All Questions

Why confident guy would stare but not approach?

I really would like to know your opinion. If a guy stares a lot, making eye contact nearly seeking for you to look him in the eyes, it means he finds a girl attractive or what? also, if he has no problem with getting...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Poll: is it rude to not reply to an ex's text ?

My ex texted "Merry Xmas :)" on Christmas Day. I hadn't heard from him since we broke up(one month ago). Is it rude if I just ignore the text? And why send a Xmas text when we haven't talked in a month...?feels...

guycurious2012

Xper 5 Age: 39

Is he testing me by doing this? acts like nothing happened.

I just met this guy (29) and we have met up only a few times, but the dates were great, and he recently kissed me for the first time- it was soft slow kissing, not just a peck, but he wasn't all over me either. The...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Girls, if you smirk when a guy talks to you, what are you thinking?

I have been talking to this girl for a while and she seems to enjoy it. She initiates most of the time so that gave me the "green light" to initiate a little more (I still try to keep to myself). So I was talking to her...

Anonymous

(36-45)

In my mid 30's and still single. I swear I am cursed or something?

I am 34 years old. Never been married, and childless. Not overweight and do get told I am attractive every now and then. It has been 3 years since I was in a relationship. I have dated a couple of times since then but...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Break Up & Divorce

Why is my ex tormenting me?

My ex and I broke up three months ago; yet he still texts me saying "what's up?" The first time I replied all he did was talk about his new girlfriend. So, after that I ignored all of his texts, but he still keeps...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Are Jockstraps becoming more popular in the gym?

I workout at least 5 times a week for 2 hours. I Always have worn a Bike or Under Armour jockstrap when working out. at first I noticed I was the only one at my gym that wore them, and this year I noticed more and more...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys: What is the most attractive casual outfit a women can wear (in your opinion)?

What colors, types of clothing, fabric textures turn you on or make you the most attracted to a girl? Would you prefer a dress? A skirt? Or shorts with tights? Pants? Blue? red? black? white? grey? What's your favorite...

Artistgirl18

Xper 5 Age: 30

Is it rude to not apologize when rejecting someone?

Is it rude to not apologize when rejecting someone ? Why or Why not ?

Anonymous

(30-35)

GIRLS: Opera / ballet as a first date?

Girls, how would you like to be taken to the opera / ballet on a first date. You could dress up and so would your date. This would be followed by drinks or a late night dinner. In my scenario I kinda know this girl from...

paxtonfun

Xper 7 Age: 36

Which race has the cutest babies?

Yesterday a 19-month-old german baby couldn't stop staring at my Asian face for like 10 minutes. She was so cute. Locks of golden hair and huge blue eyes, she really looked like a doll! Now I know that all babies are...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What do you think about Russian accent?

Soon I go to USA and I worry people will laugh because I have awful Russian accent. Is there any way for me to get rid of my accent as soon as possible?

SvetlanaRU

Xper 5 Age: 29

Girls how do you feel about dating a lonely guy?

I know that this makes girls feel pressured to spend more time with me but what if I keep is a secret? If she doesn't know then she doesn't feel pressured. I don't have any friends or family. My old crush didn't mind, I...

whiteknight01

Xper 3 Age: 33

How to let a guy know you want to be taken on a date. Not hang out.

So I feel like chivalry is kind of dead these days. a lot of guys don't offer to take me out on a date. They just kind of always want me to "come over" or "stop by" for some reason. That is such a turnoff. If a guy wants...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Were you ever spanked with a belt?

Growing up did you ever get the belt? If not what was used on you?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, why are thick thighs attractive?

There are guys that make comments about my thighs. And my boyfriend says he loves my thighs because they're so thick. Not like a fat thick but more like a toned and healthy thick. I just wanted to know why thighs so...

Starstunner7

Xper 5 Age: 28

What does it mean when a girl keeps to herself?

Does it just mean she's quiet or shy? I was talking with a friend of mine and I'm not sure if he's right but he said that a lot of girls who are like this usually are with abusive men or maybe had an abusive childhood....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Is kissing someone in a play cheating?

Basically that ^^. if you're in a relationship but you're in a play where there is a kissing scene is it cheating on your partner?

HeatherJane

Xper 5 Age: 31

Teenage girls have you ever had pointy boobs? Did they ever change? Thoughts?

My family friend's daughter who is 17 years old, almost 18 has been complaining about how she has small, pointy boobs. It saddens her because she doesn't think it's normal. She has taken the time to look it up and a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

Wearing a dress without panties?

Im going to an event with my boyfriend. I will be wearing a dress to this event. I was thinking about taking my panties off in the bathroom. Then (discreetly!) Tell him I have something for him and put my panties in his...

bchant

Xper 5 Age: 38

Why is maturity, acting and being a grown-up, more attractive in men than it is in women? why are guys, men?

expected to be the more mature gender, the gender that acts like and is a grown-up, is self-sufficient, responsible, etc. Don't give me bullshit or crappy answers that say it's just the way it is, I believe just about...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I'm at church and I just defecated in my pants. How can I change without anyone noticing?

I don't want to offend anyone by leaving the sermon early.

Justin-Manfredonia

Xper 3 Age: 42

Was this drunk texting creepy? Did I scare him away?

Haha OK so I got super drunk on Christmas Eve and I have been liking this guy and below are the texts so please read and tell me if I scared him away and what you think? Like would you be creeped out, etc. Thanks! Dan:...

BrunetteBabe1005

Yoda Age: 32

How do I break my pattern of dating liars and cheaters?

I have dated liars and cheaters for about 10 years now and I don't understand why? Maybe I always pick the alpha male? The outgoing one? I've tried and tried but all of my ex's never fail to lie and cheat and I dump them...

Anonymous

(36-45)

A guy said "she's playing coy",what did he mean?

this one guy from my uni, has been staring at me for like a couple of months. actually, I didn't see a lot of interest from his part, appart from his intense eye contact and sitting near me,sometimes. so he said this...

Anonymous

(36-45)