All Questions

Do you believe that a 'spark' or 'chemistry' can be one sided?

When someone feels a chemistry between them and another person, can it really ever be one sided, or is it really always reciprocated (simple logic would dictate that it is always reciprocated because of the nature of...

LittleSally

Editor Age: 37

If you're a regular customer and the cashier remembers your order and name would you assume that person is just friendly or romantically interested?

This question was kinda inspired by that show Virgin Territory where a girl thought her local coffee shop's cashier might be also interested in her since he eventually starting remembering her regular order. They even...

stillagoodgirl

Guru Age: 31

Guy compliments my hair, what that means?

One guy compliment me, he said: By the way.. I really like your hair!! Could this mean something more? Or just that what he says, he only likes my hair... Please help lol.

Aurora95

Xper 5 Age: 31

Relationships

Best friend tried to seduce me! (HELP)

This girl i known for ages!! she's my best friend and last night she told me to come over to her place.. i thought nothing of it so i come over an we just start talking about stuff an she turns on music and im sitting at...

ChildishGambino

Xper 5 Age: 29

How to know if a guy in a shop likes you or is just very friendly?

Everytime I see him he seems to clam up from a far, when I catch him he pretends his eyes were not on me. When I approach the counter to pay, sometimes he smiles and says hey. Other times he asks how I am and where I am...

kindgirl21

Xper 5 Age: 33

Dating

Is it emasculating to have your girlfriend drive you around?

I've started dating this girl who has her drivers license and a car. I myself have neither. She picks me up and drives me around when we go out, but I've been told by other girls that this can have an emasculating effect...

Jakee1354

Xper 4 Age: 28

Guys if you don't text a girl a day, what's usually on your mind (topic: texting)?

So this guy and I have known eachother for more than a month, we met like somewhere in April? At that time I was dating another guy, and the other guy and I were friends, but he started to playfully joke with me through...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What eye color do girls find most attractive?

I have dark green eyes and I've gotten a lot of compliments. What color really catches your attention?

Ryan_Hansen

Xper 5 Age: 28

Is 6'1" (186 cm) tall? (Poll included)?

I am a 17 yo guy. Is 6'1" tall enough for a girl? Do I have to be 7'0"?

ThomasM115

Xper 5 Age: 28

Tomorrow is my boyfriend's birthday?

So tomorrow is my boyfriend's birthday. He is the type of guy that is really cute, and therefore a lot of girls are attracted to him. I am a little worried that tomorrow on Facebook, some girl will try to post something...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is a Mexican man flirting with a girl if he calls her 'mija'?

I know the literal translation of 'mija' means 'my daughter'. But I'm wondering if there is a context in which a guy uses it as a flirty term, because I've never heard it used that way.

Anonymous

(30-35)

What's the difference between quirky and weird?

What do you think the difference between quirky and weird is? Is quirky when someone's different but their differences can make then endearing or fun? And weird is they're just awkward and do things that make people a...

Jordahn

Xper 7 Age: 37

My boss is a registered sex offender?

I am a CNA at a locally owned assisted living facility. My manager is seriously one of the worst people I have ever met. One day... she decided to disclose to me that she has 9 felonies and is a registered sex offender. I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do people repeat things they think are funny?

Like I watch TV with someone and a funny show is on and they repeat every other line. It's kind of annoying. Why do people do this? Do you do it?

Anonymous

(30-35)

We're both too stubborn to text first?

I liked this guy for a while, but we sort of fell out of touch. Lately he's been liking all of my pictures and tweeting me. I want us to "talk" again and give it another shot, but I don't wanna text him first. I want...

TaylorHey

Xper 5 Age: 31

Good excuse or rain check?

So I asked this girl to go putt putting with me and a couple of friends the next day, at the time she said "sure sounds like a lot of fun:)" I text her the next day telling her the time and she says -I'm so sorry it's one...

Anonymous

(30-35)

So for the infamous lap pillow that many boys enjoy. My question is, do girls allow other girls to put their heads on their lap?

