Boyfriend kicked me out of his house last night?

[Anonymous]

So basically this is the first relationship I have ever been in and so he's my first boyfriend. We got together the 13th of November and we see each other 1 to 2 times a week since he works and I'm in college. We have been getting into arguments over the dumbest things. Last night I went over to his house and we wanted to give me a kiss in front of his parents something I'm not used to or comfortable with... so he didn't talk to me and told me it was better if I went home we stayed quiet for a moment and he said "So are you going to go home or what?" I didn't say anything and he ignored me and started playing a game on his tablet he hates it when I use my phone but he was ignoring me and just left me standing there in the kitchen so I used it and once he saw he basically kicked me out he walked me to the door and once I got out he closed it and I walked the rest of the way to the truck to go home we haven't talked since then. What should I do? and Is this how relationships are? because I don't want to deal with this every relationship I would rather be single lol

Please no harsh comments thanks :)

[madhatters4]

not all relationships are like this...

as for this situation here. it sounds to me like you probably hurt his pride by not kissing him. he may have felt embarrassed especially if his parents saw you avoid kissing him. I think that you two really need to communicate better or going forward in other relationships. a lot of these little issues can be resolved simply via clear and mature communication

[Asker]

Thanks for the advice:) but I'm the one who is always apologizing and trying to communicate with him. The last time he got upset he stopped talking to me for 2 days =/ and I was the one who ended up apologizing even though it wasn't my fault...

[madhatters4]

well then move on. it still can't hurt to apologize, if nothing else for hurting him... it doesn't mean you are wrong, it just means you are sorry if you hurt his feelings... but you should absolutely explain your side and tell him that if things were done over again you'd do the same thing and not kiss in front of his parents because you are uncomfortable with it.

it sounds to me like this guy over reacts and doesn't communicate well. it sounds like he is immature and a bit self absorbed to not see things from your or other's perspectives. Since he has thrown these little hissy fits before maybe you should just move on

[YourFutureEx]

OMG! How could you tolerated him. He doesn't deserves any girl on the planet. You should kick his 'S' out. No this not how relationships are.

[PinkAcid]

thats not normal, he was being a sulking baby who can't get his own way

[Anonymous]

I don't think his bitch fit is the norm. :[ He's just an ass.

[p0rtis26]

I need some more info, some of those sentences were not very coherent. And I am going to be truthful and you can decide if it is harsh. This is an awful relationship! He wanted to kiss and you were uncomfortable?

[Asker]

He wanted to kiss me in front of his parents that's something I'm not comfortable doing.

[Asker]

I'll kiss him when we're alone or with his friends but not in front of his parents...

[p0rtis26]

Well that is awful. This is not a positive relationship. That is a huge red flag. If this is not the first time, you need to take drastic measures and break up. If it is the first time, give him a second chance. But my intuition would say this is an awful immature relationship. He needs to apologize at a minimum.

[Xiloquin]

Look, you need mutual respect in a relationship. If that is nonexistent then it's a failing relationship. And that seems to be your case. Simple as that.

[Insaan]

Douchebag.