Why did he ask, "Are you trying to seduce me?"?

[Anonymous]

He is my guy friend, and honestly, I didn't even say anything dirty enough to make him think that I was trying to seduce him. Just a regular sentence I said, that could be taken in a dirty way :P

[YolaMoore]

He likes you. He wants to be more than friends so he is going to try and say things that are more romantic than friendly, to try and steer the friendship that way.

[Asker]

I never thought of that :

[hmyn5]

yeah he wanted to check your reaction
if you'd said in some sense your seducing him then he will have going to say something further to make you think that way

[Asker]

But I scolded him :X

[hmyn5]

now you make such a trap that make him to behave the same
and than do how much romance you want

[Asker]

haha lol it's like I am going to catch a ciminal. :X

[Asker]

criminal*

[hmyn5]

lol
but you know what i meant

[TeraKira]

Maybe he likes you, but saying that isn't really a strong indicator.. could have just been banter!

[Asker]

Oh well... I overreacted lol xD

[TeraKira]

If he does like you he won't just make one subtle hint and leave it at that, I wouldn't anyway. More flirting/banter would follow lol.

[Asker]

Yeah... lots of it happen. He flirts and playfully teases me.

[TeraKira]

Sounds more likely that he likes you then if that wasn't just a one off comment. Some dudes are idiots and lead their female friends on for some reason. But if he's not like that and also doesn't behave like this with other girls then it's a good sign!

[Asker]

He is not the kind who leads a person on, but then again, some guys are natural flirts. :|

[TeraKira]

I know what you mean. I flirt with a few of my female friends but not all and only up to a point, you don't wanna give the wrong impression. We know where the boundaries are.

[Asker]

What is your limit while flirting with female friends?

[TeraKira]

I guess it's just banter and a bit of teasing. Sexual humor is cool but not too direct and a bit sarcastic if you know what I mean, that way it's obvious your not tryin'a move to them. It's not constant either otherwise it's too much. Like I said though I don't flirt with all my female friends, I sense that some of them would be totally weirded out lol, some of the others expressed a bit of interest in the beginning but I didn't feel that way and kept us as just friends- I guess they could handle it but I feel it would be unfair.

[TeraKira]

Flirting with the intent that it goes somewhere is done in a different style as well. It's hard to explain but you hold eye contact a bit longer, that kind of thing.

[Amagi82]

He wants you to seduce him.

[Asker]

:O But why is his brain going in that direction? I thought he diesn't find me that attractive?

[Asker]

Doesn't

[Amagi82]

Why do you think he doesn't find you attractive?

I suggest next time you see him, you put a sultry look on your face, eye him slowly up and down with a devious smirk, then take your hands under his shirt and run your nails up his chest. Then when he asks if you're trying to seduce him, say no, and turn around and leave with a coy expression on your face. Let me know his reaction. ;)

[Asker]

Othe guys complement me daily like how hot or sexy or pretty I am but he is rare with his complements. He complements my personality and talents more.
lol... that's such a bold move. I am quite shy and timid kind of.

[Amagi82]

He sounds like a good guy. And just because he doesn't mention your appearance doesn't mean he doesn't find you attractive. You should go for it. :)

And I stand by my suggestion. If you're shy and timid then you definitely need to come out of your shell. You can have so much fun in life when you're bold.

[Your_boss]

It's a famous movie quote

[Asker]

I know... he doesn't ask the exact same thing but it meant the same thing lol

[Anonymous]

He was probably just hoping you'd say Yes.

[Asker]

Lol xD Instead, I accused him for having dirty mind