16 and never kissed a girl

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I am 16 and have as little experience with girls as basically anyone could. I play 3 varsity sports and have a 3.9 GPA, so I'm really too busy to have much of a social life other than some good friends.

Would you find it hard to go out with me? I'm a little concerned that girls will find this to be more and more of a turnoff as I get older.

mormongirlmichl · Accepted Answer

I'd date you...plain and simple...I understand your lifestyle completely...except I don't play 3 sports; I have 2 jobs and I volunteer. Plus I have like a 3.8 GPA...So we both wouldn't have much time, but when we did it would be quality time...do you see where I'm going here... (I'm not gonna date you if that's what you're thinking...) You need to find a girl with similar interest and priorities. A girl who is involved in something and who has good grades...No some girl who does nothing all the time because then she'll always be bugging you to hang out with her and she'll get upset that you don't spend enough time together...you'll drop out of one sport to hang out with her every Wednesday, then your GPA will go down...and before you know it you'll break up  because you're too different! Opposites attract, but keep the opposites similar...I don't know if I'm making sense...I think it's late and my brain has melted...lol let me know if you don't get what I said...but you should, with that 3.9 GPA... ;)

DiaRiles · Accepted Answer

Intelligence is never a turn-off.

Arrogance is. And never getting to see your boyfriend is.

So if you do three sports and have a 3.9 GPA, just keep your ego under control.

And if you DO get a girlfriend, you have to make time for her or she won't stay. Spending quality time together is important - and be prepared to feel the inexplicable urge to spend LOTS of quality time together, even though you can't necessarily do so.

And no experience is cute, so just be honest and let us laugh at you when you do something ridiculous to show how inexperienced you are. It's okay. =]

Paper-Thin-Walls · Accepted Answer

I had my first actual kiss when I was 16. It was both of ours first kiss. You only get better with practice, and most girls are understanding if you are inexperienced-- some may even think it's cute. : P Girls like you for more than how well you kiss, but once you become a good kisser women will enjoy kissing you. Plus, word travels among friends. ; )

vanwa-meleth · Answer

I personally don't think of those traits as a turn off. Some girls really appreciate a hard worker, smart student, and athlete!  However, some girls may be discouraged by the fact that you are too busy for much of a social life. But I'd say you just need a girl who is also cares as much as you about sports and school. There are girls out there who are in the same situation.

snowluvr · Answer

No I wouldn't, I played sports and everything in hs too and I barely had time for myself let alone anyone else! but it was while I was doing the things I loved so much that took up all my time that I meet guys and I knew that we shared the same passions in life so it was ok that we didn't have as much time to spend together as some other couples did. If its any girl even worth your time she will care about you and respect you even more for the things you do!

Anonymous · Answer

It's not a turnoff, by any means but it might make things a little difficult.  Assuming that you're chatty and outgoing enough, it probably would cause no problems, but if you're really really shy due to your lack of experience,it could be a little dodgy.  If you had a girlfriend do you think you'd make time to spend with her?  Does it bother you that you have little experience? I don't think it should.

sweetaspie · Answer

No, it isn't a turn-off at all. I would rather be with a man that never kissed a girl as opposed to someone who has been around the block and back. It shows that you have self-respect, girls like that in a guy. I wouldn't find it hard to go out with someone who is smart and goal-oriented at all. That sounds like what you are!

ksw792 · Answer

I would probably go out with you also. You shouldn't feel bad about not having much experience, I don't have any experience with a guys, and I don't feel bad about it. You deal with it in your own way. But I don't think you have anything to worry about. :D

SarahBabeeXO · Answer

all that sounds pretty attractive to me : )

who cares if you haven't had much experience?!?

you've got SO many more years for girlfriends, relationships and other things.

...oh and its deff. NOT a turnoff! so don't worry about that as you get older!

cheerangelcharity · Answer

I'd probably go out with you if I find you attractive and you actually had time for us to actually date, not just "go out."

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