All Questions

When she adjusts my clothes, is she trying to get my attention or not?

Is she flirting or just too comfortable with me as a friend? I was minding my own business and this girl, who I've been getting signals from but I'm not totally sure, came up from behind and fixed my collar and then kept...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do guys really prefer the ugly outgoing girl over the shy pretty girl?

I have been seeing a lot of guys with this preference for ugly trashy girls that are outgoing over the beautiful shy girl that's kind and pure.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do all the wrong girls like me!?

It seems that all the girls that every time there is a girl who likes me that they are the wrong ones. It's always some girl I just wanna be friends with or a girl I just plain do not like. I feel bad because I know they...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, if a man has a hairy ass is it a turn off?

I know most of us guys don't really like hairy asses in girls, but I wonder if girls think the same for guys.

Anonymous

(36-45)

How long does it take you to miss someone?

I recently told a crush of a year and some that I like him and I believe we should stop talking for a short while due to some circumstances, such as; Distance, he is currently going through a break up, I feel like he...

supsupsupsup

Xper 6 Age: 33

Flirting

Guy at the bank says he likes my hat?

Bank teller, told me he liked my hat. Was he flirting by saying that?

Anonymous

(36-45)

How many girls like guys who are handy?

Do you care if your guy knows how to fix a car or build a deck? My girlfriend seems to think it's hot. When I'm doing something like that, my girlfriend always snaps a picture without me knowing it. She's taken...

carguydc

Xper 6 Age: 44

Guy's Behavior

Is it bad when boyfriend's friend says I have a fat ass?

So, the other day I was at my boyfriends house and his older guy neighbor probably in his mid 20's left him a message on his phone saying " ...eyy and there some chic with a fat ass walking into your pool area" my...

riahhxox

Xper 5 Age: 31

Guy's Behavior

What to do when a guy touches/pulls your hair or pokes you/tickles you?

Self explanatory. Many guys at my school try touching my hair and tickling me/poking me (and other girls). Were all 16 so yep very immature.Were not talking about a guy I'm dating, just any guy that I sorta get along...

veronica12

Xper 5 Age: 30

Shopping & Gifts

My boyfriend bought me an expensive present that I don't like. What do I do?

For my birthday, my boyfriend bought me this gift certificate to a spa. He sent it in an email so he hasn't seen my reaction yet. Now we are both on tight budgets, and I told him before not to spend much money on me (like...

sciencegirl

Xper 5 Age: 37

What does it mean when a guy put xoxo at the end of a text?

I have been flirting with my neighbor for a year. He is sweet and adorable. We finally hung out the other night. Watched some baseball, had some food and wine. We get along amazing. I walked him home as he had a candle...

Yank1218

Xper 5 Age: 70

GUYS: when you text "what's up"and your response?

now multiple times this guy I like (and I think likes me) has texted me first something like "Yo What's up?" "or "Hey what's up?" of once just "Hey!". So then I typically write something back like "Nm Hbu?" or if...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

He doesn't want an exclusive relationship, yet isn't seeing anyone else?

Why would he not want to be exclusive whenever he isn't seeing anyone else and hasn't so much as kissed anyone else since first kissing me? And he says he likes talking to me all the time... so what gives?

Anonymous

(30-35)

What type of clothing is most attractive on guys?

like skinny jeans or tight shirt etc or shorts, tank tops. The shape of the particular cloth etc

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean if a girl fixes your collar?

I was minding my own business and this girl, who I've been getting signals from but I'm not totally sure, came up from behind and fixed my collar and then kept walking. We've always had a flirty-type relationship, but...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Showing my picture to his friends?

So there's this amazing guy I'm hanging out with. We had been on 3 dates, but he's not really looking for a relationship right off the bat. Just seeing what happens. After the third date, he even said we have more of a...

unsureofeverything

Xper 5 Age: 38

Dating a secretary - good or bad?

Is dating a secretary or one of those office women (like a human resource officer) a good or bad thing? I hear they usually cheat on their partners with their boss.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Is he trying to make me jealous? Why do boys try make girls jealous?

