So I have a horrible record I think three gf's and the relationships only lasted about a week. They all wanted to break up for some stupid reason. "like I think we should be friends." "You acted weird when we held hands " typical nice guy finishes last story. So I'm always stressed because I never even kissed a girl. I try to ignore and suppress this because I've tried and tried to get a nice girlfriend. But as I get older and older I get more stressed because I have so little experience. Help!
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Calm down, you'll be fine. I promise you already have a lot more experience than you think just because you've gotten 3 girls to go out with you, so bravo. True, all girls are different in what they prefer but one thing that a HUGE number of women share is that they just want to know you like them, think they're beautiful, enjoy the time you spend with them, etc. Awkwardness can even help in this because 1) personally, it's adorable and 2) if you're struggling to talk to them and find the right words, that in itself shows you care about them because you're taking the time to try to do things right. Also, if you have questions, ASK! If you ask them, "does this feel ok?" or "do you enjoy this?", they know you're trying to make them feel good and that scores you big points. I notice your age is 18-24 so your chances are much higher automatically (it'd be harder if you were 50 and your skin was starting to sag...)Trying to learn about someone and date them is like taking a leap of faith and knowing that a soft landing is never guaranteed. ;)0