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OKCupid users admitting to drug use openly... why?

OKCupid's match questions ask about drugs and I see some users openly answering that they do drugs(harder drugs) occasionally. While I am glad that I get to know beforehand, I want to know why some openly admit they do...
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Can I use Ambi fade cream for oily skin all over my face?

I have acne scars on my face and some discoloration. I was wondering if I could put it all over my face and leave it in for 30 min and wash it off. Has anyone done this? I'm scared because I'm olive and it might fade my...
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Can a girl be the reason why a guy changes?

can a girl be the reason for a guy change? I never gave up on my ex and he made me dodge a bullet. he was honest and told me he was gonna hurt my feelings and that he was not sh*t. he felt that way when his friends left...
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How can you tell if a guy likes you through text?

I've been texting this guy and he send long messages and asks about my interests. When I asked him what he looks for in a girl he sent a long message and at one point in it, he said "I hate trashy girls, which you don't...
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She called it a movie date. What did it mean?

Went out with this chick from work to the movies. Nothing happened other than a hug at the end where she put her head on my chest. She says: "Thanks for the movie date"... here is the catch she is talking to someone else,...
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Accidentally sent semi-nude pictures to ex?

Hi, I was snap-chatting my boyfriend and I stupidly clicked my ex's name . It was just a pic of my bum and back through a mirror reflection. (you can't see my face but he knows its me) Should I apologize? Ignore it?...
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Does anyone else see Hal (from the movie Megamind) as the stereotypical nice guy?

Think about it: - He had a huge crush on hot girl Roxanne - He felt entitled to her because he was her friend - He spent every waking moment trying to impress her and win her over - When he got super powers, he...
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My boyfriend told me to shut the f*** up?

My boyfriend was talking to his boss on the phone and once he got off the phone, I could tell that he was upset. So I asked him what the guy said to make him mad. He said "nothing" and so I asked him again. I said "tell...
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Why are some guys SO passive?

I can't help but notice this trend of men expecting women to pursue them. Guys maybe aren't aware that females are taught to NOT pursue a guy, or else, they say, you are not respecting his need to be a real man, because...
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I'm the dumper but I need closure to move on does that make any sense?

So I broke up with my boyfriend 2 and 1/2 months ago because we were just too different and we've dated for 2 years I STILL LOVE HIM SO MUCH...and the no contact thing was too hard so I I texted and called him a few...
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Is Teddi Holland still alive?

I noticed a lot of p***actors die of diseases and stuff but did this one die too? It is sad that this is one of this oldest professions in the world and it causes a lot of death and puts an impression on the young and...
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Do you believe in The Red String of fate?

The red string of fate, also referred to as the red thread of destiny, red thread of fate, and other variants, is an East Asian belief originating from Chinese legend and is also used in Japanese legend. According to this...
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My grandsons girlfriend

Hey guys so I'm 67 and my girlfriend is 19, she is actually my grandsons girlfriend so my problem is really bad. She's been cheating on my grandson with me for six months. She's a little chubby but I like em either way at...
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Guys what kind of physique is most attractive to you on a girl

I just feel there is so much controversy about this. I'd say most girls would prefer to be rather thin, while supposedly men prefer women to be a bit thicker. But then when you look at actresses or models that men find...
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What should I do if my boyfriend doesn't buy me gifts at all?

We've been dating for 6 months now and he only buys movie tickets and food sometimes. But if its expensive he makes me pay... I have not received any flowers, no cupcakes, no teddy bears and not anything from him. Last...
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What does it mean when my ex lingers around?

Ok, so a girl had us introduced at our church in summer 2011. We dated a few months, she was young and really did me wrong. Things went bad that fall. She came back to try and be civil the next April. We talk...
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How to pretend to be uninterested in my crush?

There are two theories to relationships, show her that you really care and make her feel special, this will surely win her heart. Or Act weird, sometimes show interest and sometimes act uninterested, this way she will...
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Guys you ever regret not giving a girl a chance?

that one girl that got away, you had her right there she liked u, she was nice to u, your talks were cute, and you didn't want her. ever beat yourself about it later? why does this happen? this guy contacted me out of the...
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Would you ever "slap sense into someone"?

