All Questions

Are bad boys rare??

girls, are bad boys rare? i think I am starting to becoming more of a bad boy type and less the nice guy type, in the sense that I am becoming more laid-back and less needy towards girls, which I know would give me an...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to become naturally funny?

I am not naturally funny. Most of my jokes and humor I got from comedy shows, reading comedy books or friends. Ive spent a large amount of time memorizing funny peoples sayings, comedy speeches and even translated humor...

MarikYo

Xper 7 Age: 35

Passionate love versus compassionate love?

After reading "The Happiness Hypothesis" by Jonathan Haidt, It came to my knowledge that there exist two kinds of love: passionate love and compassionate love. Check out these two graphs: link link (The first...

knowmeyourself

Master Age: 39

Best women's forum name?

I'm going to make a forum for women 18-35 and I'm trying to decide on what to call it. Here are my ideas so far. Ladies Lounge Powder Room Lush Lounge Short Skirt Saloon Which one is best? Throw out ideas of your own...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys what do you think of 'gothic' girls?

NOT ones that look like this Ones like THIS...I think if done right it's really pretty :)

Anonymous

(36-45)

Just how shy is a pisces man?

i am dating this new man. a pisces. I am confused. a couple dates in and I am getting texts about how he can't get me out of his mind. can't stop thinking about me. he bases his relationships on horoscope compatibility...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Is it possible to rekindle a girls interest in you?

So this girl was very interested in me a year or so ago, but I had a girlfriend. After me and my girlfriend broke up, I thought I would wait a bit to get myself settled then ask the girl who was interested in me out. But...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My boyfriend hasn't texted or called?

Ok so here's the deal. My Boyfriend is off to his brothers bachelors party, he had warned me that I was not going to exists that weekend. They left Friday Morning and there planning on leaving Las Vegas Sunday around mid...

lulubella7

Xper 5 Age: 37

Do you consider yourself a cultured person?

Do you consider yourself a cultured person? Are you a worldly person?

7gnat

Xper 6 Age: 55

Do you choose friends based on looks?

This is an argument my friend and I got into earlier today. She made an observation that people mainly choose friends based on looks and age. I've honestly never observed this, and I don't do this myself so I told her...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shopping & Gifts

What Do guys think of "bookish" girls?

I've always been one to read in my free time and be pretty comfortable with spending time alone,The type who sit in coffee shops and reads...What do guys thing of this? Yes I have friends, no in not popular. So what's...

lyssams

Xper 5 Age: 30

How do I get over a long-distance crush?

I've lived in the Netherlands for fifteen years, so I know practically everybody in my hometown. I've lived in Arizona for almost a year-and-a-half now, so I don't know that many people yet. Five weeks ago I went on...

missdeboerxx

Xper 5 Age: 30

"The moment you allowed her to confide in you is the moment she stopped looking at you as a man?"

his was taken from this article link So do you agree or disagree with this? why or why not?

Frustration

Xper 3 Age: 36

Girls, do you like the feeling of being 'taken care of' by your man?

Is that something most girls want out of their man? I've always wondered this.

Robotic

Xper 3 Age: 38

If you were sitting down outside somewhere and a stray cat jumped up on your lap, what would you do?

I was sitting on a chair outside today and this random cat just jumped up onto my lap and started purring and stuff. I pet it a lot. What would you do?

Robotic

Xper 3 Age: 38

After you're out of college, do guys and girls not hang out alone? Why does hanging out change so much!?

I've noticed a weird shift in the way my friends and I interact... no more spontaneous get togethers, nothing crazy... we get dinner, or lunch, or coffee... and what I've also noticed is that guys and girls don't seem to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What are some physical flaws that you wouldn't be able to overlook when looking for an S/O?

I find it really hard to believe that someone would be willing to absolutely overlook all physical flaws in another partner. So I want to know what are some physical flaws that you wouldn't be able to overlook when dating...

Mr_Solo_Dolo

Yoda Age: 34

How can I flirt in beach volleyball?

So my friends and I are going to go play volleyball in the sand at this place. I know I might end up playing with some new people and just in case I meet a girl that catches my interest what are some flirty, playfull...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Bumping into my shoulders on purpose?

I don't know the word for it but you know how someone walks towards you and then "bumps" into you and says "oops!" in an obvious way... What does that mean when a guy does that?! Two guys have done this to me at work....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls how do you like a guy to approach you to dance at a club?

I've intuitively known that just creepily coming up behind a girl while she's dancing and starting to grind is a no-no. I've tried going up to a girl making eye contact, smiling and touching her shoulder or arm and just...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

Is excess skin a deal breaker??

I have recently lost a lot of weight. I don't have any drooping skin but the area around my belly button makes my belly button appear long rather than round. If I pull my skin pack a tad(not much) it appears fixed. There...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are big ears a turn off?

I have big ears I think. I don't know for sure but guys have jokingly made remarks in the past. Is it a turn off for girls?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

Is she too skinny? Would it be unhealthy to get that thin?

link link link link I think she looks perfect. And she has an amazing YouTube channel with great workouts. I do them along with other stuff and hope to look similiar to her at some point. I would have to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are soft voices attracted in a girl?

I am pretty soft-spoken. I don't try to act that way or make my voice soft, I just naturally talk like that. Do guys find that attractive or do they prefer girls who are more outspoken?

Anonymous

(30-35)

First date; kissing etiquette..tongue or no tongue?

Now that we've already established it being OK to kiss on the first date, obviously to which both parties being comfortable. Do you think it's OK to French kiss or do you consider it to be a bit much? Thoughts..

Anonymous

(30-35)

Shopping & Gifts

What books or magazines do you like to read?

I like to read books and magazines on health and fashion... ... ... ... ... ... ... ...

Petite

Xper 3 Age: 109

What to do while party if nobody wants to dance with me?

Whenever I go with my friend for a dance we start dancing together but then many guys asks her to dance and nobody asks me because I'm ugly. I am going today with her to a party and if would be such situation how to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Ex told me he cheated, then 'blocked my number'?

My ex texted me and told me he cheated on me while we were together, and when I responded all I got was some fake bullsh*t 'blocked' error message back. What is your opinion on that LOL

Anonymous

(30-35)

What to do if you're 24 and have never dated?

So I'm 24 years old now and I have never in my life gone out on any dates with any girls and have little knowledge about dating other than cliche stuff. Is there any particular reason I have never dated before? It makes...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when a girl cries in front of you?

Not because I caused it, she was talking to me and she got very emotional and she is usually a very strong willed girl and she never has shown me a weak side and she is usually a very happy and friendly person. When I saw...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Calling a girl "Yummy" - is that a compliment or an insult?

How you you take it ? Thank you to all that answer!

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

My girlfriend drives me everywhere.

I can't drive because I have epilepsy and I'm afraid I'll pass out and injure someone. My girlfriend drives me everywhere, is this normal, because I feel as the male I should be the one driving her around.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

DJ Khaled is Palestinian but uses the "n word" in some of his songs?

I'm curious, if white people ever bring up the "n word" it causes huge controversy. George Zimmerman, who isn't even white kills Treyvon Martin (which was uncalled for) and it ignites Al Sharpton and other pro-black...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Coworker: Flirting or Friendly?

There is a new girl at work that I like, but can't figure out if she is flirting with me or just being friendly. We both work part time and go to the same college. We have a lot in common (like the outdoors, music,...

Anonymous

(36-45)