He wants to teach me a video game - am I reading too much in?

My guy friends started bringing this other guy they know from their basketball team the past few times we've all hung out. Him and I seem to get along but like I said we just met. I texted him this morning to find out where we're meeting tonight for someone's birthday. Somehow the texting conversation turned to him teaching me how to play some videogame. He knows I don't play video games. I said I would be really bad at it but he said it didn't matter and he would come teach me. I have no problem with learning to play if he really wants me to, but for some reason the whole thing feels weird, like maybe he likes me. Before I accept I want some opinions. Guys, would you be mildly insistent about teaching a girl you weren't interested in a videogame? From what he said, it sounds like he's going to bring everything to my apartment - isn't that a lot of effort?

Girls (who aren't already gamers), has a guy ever tried to use videogames to flirt with you?


Most Helpful Guy

  • lol if he willing to TEACH you to play video games, id say he's interested haha. especially if he lets you play online and on his account. I personally would not let people play on my account. not even my little brother or my good friends because they will mess up my kills and stats. so if he's willing to teach you and spend HIS game time to teach you, id say he's at least somewhat interested. I would say its a dream for a lot of us guys that game to have a girlfriend that also loves videogames as much as we do.


What Guys Said 3

  • Its obvious that he's interested from what I'm reading here

  • Yes, he's flirting with you...


What Girls Said 1

  • He is only using the video game thing as a way to justify his purpose for coming over. It sounds like he is attracted to you, but whether he really likes you or not is another story. He may just want to see if he has a chance to get into your panties. That's up to you if you want to let him, but don't expect any real feelings from him afterward because it's going to turn into you being a booty call and nothing more. It's up to you how you want it to work out.