Could this stripper like me?

[Big_D]

Howdy all, I've got a bit of a dilemma here. Last weekend I went out to a friends' bucks nights, and we ended up in a Strip club where we spent the rest of the night. This was my first time in a strip club and I had no idea what I was doing, but after a few more drinks and some encouragement from the mates I went and got myself a lap dance. The girl was beautiful and I told her that she was absolutely gorgeous, to which came the return smile and thank you. We started chatting a little bit during the dance and she told me a bit about herself, she told me that she had only been doing this work for a month or two, and she was just travelling around the world and has been for 3 years - so I'm assuming that she might not have the same attitude as many other strippers would?

I ended up buying her a drink and getting another 2 or 3 lap dances from her and each time we talked more, about her work, and life, and I got her real name. One club rule was no kissing, but I still gave her a kiss on the neck and she didn't mind at all. At one point I actually began stroking her back gently and she froze mid-dance as if paralysed. I know she wasn't pretending, because doing that had the exact same effect on my ex-girlfriend, she loved it.

At the end of the dance I kissed her hand, she hugged me and kissed me on the cheek and I left again. By then it was 3:30am and I rang my mates to find out that they had all left in a taxi... I had a few bucks left in the bank, but not enough to get home... so feeling a bit stupid I walked back into the club, found the girl and asked herif by any chance she caught a taxi home in the same direction as I would, so that we could share a cab until her stop and I would then pay for the rest of the trip myself. I'll point out that at NO POINT did I make any indication that I wanted anything more from her than to share a cab as far as she needed to go (and this is true as well) She said she only caught a cab 5 minutes down the road (telling me the suburb she lives in) and that she could instead give me $20 to help. I didn't want to accept her money but what choice did I have, I had to get home.

So she put the money into my hand so that the bouncers wouldn't see, I again kissed her hand told her that she is a great person, she gave me another hug and I left. During one of the dances she told me that she would be working the next sunday when I told her that I wouldn't mind seeing her again. She said just coming for a drink would be cool it doesn't have to be another dance. So I intend to go back there this coming Sunday to first of all return her $20, but also to apologize for the numerous lap dances, because I would have never thought I'd ever pay a girl to do anything for me, it just never felt right with me... but if I hadn't then I wouldn't have met her. On Sunday I'm also going to ask her if I could take her out to lunch some time, and will offer her my number.

So what do you girls think? Any chance of a positive outcome?

Updates

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I ran out of space but maybe I should have added that she is going to leave Australia in 2 months time, to continue her world travel - if that makes any difference at all. So she is not a "full time" stripper, just doing it because it is decent money.

[Anonymous]

I think it is highly unlikely. I was a stripper on and off for 2 years. We're there for the money- not to meet guys. It is like a horrible little game to keep as many guys hooked as possible so that you always have a 'regular' crowd. She wants you to be a regular. If she wanted you as anything more- she would've indicated that by giving you a day that she has off.

Remember that girls have more facets than beauty. Strippers are their own breed. I'd say that 80% are drug infested or alcoholic, 10% thieves, and 95% catty drama queens. It got to the point that working with them wasn't worth the money. (And I went back to college)

Best of luck to you in your stripper endeavors. No harm in offering your number (unless something bad happens to her, many girls keep all of the phone numbers as potential leads).

[liquidlithium]

Coming from an ex-dancer

Its all part of the game hunny, you know how many stories I made up to squeeze every last dime I could from someone?

Think about it. Its nothing to give someone $20 for a cab ride when they just spent that much on you, and guarantees a return customer.

[Anonymous]

Please don't ever think a stripper likes you. Usually they are playing you for money they see club guys as suckers

[jaystone]

hey bro ha I can't help but laugh because so many guys have been caught in this trap. Your in love with a stripper and there is no way your going to have any type of relationship outside the club. I used to take girls home from strip clubs all the time but only because of one thing. I used to deal and during a lap dance or whatever I would asked if she likes to blow or roll or whatever and most of them do and would come back to party after hours. I used to deal the girls blow out the back door and they would all be doin lines t\in the dressing room the whole night. DRUGS AND MONEY bro that's all that's going to do it.

[spyderman]

Here's the deal bud. God gave you a brain and a penis but not enough blood to use both. Anytime there is money on the table, you don't f*** around. Always remember that, it doesn't matter if it is business, life, family, so forth. If you give a girl money, never put your heart into it. She knows you are going to give her cash so she can use you to get more money.

Here is the deal, if you should so happen to pursue her (I strongly advice against it) to it outside of the club. I know girls that danced and rarely (if ever) do they go out with club patrons. If they do, it is probably something monetary related.

[NNgirl]

she seems nice, but remember that being nice to people is her job. don't get 2 attached