All Questions

Should I text her first if she said she would get back to me about a date?

OK, so here's the essential gist. I asked this girl to a movie and she said yes but it had to be pushed twice (on her account) and I wasn't available to go the next week due to exams but I said to her that we could do it...

intellectus964

Xper 5 Age: 37

Family & Friends

My ex friend is spreading nasty rumors about me? What do I do?

She complained to me once a while back that when she was in HS girls spread mean rumors about her and all the girls were mean to her. Truth is, she is mean to girls generally. She even sh*t talked her friends to...

anon1192

Xper 5 Age: 35

Break Up & Divorce

Is she using her Period as an excuse to flake on me??

Dating a girl that doesn't know what she wants and simply wants to play around... she's told me herself she doesn't want a relationship and is constantly sending mixed signals / giving me the HOT and COLD treatment - Met...

apen87

Xper 5 Age: 39

Relationships

Why is he keeping me in relationship limbo?

My boyfriend has been under a lot of stress recently so he feels he needs to relax from a relationship right now and focus on other problems and to "do his own thing". He does still contact me almost every day but tells...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Society & Politics

Just feel like I'm not cut out for this world.

Trying to make a better life for myself, but it's very slow to come. I the oldest of 3 children in my mid 20's. My younger sisters are much more successful than me, much better in school and are almost guaranteed to be...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How can a girl reduce her intimidatingness?

I've been told on countless occasions that I seem intimidating because of my competitive and sarcastic nature. I grew up as a competitive athlete amongst two brothers who always kept me on my toes with the constant pranks...

Jollyrancher

Xper 5 Age: 37

Girls when a cute guy passes you while walking do you flick or wave your hair?

Like in college campus or dorm floor and if you are walking and see a cute guy going in your direction was is you reaction and body language? Would you try to talk to him.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do women like when men take their jack off in front of them?

i find it to turn me on when I play with myself in front of my partner.

victorstorm

Xper 5 Age: 54

Why do guys lie about having sex with a girl, when they know themselves they didn't have any sexual contact?

My friend was talking to some guy for awhile now and when they finally hanged out he acted like they were a couple and things were real . A few days after they hanged out, she had found out that he had told all his...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Pretty much sent him a goodbye text

Title says it all. I sent a text because I was tired of him distancing himself and not replying to my texts like usually so I told him to pretty much have a good life in the text and he didn't answer...I regret it now but...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What are the cons of being an attractive woman?

Besides the fact that attractive women get unwanted attention from creepers and guys that ARE NOT attractive and ones that ARE NOT bad boys. That's like the total obvious con. Oh and besides the fact that they don't get...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does having relatively neat handwriting mean a guy is gay?

I know this sounds like a really stupid question but please bear with me... I have a very homophobic older brother who, over the years, has managed to poison my mind about certain things. One thing he says is that any...

MILWJ

Xper 6 Age: 33

OK to be girlfriend's slave?

I'm with my girlfriend for quite a while now and still thrilled to be. I can't stand arguing with her, since she's the most enchanting thing I've ever met. So when we have a slight variance I hurry to agree with her, and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

The guy I've been talking to, lost his job, and now he isn't texting as much

Reasons? Is it me? We talk all the time and we were talking even after he lost his job yesterday... Not texting a lot today...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does anyone else just find video chatting really really awkward?

I'm not an awkward person at all, I chat really well, but I find in video chats that its just so awkward, I haven't done one in ages and I find them just bad. People often take offense when I say no I don't want to do...

Dantemustdie

Xper 3 Age: 34

Shopping & Gifts

What is the easiest east Asian language to learn?

I speak English of course but I speak fluent Spanish too. I really, really want to learn Vietnamese because it's one of the most popular languages in Texas & it could come in handy in my future career. link link...

peace-love-couture

Yoda Age: 32

My boyfriend won't grind ?

We went to a dance party with a lot of people me and my girlfriends where grinding every other guy stopped and looked and complimented us several guys came up to us to dance I would ask my boyfriend if it was okay and he...

candylover98

Xper 5 Age: 33

What does it mean if your ex won't even say hello to you?

We were in love for 2 years broke up once but got back together after a year because we were still in love with each other, Now that it's over again, he won't say hi to me or anything he just brushes right past me like I...

Dangerousbrii

Xper 4 Age: 31

What does her stroking her glass mean?

I thought I read or heard somewhere that a subtle sign that a girl is interested in you is when she plays with certain objects in your presence. For instance, I recently chatted with an ex girlfriend of mine and whiled we...

thedudejones47

Xper 5 Age: 32

Fashion & Beauty

Do guys like the "fake" look on girls?

We hear all the time how guys prefer natural and all that. But it seems the girls the guys fawn over, and other girls get jealous of, are more of the fake type, or who change a lot of their natural look to be that way....

Anonymous

(36-45)

What is a father figure boyfriend?

can someone please explain to me? is it his age alone? if so how much older than the girl would make him a "father figure" or paternal? does he actually have to be old enough to be her dad (which I find gross) or just...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How many ear piercings are too many?

i have 2 on my right ear and 3 on my left ear. they are all tiny little stud earrings and they are all on my earlobe (normal part where you pierce it) not the top of my ear or anything. on the ear with 3 you really only...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Can a girl go from liking you to hating you?

A girl really liked me and I liked her back but I never asked her out , We were good friends and had a real chemistry and after a bit of time has passed ,she shows she hates me by ignoring me when I say hello and not...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What hair color is best on guys? (Poll)

Which one is most attractive to you? And why? ;D

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do guys get hard at nude beaches?

My family is nudist, and when they have other couples over, the guys seem to get hard pretty frequently. Is this normal, or not? Not to be conceited, but I've only noticed it in the last year or so since my body started...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Have you ever seen someone that "turn heads"?

I've never seen anyone that is a "head turner". I've seen people that get a bit stared at, but they don't get to the point of being head turners. Have you seen someone that turn heads, I mean, literally turn heads while...

naguala

Xper 3 Age: 34

Girls do you like being lifted up or hate it?

Do you girls like being lifted up or hate it? If so by guys or girls too?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

She turns me on so much!

you ever have this girl/guy that just turns you on so much? like this girl I have is just so sexy to me. all I wanna do is make out with her, touch her and practice making babies with her. isn't it great?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do girls dig saxophone players?

Okay. so I have gotten the whole gist of it that girls are very attracted to guys who play in a rock band or play a guitar. I've heard that enough times already to figure that out... What I want to know is if any girls...

Steelcore1085

Xper 6 Age: 32