Guys, why do you ignore your girlfriend when you are stressed?

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My boyfriend of seven months recently moved home and we've only been apart for three weeks. the past week he's been distant and not wanting to call/facetime or make plans for me to visit. i thought he was just being a jerk and trying to get out of being with me. I told him i wanted to end things cause him ignoring me was painful and not working. it turns out that he's been having home trouble and his parents kicked him out of his house and that's why he has been distant and not wanting to plan my visit. so of course i don't want to break up because he wasn't being a jerk on purpose and i want to be there for him. the last thing he texted me was "i have to go, I'm sorry, i love you too." and he hasn't said anything else. I've sent a few texts saying I'm sorry i made it about me, i didn't know what was going on, i love you and I'm here for you. he hasn't blocked me or told me we are done. this all happened in one day and it hasn't been 24 hours since we last talked so do you think he is done with me or just needs space to figure things out? why won't he let me be there for him and help? and how long should i wait to check on him?
Guys, why do you ignore your girlfriend when you are stressed?
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