What Is With The Questions Asked On GirlsAskGuys?

Explorer Age: 38

So I've been on this site a year or less than that, I don't bother to remember. I've answered alot of questions on here and one thing always remains the same.

The site gets the same questions over and over again, even though the stories and situations are different. But frankly, the types of questions on here I'm finding are getting more and more idiotic as time goes on.

When did we as a society stop trying to use our brains and figure out the situation ourselves instead of quickly running to another person or Q&A site like this to get the answer that is always so blatantly obvious.

Do we not have common sense anymore? When did we all lose the ability to rationalize and think things through? So I might as well answer everyone's questions in this article all at once because I don't want to see these types of questions anymore:

1. Does he/she like me?

My answer: Doesn't matter what he or she does/doesn't do. It doesn't matter that your situation is different. There are no ifs ands or buts. If you like them ask them out. I don't care if your scared of rejection. Guess what. Everyone is scared and everyone has gotten rejected. If they say no, then they aren't worth dating. How is that not simple to understand?

2. I'm dating this married man/woman and...

My answer: I don't care what the problem is, the very first thing you need to do is stop dating someone who's taken, I don't care if they are in the middle of getting a divorce or don't longer love their spouse. YOU DO NOT DATE A MARRIED OR TAKEN PERSON.

3. Do girls masturbate?

My answer: Yes. Duh. I should slap you in the head for asking that.

4. Who pays for dates?

My answer: If you asked you pay. If he/she asked, they should pay. If it was mutual then go dutch. But frankly who cares about who pays. If you find yourself paying all the time. Then you're being used. Quit dating them.

5. What should I wear to attract guys/girls or What are guys/girls attracted to?

My Answer: Any question related to finding out what can make you more appealing to the opposite sex is a dumb question for one simple fact. If you have to do anything to make you seem more appealing to someone else then why bother associating with them. I personally only date or befriend people who accept me for me.

Those are the types of questions that I am tired of seeing on this site. So if you get a blunt answer from me, it isn't because I'm mean or trying to be mean but I don't see when as a society we all got so stupid. Don't we go through at least 12 years of education for a reason?

Think before you ask people, that's all I care about.

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laurami Follow
Xper 6 Age: 35

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it's because we all have the same questions, but we think that our different circumstances make them different than the ones that have already been answered. perhaps go to a different part of the site like "other" or "style" & if your so bored on here, then why spend time on the site? a lot of people use it regularly 2 give advice, or others come on when they really need help/someone 2 help them feel better. the q's will ALWAYS be the same when it comes down to it, so if your bored don't go to this site.

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lifes_curve_ball Follow
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Haha well this site has more or less a forum style thing going, and on any forum there are constant repetitions especially since people rarely do a search for their question before just posting it.

Go to an automotive forums, questions on vehicles are repeated, computer forums have repetitions of computer related questions, therefore it only makes sense that this thing will have repetitions on its general area.

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Markezzo Follow
Xper 6 Age: 32

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You've been here a long time so it's no wonder you tire of the same questions, and I agree on this list for the most part.

However! I would argue that every person needs to hear answers that are directed at them personally. Different people are looking for the same answers but they need to be convinced differently in ways that speaks to their way of thinking. And that's why the community here can be such a valuable source of moral support for some that are still inexperienced with love.

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Cool-Relax Follow
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You forgot the questions about hair and eye color. Mind if I take that one?

...it doesn't matter! Everyone has a preference, very few people limit themselves to them. You don't have to go out and dye your hair or get contacts to make someone like you.

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Veshzan Follow
Xper 4 Age: 36

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I think this is a little mean. People just want some advice they are more uncertain/unsure on what to do and they just want some advice to "prompt" them into doing what they allready know they should do. Maybe your worlds just to black and white and mines just a big shade of grey.

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obligations Follow
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Here's some more:

6. What turns a guy/girl on? My Answer: Sex. Duh.

7. He/she cheated on me what do I do? My Answer: Dump them. Duh.

8. Should I forgive my ex? My Answer: No. Duh.

9. Anything related to the penis My Answer: It likes anything you do to it. Only blow it if you want. And make sure he cleans it.

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confusedbuthappy Follow
Xper 3 Age: 35

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Just personally, we don't always work things out ourselves. I ask questions on here to get other points of view on a situation, which is a great thing to have when trying to solve any problem.

While I'm not saying that some of the questions on here aren't a bit silly, I think it's pretty rude to slam the most common ones by calling the people who ask them stupid.

If you have a problem with the questions asked on here, don't waste your time reading them.

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lovefaithful Follow
Xper 3 Age: 38

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Ok, I have only been on this site for few weeks. The few questions I see most asked is:

1. does true love exist? YES

2. older guys who've never been with a girl wierd? NO

3. LDR work? YES it can

4. s/he cheated, can I trust them? NO

5. the ex still wants to be friends, is that ok? NOt really

6. should I cheat on my SO? No

and a whole bunch of other REPEAT questions... but I can't think of any more!