Many times, the lap pillow is meant for the opposite sex, as a boy I already know that I wouldn't allow another boy to put their head on my lap, but would girls allow another girl to put their head on their lap?

TheCuriousGuy

Xper 5 Age: 32

Family & Friends

My dad acts childish and is hot tempered?

Im 18 and to give a bit of background info, my mom is the provider of the family, she works 24/7 and cleans house and basically does EVERYTHING. My dad is obese and has a job but its not steady because he's a financial...

septemberbay

Xper 6 Age: 30

I feel ugly, every guy I know says I am and so do my female friends. :\ Does that mean their right?

I've had every guy I've been with and known basically say I'm ugly. The guys I've been with straight up said that I'm ugly and can't expect anyone to be attracted to someone that looks like me, other guys have called me a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Why do I attract so many obsessive/clingy or desperate men?

So a lot of guys seem to be clingy with me or obsessive I met this guy once. I met him through friends. I knew him for a week and he wanted to move to New Hampshire or Maine with me. I live in Connecticut. He kept on...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Guys, why is model material not girlfriend material?

I'm 18 years old and have still never had a boyfriend. I really liked this guy for many years, and when I told him he said models are to fake and not girlfriend material! I've been runaway modeling for years now, so I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do people think Megan fox is hot?

She's overrated, and average, in my opinion... so why do people think she's hot... and yes, to that girl who thinks she looks like her, that's on here... I don't care... she's not HOT

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Who thinks texting their ex is considered cheating?

Who thinks texting their ex and lying about it and deleting their text history is sketchy? Maybe not necessarily cheating.. but something has to be going on there... right?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Just found out my wife was a hooker, slept with 600+ men?

we have been married 1month years and she just sat me down and said she was a hooker for 3 years in amsterdam and estimates she's slept with around 600 men. i dont know what to do... how can i look past this... what...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I've heard that if a guy texts you "Heyy" using 2 y's every times he texts you it means something? is that true?

I just want to know because this guy (that i've heard kinda likes me) texts me that every time before he texts anything else and I just want to know because I've heard it's a way of flirting or something.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do many girls squeak when they sneeze?

It is pretty obvious that it's fake. Annoyed me for a long time until one slipped up and squeaked a second after the sneeze.

Panzer103

Xper 6 Age: 32

Why do girls fake laugh?

Its pretty obvious to guys. Its demoralizes us as well when we can tell you're just laughing to make us feel "funny"

Strivous

Xper 4 Age: 28

Break Up & Divorce

He blocked me on Instagram after we left our breakup on good terms?

We dated for 1 year and a half. We took a break exactly 1 month ago due to fighting and him not thinking he loved me. Then he said he missed me and we got back together. Then we got in the same argument as we did before...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flexible girls? What is your opinion?

Hi guys umm I'm an aerialist so I'm very flexible and bendy!!! I was wondering what guys opinions of flexible girls were do you like them more of less?

circus_freak

Xper 4 Age: 30

Why is he so shy if he's so HOT?

This guy I'm dating is so shy! I swear he avoids me because he secretly thinks I'm not actually into him or something. He is so sweet, super handsome, tall, and he's even got a great career.. But I don't get it? Why is he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why are young black women not older than 30 hungry for a white man/date interracially exclusively?

I've noticed this trend over the last few years where black women are extremely keen on dating a white guy. Not only that, but they completely denounce the idea of dating a black guy. Some black women call it dating...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does a guy mean when he says that your unique and special?

Before I left on a three month trip the guy I liked'hugged me closely, kissed me on the cheek a few times and told me I was special and unique. that all other girls are the same but that I am different and I shouldn't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, when you text, do you usually use exclamation points for every single remark? It just seems so girly?

Guys, when you text, do you usually use exclamation points for every single remark? Especially just a run of the mill conversation. It just seems so girly...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does a guy mean when he says you are gorgeous?

I have had so many guys tell me I am gorgeous, but I have no clue what they mean! Sometimes I think they do it just for attention, or because they like me. I just want to know what it means when a guy calls me gorgeous!

Anonymous

(25-29)