Hi, I have crushed on this guy for 2 years. He admitted to me he likes me. Before he went on holiday we kissed each other. 3 months after, he walks up to some girl and hugged her. He looked at me at the same time he was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is 18 too young for online dating?

I made a profile online and I met this guy and he asked me out. When I got back home my parents asked where I met him and when I said "online" they freaked out and started yelling at me. My father told me that it was the...

CheeseLoveWhiz

Xper 7 Age: 31

Why do girls/woman like thugs?

why do they like or fall in love with them when some thugs don't give a sh*t about nobody but their self.

lovingmyself

Xper 3 Age: 35

How to cancel a date with a girl you asked out?

So I met this girl and planned a date with her next Wednesday, but I don't want to anymore because I feel as if she doesn't like me. I feel as if she is not interested at all other than being friends. How do I tell her...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My boyfriend doesn't allow me to go on vacation without him? :(

My boyfriend works all summer and we can't go together this year , but I was on a trip with friends and I want to go with them again. He said : don't go , you just came from one trip..why you have to go again? I don't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Movie date: Also pay for your date's ticket or not?

I've always offered to pay the ticket for the girl that was accompanying me, but then I dated this girl who absolutely refused me paying her entrance fee. What is your attitude towards this matter? Additionally: Girls:...

Strifelaugher

Xper 5 Age: 33

Is baldness that big of a turn off for young women (18-25)?

I'm 21 and I have been loosing my hair since I was 16, I'm always afraid to talk to girls because I'm afraid I will offend them. I didn't like my hair anymore so I just shaved it really short (not skinhead). say you...

seth12

Xper 3 Age: 35

Why is this girl so sarcastic towards me?

SHe is so nice and chatty to everybody, but with me she gets this kind of playful and sarcastic attitude all the time and people just crack up at our comedic exchanges. Although we can have decent conversations, she turns...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What to do when think my boyfriend's friend is cute

My boyfriend and I and his friend are moving into a place together. I don't know if it's his funny personality but I think I'm attracted to him. That's all it is I have been with my boyfriend for five years. I mean this...

Chantalsunshine5

Xper 3 Age: 33

Boys (and girls) why does it seem like only weird guys like me?

Not to sound like I think I'm better than everyone or judgmental, I've dated plenty of guys that were known much more for their personality than looks, but it seems like the majority of guys that like me or ask me out are...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My defensive mechanism is to be a bitch and I don't know how to change it...

I have been hurt by relationships a few times. Well when I meet a new guy at first it is great and fun but then when I feel like I might be getting to the point where I become vulnerable and start taking my guard down I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls, what do you think about a guy with a scrunchy?

Hey girls, I wanted to know, I have always had short hair, but now I wanna grow it, so what do you think about a guy with a scrunchy, since that's the only way my hair looks good, I wanted to know, is that a turn on,...

emdeex

Xper 5 Age: 33

Is a guy getting you lingerie for your birthday an insult?

I'm not sure what to think ... is a guy thinking "I'm bored with this chick ... I'm gonna get her something to try to help" or is he just thinking "expensive gift = good."

Anonymous

(36-45)

Are you hot-natured or cold-natured?

Are you more comfortable in the cold? Are you more comfortable in the heat? Are you comfortable in both? I'm a very hot-natured person. Anything abouve 75 degrees is too-much for me. I keep my room around 65 degrees...

ImperfectDVM

Xper 4 Age: 36

Girls, which type of neck do you find more attractive on a guy, skinny or thick?

Skinny: 1) link 2) link 3) link 4) link 5) link Thick: 1) link 2) link 3) link 4) link 5) link You can list any specific links that you like. I'm...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, How tall does your man HAVE to be in order for you to date him?

Girls place a lot of important in height, so what is the cut off point for you?

Robotic

Xper 3 Age: 38

Do girls like big lips on guys?

I'm asking this because of two incedents in which people told me something about my lips. 1: A girl I dated a few months back told me that her friend said that I have "girl lips" 2: My sister told me that myself and a...

Pebyron

Xper 7 Age: 31