All Questions

Girls, do you like it when guys wear baseball hats?

I was just curious what you thought about baseball hats on guys. Do you like it when guys wear them? Do you dislike it? What do you like to see on a ball cap? Favorite sports teams (college or major league)? Go...

MrBond

Xper 5 Age: 30

Are rain checks a polite rejection?

Woman that I have been dealing with (coffee meet-ups and drinks - which she initiated) then we hung out based on me asking - which she extended from just drinks to hanging out more and getting food has recently become...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Am I wrong for putting my boyfriend on the block list?

I feel like I'm in love with him but I don't think he's right for me. I keep trying to break up with him but it doesn't work. He's always trying to convince me to just stay with him. I do believe he cheats but I don't...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys - Is having a girlfriend/wife really worth the trouble? Girls can answer too?

The main issue is that women ALWAYS expect men to make the first move, and they assume that men can magically read their mind to know if they like the man or not. Most men go through several rejections before a woman...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My bf owns a Rottweiler and I'm scared of it, how to get rid of this distrust towards his dog?

I've always been very leery of this type of breed and told my bf about it. We've only been dating for almost 2 months and I still just simply don't trust Rotties too much. Had once an always bad encounter with one (not...

TundraRain

Xper 5 Age: 38

What do you do with your tongue while kissing?

I recently got my first kiss. I don't get what I'm doing when the guy starts using his tongue. Like do I open my mouth wide so that my top lip is touching his top lip and my bottom lip is touching his bottom lip. And then...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Should I be worried? Boyfriend invited me to a wedding, then uninvited me?

We have been together 10 months. We do everything together. He is playing in the band at his good friend's wedding. He was invited to the wedding before he met me. But 3 weeks ago his friend (the bride) told him to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to get over a crush on a classmate?

I've asked this questions a bajilion times, but never got the right answer, so I'm giving this another shot. I know the general rule is to "let it go, let it go, turn away and slam the door" (yayyyy, it invaded your...

Slavanna

Yoda Age: 29

Name 3 physical features you get complimented on a lot?

Smile. Eyes. Butt. Maybe not in that order. :-/ oh well.

SchickChick1223

Xper 5 Age: 36

are converse sexy on men or are they unattractive?

privatehelp01

Xper 6 Age: 38

Stingy money-minded Indian parents just won't leave me alone. How do I get out of this?

I'm a 25 year old Australian of Indian heritage, just finished uni, just started working and making my own buck. When I was in school, my parents neglected me big time. They wouldn't spend a cent on anything that didn't...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Am i the only person who doesn't understand the obsession with Miranda Kerr?

no, I'm not insecure. no, i dont think i look better than her. no, I'm not jealous. no, I'm not hating. i think she's pretty. i just dont think she's wow…. I don't know lol, i dont see it… i think beyonce is way...

justbanANNAz

Editor Age: 31

Other

Is hot or not legit, what is a good score?

I just got this app yesterday just for fun...my score is 5.35 130 out of 243 voted me hot that seems bad...really bad. I plan on deleting it, I just wanted to see what all the hype was about but now I feel a little crappy...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

I'm a babysitter; is the relationship i have with this dad normal?

So, I've babysat for these kids a few times after their father contacted me on a babysitting website. I'm 18, a freshman in college and just trying to make some extra money on the side. I've never met the kids' mom as she...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do guys like spooning or do they not?

When me and my boyfriend are spooning I love it. He always has his arm under me and plays with my hair or rests his arm on me. It's so warm and I feel so safe. Also it helps me fall asleep quickly. I know girls love it...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What girls think about guys who wear watches?

What do you girls think of guys who wear watches, like metal or leather banded watches

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you ever purposely ignore a girl's text, even while having feelings for her?

He's told me he has feelings for me, IS a "texter" and glued to his phone... It upsets me when I know he lets my messages go. Especially when he asks me a question, I get back to him with a follow up and he ignores me....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Anyone find single life stress free?

I went from trying a relationship, to hooking up only, to now just not dealing with women in general outside of regular peers and have noticed my stress levels are now really low. With a relationship I was always blamed...

Theguyoverthere

Guru Age: 41

Can a one piece swim suite on the right girl be hot?

I used to be a dancer, and I always loved the way I looked in my leotard because it was tight and would accentuate my curves. I'm in highschool, 5'4", 112 lbs. I have a 24" waist, smallish breasts (34B), and toned...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Hot Christian girl invited me to her church or whatever and im atheist?

She was all smiley at me, they're always like that though.. Like a cult... Anyway i told her "im not christian..." "Oh thats okay!" "Haha but im an atheist" "Thats fine! We meet here (hands me paper an smiles big) i...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Sophomore in college, and never had a serious boyfriend?

So I'm 19, turning 20 and a sophomore in college, and I've never had a serious relationship. I've dated, but it was nothing long term or serious. i've never been kissed either. Is this bad? And is it seen as a turn off?...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Why does my friend think that every guy likes her?

My friend Caitlin who is really nice, pretty and really funny is starting to drive me NUTS! She think's that a lot of guys like her and even though she is really pretty she is weird and screams a lot, most guys think that...

xxxShadesOfGrayxxx

Xper 5 Age: 28

Have you ever locked eyes with someone from the opposite gender?

For example, your walking and both of you are approaching each other from the opposite direction. You don't know each other, but you look up and stare right into each others' eyes. Then you look away and look back up and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

Why are guys scared of tall girls?

I am just a few inches taller then the average guy. Why do most guys talk to cute/pretty short girls. Just because I am 6'1" doesn't mean I am scary. Or I keep getting holy cow your tall. I know I am tall, get over it I...

Tallgirl

Xper 5 Age: 31

...I miss my crush so much...?

I miss my crush so much. I worked with her but now I don't. She's older than me and never knew how she felt about me, it really pains not seeing her everyday. I really don't know what to do.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys: ugly, ok, or hot? small boobs, small waist, huge ass, and very muscular thighs?

I am suuuper self conscious!! I love my face and I feel good about my face but when it comes to my body i'm very insecure>.. I have very small boobs (30B), but i am very small waisted not anorexic but very skinny waist,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, what do you think about farmer's tans?

Reason for me asking is because I developed a farmers tan over the summer and it still hasn't gone away. I was working outside for the majority of the summer. So basically my arms are tan and face are tan but the rest of...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why would a guy deny liking you when the signs are all there?

I think my guy friend is in love with me.i can tell he really cares for me.we went through so much with each other were still friends off and on.I've never had a guy care for me like this but he still breaks my heart...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

My ex bf likes my photo all of a sudden? What is supposed to be mean?

Me and my ex broke up late of November. Actually he broke up with me saying I deserve someone better. We stopped talking like for a month after we broke up then he messaged. He gives mix signal that was confusing whenever...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is smirking a form of flirting?

A guy I know always smirks at me, is he flirting with me, sometimes he just smirks if I'm talking to him, why the smirk. Sometimes I think he thinks I'm stupid or something

misscocobutter

Yoda Age: 40

Does the sound of kissing turns you on?

Imagine you sitting in a booth in a restaurant and the people in the next booth are kissing does that turn you on

Anonymous

(25-29)