you. You're right it doesn't matter what anyone thinks of you but you gotta remember you aren't better than anyone else for it, and nobody is jealous of you. If you don't wanna be a show off, instead in conversations. Start listening to what the other person has to say, start asking them about there talents. And encourage them, ask questions about them, and learn about them. Talk and learn about other people more then you do you're self. A humble person, is more likeable then an egotistical person. You're ego won't get you anywhere. But humility will get you everywhere. "Humility is not thinking less of yourself, it is thinking of yourself less". You can still be humble and confident in your self. You just need to learn how.
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