Guys why do you spontaneously ignore a girl out of the blue for no reason?

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Its very cowardice and rude! I seem to get that a lot. Ill meet a guy get his number then out of the blue he will stop texting me or calling me even when I'm the first to write or call. If you don't like us why don't you just say so? We are human too not vampires. Its ridiculous. I met this guy last week who invited me over his house he said I had an attitude because I said he was being disrespectful to me. and then we settled our differences. but now he has been ignoring me.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

ive been in your shoes once the aggressive side of a girl comes out, guys get scared and think your too dramatic and not laid back so they run away and disappear. happened to me too. its strange, because in my heart I really like him and actually I love him, but when he does things that make me mad like disrespect you described, I wanna stand up for myself and give him a piece of my mind hoping he would be more sincere next time, but all it does is drive men away. they assume were bitches and run off even though we were the ones that were insulted and disrespected.

ive learned that sometims its for the best, when a guy doesn't value your emotions and doesn't respect you and doesn't understand why you were upset in the first place, he doesn't care to work things out to keep you around, then he doesn't understand you at all and is emotionally not attached to you. so its best you both go separate ways. sometimes people just don't click and bump heads, you may be attracted to each other but not understand ones emotions and that's the killer of most relationships and marriages.

cavmanier · Accepted Answer

When you meet new people they tend to be different than how they initially led on to be. They may want to have a good time one night or they are just scared to  be serious with someone or you are 1 of 10 girls he's talking to. You can't take people serious when your dating them.

WeaponZero · Accepted Answer

I don't.  But yes you put him off because he thought you had an attitude and he can't tell the difference between you having a backbone or being blunt and being a bitch.  Apparently some people can't tell the difference.

Anonymous · Answer

You answer your own question... He feels like you have an attitude... He's not feeling you. So he's just not that into you.

Kain6th · Answer

Kill the attitude and maybe he'll stop ignoring you. I would ignore you too from that description.

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