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Mesonfielde Follow
Master Age: 32

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DoeJohn, we cannot give a 100% certain answer to the "Does he/she like me" questions, because what seems like friendship to others is an expression of love for another, and vice versa.

And really, you can't tell what "GUYS" or "GIRLS" are attracted to, because it differs from person to person, which makes it a completely dumb question to ask.

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iwashere Follow
Xper 5 Age: 30

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I like how straightforward you are with your opinion. Also, I'm pretty new on this site. However, I kind of disagree with you on some of this. The reason this site exists is because people want to ask the same questions over and over. If everything were black and white, they could just make a site with a list of bullets about dating. The point of the site is that everyone has the same concerns, but the circumstances, unique to them, make their questions different and still worth answering.

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toulouse Follow
Xper 7 Age: 34

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My answer: There are no ifs ands or buts. If you like them ask them out. I don't care if your scared of rejection. Guess what. Everyone is scared and everyone has gotten rejected. If they say no, then they aren't worth dating. How is that not simple to understand?

- AGREED!!!

It's one thing if the girl or guy is gone to another city, country or planet..

Here you see them everyday, they walk past you everyday.

TALK TO THEM,& FIND OUT & move on with your life.

Remember that -life - Get one.

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luverzya Follow
Xper 3 Age: 30

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So if you don't like q&a sites why are you on this one...and if you want to think for yourself why are YOU on here asking dumb questions like everyone else...it seems to me like you're a hipocrit :( sorry but you people have to agree with me that if this chick doesn't want other people to ask dumb questions then she shouldn't either and if she wants others to start thinking for themselves why is she on here not thinking for herself...to me it doesn't make sense..and sorry again :) :(

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NotJustAnotherGuy Follow
Explorer Age: 32

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You're encouraging people to not ask questions. That's simply stupid. People NEED to ask questions more. Not make decisions based on their gut. People coming to this site already have thought of an answer for their question.. but are looking for different perspectives. That's what makes an INTELLIGENT human being. Not some egotistic asshole who thinks they're answer is the right and only answer. No such thing as dumb questions. Just dumb statements-- which leads me to your article here.

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NotJustAnotherGuy Follow
Explorer Age: 32

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The ignorance of this article is outstanding. You wonder why the same questions keep being asked?? Because a new generation comes around every year.. and they are experiencing the same as the last when it comes to girls/boys... and so they have the same questions. DUH!

My Answer: Stop trying to be a know it all, and realize that people look to other people's opinions to get a general census on what's a good thing to do and what's a bad thing to do.

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hunglowman4you Follow
Xper 6 Age: 55

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Hmmmm you have an awesome bitch about those stupid questions on here,,,

My question for you is why are you so serious about other peoples questions?

Do you have humor in your life?

If not,,, why can you just read these silly questions and take them as face value then,,,

You are getting yourself rallied up for no reason,,,

Relax,,, breathe in,,,, breathe out,,,,,

Ya know?

Life is awesome if you take things lightly from a day to day basis,,,

Good luck!

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Littletad Follow
Guru Age: 40

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451 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Funny, some of those I haven't seen. And I've answered some of the most unusual and interesting questions just this past week. Last week was pretty good too. If you think this site is dull on repeating questions. Ask some good ones yourself.

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The_Box Follow
Xper 7 Age: 31

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I disagree with number 5 entirely. If you're a loser, you shouldn't act like that's okay everyone else should just get over your flaws. You should work to correct them for your own sake and the sake of others.

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AmyHelen Follow
Xper 4 Age: 33

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So true.

People need to learn to use a little thing called the search bar.

Plus what is with all the new questions on here where people say this site makes me so horny?

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cuterunner15 Follow
Xper 4 Age: 32

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I really like this, and its completely true. I especially like #2 about dating married or taken guys/girls, nothing p*sses me off more than people that don't respect that.

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silentpro92 Follow
Xper 4 Age: 31

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I agree with everything except your first point. Sure, you can generalize the answer as much as you want and assume love is trial-and-error, but you can't simply deduce that the answer will be that simple. If you are, then you're trivializing human emotion - something that is subjective from person to person.

The reason people ask questions like, "Does he/she like me?" is because people are naturally curious more or less, insecure about who they like; they like to be validated.

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HardAppleCider Follow
Xper 6 Age: 40

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Thank you miss.

I have been responding with answers like these pretty much since I've been on here.

It's good to see that these answers are obvious to more people than just me :)

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BlackSuperman Follow
Xper 3 Age: 47

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Hell yeah! These knuckleheads... whoo! They ass be damn askin dumb sh*t all the damn time- you be like, 'is this mofo retarded or sum sh*t?', I come away hoping that these sumbitches don't breed!

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