All Questions

I work as a counter girl at a Japanese restaurant, and I never get hit on?

So, I hear stories from other girls working in restaurants as cashiers or counter girls that they are TIRED of getting hit on by men. I've been working at a sushi restaurant as a counter girl who gives out pick up...

Anonymous

(36-45)

"You don't lose your girlfriend, you just lose your turn." What does this saying mean?

I am moving to Hawaii and heard somewhere that the dating scene is "rough" and they have a saying on the island "You don't lose your girlfriend, you just lose your turn." what does that mean?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is cuddling and kissing between friends acceptable?

Alright, this is kinda weird. I've been talking to a guy friend online for a while, skype, Facebook, phone...all the time. He is like one of those I could talk to about basically everything. I don't really like telling my...

nhocloverock

Xper 6 Age: 37

Does it turn off guys when a girl has never had a boyfriend?

I've never had a boyfriend, yes it's sad, yes I'm a loser, whatever, and whenever a guy says, "are you dating anyone?" I'm hesitant to say, "well I've never had a boyfriend before." I sound like such a inexperienced...

imnotsorry

Xper 3 Age: 33

Dating

My step brother kissed me and now has a girlfriend!

Last your in August I met my dad's girlfriends son who is 14 and I am 16. From the beginning we became really close. He goes to boarding school by tries to come home every weekend that he can. While as school he would...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Finally asked my crush to hang out....no reply?

Idk why he ignored my text message. I saw him today I was so gonna ask him in person but got nervous. So after I seen him I texted him :When we gonna hangout I was gonna ask you but I got nervous...no damn reply...then...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

What does it mean when a guy says let's take it slow?

I have been talking to this guy for over a month...nearly two months now...every day! I never made the first move with texts, kisses, calls anything. So he tells me from the get go he just wants to take it slow and...

reallyididthat090884

Xper 5 Age: 42

Should I get snake bites or spider bites?

Right, now I have a regular lip piercing on the left side of my bottom lip. At first, I wanted spider bites but now I'm considering snakebites since my parents won't allow me to get canine bites. But, I can't choose which...

WriterGirl23

Xper 3 Age: 32

Guys, how do you treat a friend and a crush differently?

Guys, when you see a girl as one of the guys, and when you like a girl, what do you do differently around them? What do you do to show you're comfortable around them/trust them? It kind of seems to me like the line kind...

Quorra89

Xper 6 Age: 36

Why do girls over think everything?

Anonymous

(30-35)

What makes short men insecure?

Sorry if this seems like a dumb question! Is it they feel other men look down upon them? From being made fun of as a child? Due to worry that women won't find them as attractive as taller men? What is it really? Or all of...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Guy's Behavior

Guys! Do you get Jealous if your crush hangs with guys?

I really like this guy in my class and I have been giving him all the clues that I like him, but he hasn't acted on them. So I have kinda given up hope and I recently made really good friends with the guy I sit next...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Marriage & Weddings

Do women like Judith from Two And a Half Men exist?

She is horrible. She totally raped Alan in the divorce. She gets alimony and child support and she still makes him pay for things like school trips and sneakers for Jake. And she is such a bitch towards alan. I'd...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls: What are your feelings about guys with social anxiety?

OK, say this guy is decent/good-looking, caring, honest, kind, well educated, has a good professional job, nice house, car etc. but is shy, quiet, not socially confident and suffers from social anxiety. What do think?...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My girlfriend dumped me because I'm too romantic?

OK I'm just f***ing confused, I'm a natural romantic I believe in the classics, a dozen roses, candles and all that jazz, anyway so we are at that stage where we need to find common ground before we can have a...

Yesch

Xper 5 Age: 31

Whats the meanest thing your boyfriend/girlfriend has ever said to you?

People can say some really nasty things when they are fighting. Some things can do some real emotional and mental damage. Recently, when fighting my girlfriend called me "pathetic". What's the meanest thing your...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

CEO's and Office Hoes themed party?

I'm 18. What would you wear to a party themed Ceo's and office hoes? I want to stand out from the crowd a little bit because most girls will be wearing a collared shirt tucked into a tight bandage skirt with a blazer. Any...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What are your standards that a guy or girl must have?

Not preferences either. These should be requirements only. I'm too tired to think of mine... But I'd like to know yours... What are your standards that a guy or girl must have?

SnackG

Xper 4 Age: 36

Relationships

Love handles, hot or not?

I'm 5'4 & 126 pounds, which I would say is normal & I'm def not fat! Other then I have indented love handles on my lower back, even if I'm not wearing any bottoms, tight or not, I have love a little extra around my back...

preciouspressure

Xper 5 Age: 31

Do guys like when girls fall asleep in their arms?

-grossed out if they drool -try and take advantage of her -do you get uncomfortable? Thanks! :)

ADPi_girl

Xper 3 Age: 33

Fashion & Beauty

Girls: are you afraid of wearing strapless and even kinda short dresses?

i noticed a lot of brave girls doing this today, some of them I was repulsed by, but some were HOT. but my question is do you fear wearing them for what COULD happen? on a related note: is it weird that if a girl has a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why are people so afraid to open up?

Men and women - why are people so afraid to show their true feelings? It always makes me upset that so many people want to belong and be happy, but nobody really takes chances with others... Rejection, fear, paranoia -...

MikeK

Xper 4 Age: 42

Have you ever waited for someone, then ended up dating them?

Have you ever waited for someone for a long time them ended up dating them? Tell em the story! :) I'd love the read it.

KandyGreen

Xper 5 Age: 33

Would a shy girl avoid eye contact with her crush?

I'm pretty sure that this girl likes me, but she avoids eye contact with me. So this is throwing me off a bit, and I have not made an effort to talk to her because of this. thoughts

vapinescapin

Xper 5 Age: 33

Fat girls with pretty faces?

has anyone ever noticed that a lot of big girls have gorgeous faces? like not just pretty, but you can look at the girl and tell that if she lost weight she would easily be a 10? (or an 8, or 9 lol) do you think it's...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls, when a guy likes your photo on Facebook, what goes through your mind?

Likes your photo on Facebook, what goes through your mind? Do you think oh great another perv or are you somewhat flattered by it? Or do you think nothing of it? Give me your opinion

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you think guys' accidental touches mean anything?

A guy I've liked for two years has started to accidentally touch me every time we see each other. Does this mean anything? Also, when sitting by me he'll sit close enough that our bodies touch on both arms/legs and...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)