He doesn't post pics of us. SHould I worry?

[DaisyDawn]

So I post pics of me and my boo all the time on instagram and fb. We've been together for six months now,and everything is great! except, he doesn't post ppics of us...me. Not at all. I'm not his #wcw. He doesn't show me off to the world. :(( Like he's not proud of me :(. And its not like I'm ugly. I'm very attractive. I'm proud he is mine and it shows. But I can't say the same for him. The last pic he posted was of him and his car with the caption "Man I love my mustang." that was a couple weeks ago. I liked it then. But today I went to that pic and said "what about your girl?" and he replied "i mean I love you most but I still love my car. #GuysAndTheirToys" WTF? I replied "oh." I am so pissed right now. What should I do? should I worry?

[oddbutnot]

I know that a lot of people are going to say that you're overreacting at the fact he hasn't posted any pictures of you two together but I have to disagree. There is a reason he is not posting about you on social media and I don't think any of them are worth the excuse. I would ask him about it. Tell him how you feel. Here are 4 reasons that he may not post pictures of the two of you together.

1) He might not want to introduce you to his family or friends.
(If you have met his family and friends, obviously you can cross this one off the list)

2) He doesn't want to get serious yet and he is trying to keep his options open.
(Do you know if he approves any of the pictures that you tag him in?)

3) He has a girlfriend on the side.

4) He doesn't like the pictures the two of you take together.
But if he did happen to have low self esteem, I promise you, he would still be posting pictures of his beautiful girlfriend. If he is posting pictures of his CAR... then he is the type to post pictures of his attractive girlfriend.

[Anonymous]

Notice How it was a Male up there calling woman "a classic needy woman" A. disrespectful. B. She has a valid point.
There are plenty of men out there and if this one is refusing to meet your needs which are actually not that much of a high demand to post a pic and he knows this would make you happy. Go find a guy that will post so many that you have to tell him to stop posting. !
we only get one life and our happiness is important !
I say dump him and find a guy who wants to make you happy !
Best Wishes

[missjane23]

I think you are overreacting. My boyfriend would not post a picture of me on his and I only posted one of him. IMy boyfriend isn't a very public person and I accept that... maybe your boyfriend is too? Talk to him? But it isn't that big of a deal. He said he loves you there... that's claiming you...

[myspacemybroke]

No, you're being the classic needy woman. Just because a person doesn't inform the internet of how much they love their "boo" on a regular basis doesn't mean they don't care. Personally I probably wouldn't post many pictures either. It seems really impersonal. Makes the relationship seem like it's some big show thing of "hey look at us everybody, we're so in love and happy together, aren't we a good couple? Come validate us." Instead of just being with the person you care about and being happy with that.

[asimple1]

I have the same issue but I have been in a relationship with him for 6 years.

[MrNight]

He loves you but dosnt want to show you of. He could be scared that some other guy will take you. But you really shouldn't worry about It. My girlfriend posts our pictures on Facebook and I put them on Twitter because that's our thing. I also use on of our pics asmy picture on this website.

[Awd1980]

I admit I am here, to figure out my ex too.. She is engaged, but I think she is needy and he desperate. Her family cut her off over a fight; she has toxic parents... yes, I am a Psychologist... and a guy. To answer your question; it sounds like your guy has emotional issues: he does have something to hide, or does not feel worthy of you... its a guy thing. He thinks you are going run off with the first guy who smiles at you. So, he does not post you. Or, maybe he suspects you of something... and can't trust you? Maybe he is seeing someone on the side? Maybe, sadly, you are not as high on his list as you felt?

I have a question, about my ex. Who I still miss, after four years, and a very stupid break up when she ran away... the only picture of her and her now boyfriend, Now Engaged, is the two of them together, was taken by her grand parents, and he never shared it on Facebook. It just stayed on her grandparents page. All of their three pictures, was all "friend/bro hugs." and a sort of together picture, she is laying on him on a boat chair, but there is a 'space" between them... its werid... Nothing says they are engaged. Her guy, posted a single picture of a ring on her hand, that is it!, and the rest of pictures of him with animals. And a bunch of convos with friends and family... I could not even find her facebook. He didn't even tag her name... write it in. she is 30, he is 33... I am 15 years older then her. lol. Her mother helped break us up four years ago... because I didn't put up with her. When we were just dating, there is one picture somewhere, her mother never gave it to me. My ex was sitting on my lap, and had her arms around me, and we were kissing- that was just dating... see my point? I want her back... but she lives a few states away now... and I really don't think she is happy, just alone/ lonely and with this "off" guy who is really more emotionally needy then she ever was lol!!

[kovalinkie19]

You're 22, you shouldn't need to rely on Facebook etiquette and trends. He can love you and not show you off on Facebook. This generation... Perhaps he doesn't like public displays of affection. You should worry if you keep getting mad about such insignificant things.

[Jsonason]

He was just cracking a joke, nothing to get upset or worry about. I don't feel a need to show my relationship to the rest of the world, in fact I think the standard couple pictures you'd expect are completely absent. Hell, we've been living together for four years now and she still has a blank Facebook relationship status and I see no reason to worry.

[Anonymous]

you should worry, if I had a girl like you say you are id post a pic of us, kinda like this girls profile pic link but it would say something different from her and me

[Anonymous]

You are overreacting.
And if you're that concerned you should probably just talk to him about it rather than trying to drop hints or expect him to read your mind and realize that he should be flooding his social network pages with pictures of you.

[dave4u]

dont internalize