Girls do the same thing. I'm in the same situation now. Online long-distance relationship lasted for eight months. Best I can tell we're broken up now - she cut off contact a month ago, stopped answering in the middle of our last conversation and deactivated her Facebook (our main means of communication) two days later without announcement. Part of me, the irrational part that still loves her, is still holding out. She's under a lot of pressure at school. Part of me, the rational part that remembers her questioning a month before this happened whether we'd get to meet in person, knows I'm being deliberately ignored. She's still active on Instagram (which I know next to nothing about), but either hasn't noticed or ignored my friend request there.
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This is a TYPICAL male behaviour, and I get that shit all the time.
We want to be ALONE when we deal with problems. I know as a girl you would do the opposite and seek support from the people you love, and therefore you feel excluded because he doesn't share his problems with you, but this is really how we handle things. Remember he's a guy. he doesn't has the same logic as you.
Just respect it because if you don't, you will present yourself as an additional problem on top of those he already has. Now he has to manage your emotions as well because you feel hurt by his behaviour.
I had the same problem. This is a classic seriously. Just let him be. he'll come back when he's done.
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My girlfriend is like that when she's stressed.
We're still working that one out.
Do your best to remember what he's feeling, and talk to him (when things are a bit calmer) about keeping up with you and making sure you know where he's at emotionally. My girlfriend and I are getting better at it (her more communicative, me less freaked out)... slowly. Good luck!We guys have a habit of swallowing insults and not dump troubles on someone we love. So, yes, give him space - do remind him that you will be there for him whenever he is ready. Love and affection is motivating factor to win over troubles
Give him some space and the next time he is stressed, don't add any by pressuring him. Some people want support when they have problems, others want distance. He will probably come around.
coz i wanna calm down... i need some time alone :(
may be he need sometime... so wait for sometime... and see what happens
I ignore everyone when im stressed
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