I'm watching MythBusters right now. They were testing the myth that slapping someone can sharpen their senses (try saying that ten times fast) if they are disoriented, panicked, etc. After the experiments that they did,...
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The really long hug after a second date

I had a second date with a very nice young lady. In short we had a quick dinner, and we talked for around 4 hours. Her eyes tell me she likes me...at least I think. Anyway When we said our goodbyes. it came...the really...
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I'm 26, she's 21. Is that considered good ages for one another?

Hey Everyone, I know the answer is pretty clear, but it has me a little dazed. So I meet this girl about one year ago. She was 20 at the time. And well she's super gorgeous and super smart, and normally I don't date...
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Guys, can you gradually fall in love with a girl?

Or must you have those intense feelings right away in order to love a girl? If you don't have them, do you just not love her, and will never love her? The guy I'm seeing says he doesn't know if he loves me yet, and wants...
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Can a shy guy and an Outgoing girl work?

Have any of you been in a relationship like this before? I am a super outgoing and opinionated person, but the guy I'm talking to right now is really shy, he talks to me but still pretty quiet. Do you think a relationship...
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She played me. What should I do?

Hi Guys/Girls. OK First off I am a guy and this problem has been bugging me and didn't know who else to turn to. I was interested in this girl. We had been friends for a long LONG time and were pretty close. Time passed...
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How do I convince him I'm not crazy?

So I met this guy on an online dating site. We communicated for 5 months prior to meeting because he is in the Navy and was away. Our first date was amazing and we connected on every level. He was sick, and the next day...
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Why don't guys come up to me?

Ok so every time I go out with a group of friends guys don't come up to me! I'm not ugly lol but lately I've been the third wheel or if I go out with a group of girlfriends I still don't get hit on or even really talk...
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Do Emo girls like Mexican guys

It cause I love emo girls but I don't if they like Mexican guys. I'm the guy girls crush on but I'm tiered of dating those girls I want an Emo girl so bad but I don't know if they Mexican guys
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What is an "extended bikini wax".

I assume that is just does more than a regular bikini wax, but how much more?
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No contact for11 days since breakup.........

Boyfriend and I broke up about 11 days ago. I was saying things about being upset, he was getting annoyed. Said we were both unhappy, and broke up with me. We talked for a few hours. He seemed to regret saying it at...
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Why do motorcycles attract girls?

Ever since I got a motorcycle, I've noticed a lot more attention from women. Some will just stare and others will come up to talk to me about it. I've got some dates from this alone. I have a motorcycle because I enjoy...
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Boyfriend acting different after sex?

im 18 my boyfriend is 19. we've been going out for a little over a month. on Sunday we had sex for the first time. I'm was a virgin, he isnt. I don't know if its just me being paranoid, or if it actually is the case,...
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Does a girl who smokes hookah turn you off?

i do it at social gatherings only, but does it turn most people off? (boys and girls.) I've heard that all types of smoking turns people off.
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How to impress a girl from dance class when you are not good at dance ?

Hi, last week I joined a dance class I saw a girl there, she is really very cute I just can't concentrate on the dance when she is around. Sometimes we make a good eye contact after the class but I don't really know how...
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Why do girls say they dress sexy for themselves

I don't get it. Are you like, trying to fall in love with yourself? Why do you do say you dress sexy, for yourself?
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Why are there no cute guys no matter where I go?!?!

i live in colorado...traveled through different cities with my friends and even walked around outside the busiest spots at different times of the day. NO CUTE GUYS..anywhere! now I'm in texas, visiting and walking around....
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Can a kiss on the neck ever be friendly?

can a kiss on the neck from a guy friend ever be friendly?
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Roommate's exclude me a lot?

I have never really had this problem before so I don't know whether I am overreacting. This is my 3rd time living with a new group of people, and I've always made friends very easily. I'm in a new program where it seems...
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Pros and Cons of dating a stereotypical nerd?

Pros and Cons of dating a guy who's a stereotypical nerd? (Smart, awkward, odd, tech-savvy, inexperienced with girls, doesn't party, no style, etc etc) (Note: this is just a description, doesn't mean these things are...
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