All Questions

Is being clumsy a turn off?

I trip over everything. I fall up stairs. I have no balance. I'm not weak or wimpy. I'm athletic but I'm just not coordinated. I'm not ditzy necessarily, I'm just real clumsy. I can't help it. Is that a major turnoff?

bekahleigh23

Xper 5 Age: 32

Girls: What does ''got lost in his eyes'' mean? (guys can answer too)

I've heard many girls say they ''got lost in a guy's eyes'' before. Obviously they were saying this about a guy they liked. But what on earth does it mean? And how do you get lost in a guy's eyes? Is it something to do...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do guys notice armpit flab?

The question is above. If you don't know what I mean by 'armpit flab' it's the little fat pocket underneath the armpit / sort of beside a girls boobs. I find mine to be really noticeable in tank tops or strapless...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Hey do girls like it when guys spike their hair?

Question above!

NLT158

Xper 5 Age: 32

Dating

Ice skating for first date?

So... I'm planning on going ice skating with this guy for a first date next weekend. Tips on anything?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Can outgoing guys be shy towards the girl they like?

I'm a freshman in college and I like this guy that's a senior. I added him on Fb over winter break and chatted him a few times. The conversation seemed to go well and we talked about anything and everything. This past...

sassydancer2

Xper 5 Age: 34

Why is she calling me "hun"?

So this is the same girl from the previous situation, it's a bit odd but I wanted to address this out of curiousity. We talk a good bit but have not met each other face to face yet and every now and then she'll call me...

randy4321

Xper 5 Age: 34

Break Up & Divorce

Signs of a hurt ex boyfriend

you are around him, but you two don't talk. signs that he could be hurt from the breakup

Anonymous

(36-45)

What to do when a girl says she wants to take it slow?

OK, so we been on three dates, no kissing, no cuddling. On the second date I told her I liked her and that I would love to be more than friends. She then says she's not looking for a relationship now, and I told her me...

hazeces

Xper 5 Age: 38

How can I approach a girl shopping with her mom?

This is a tough one. I'm 21, and I always find girls around my age shopping with their mother. Mostly in grocery stores. I'll make eye contact with her, smile...but have no clue how to sau hi as she stands next to her...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Would you dump your partner if they wore a WIG/hair piece?

yes or no FYI I did, I went out with a girl and she never disclosed that she had a wig on to me. I am the type of lover that gets wild in bed and holding on to the head or pulling hair is my thing. Since she was wearing...

hunglowman4you

Xper 6 Age: 57

If a girl initiates 80% of contact, does that mean the guy doesn't like her?

He always answers when I call/text and calls me back if he misses the call, but he rarely initiates the conversation. Is this a sign he's not interested?

Anonymous

(36-45)

What are signs if a girl likes you?

I'm so confused with these girls now and days. I really want to know what signs girls give off to show that they like someone. I like this girl a lot and I don't even know if she playing with me, or she got other dudes...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I give myself a full body makeover?

I want to fix my hair , clothes , personality everything but I just don't know where to start I hav until Tuesday to change. I just wanna be different more confident , smarter , nicer but for me it's harder than it...

MissUnderstoodx

Xper 5 Age: 32

Do guys like it when their girlfriends send sweet texts?? or do they see that as clingy and needy?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months now. we see each other a good bit and text a lot. He tells me he loves me a lot in person, but not so much over text. I tell him I love him over text and he always...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Do girls still like slow dancing?

I can't dance and I don't go clubbing or anything. Never went to prom either. I love slow dancing though. Pretty good at it too.

DeanWillis

Xper 7 Age: 34

What happened to the public whale tail?

are thongs out of fashion?

Anonymous

(36-45)

This girl flirts with me but she says she doesn't like me.

This girl I go to school with flirts with me all the time out of school when we hang out. She has said flat out that she doesn't like me, but I think *hope* I am growing on her. I don't understand her. She plays games...

Avanat

Xper 5 Age: 44

Society & Politics

Why do guys like Megan Fox so much?

Question above

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Maybe I'm overreaction but boyfriend basically said I'm nothing....

Okay so this is why you don't do sports with your boyfriend... My boyfriend has to wake up early for some crew competition that starts at like 6 in the morning and the coach was asking him what time he was planning on...

AllyAnaBell

Xper 5 Age: 33

Relationships

My girlfriend treats me badly, why and what do I do?

My girlfriend is always putting me down and makes it necessary to point out my flaws. Little put downs throughout the day and never builds me up. This has started to take a toll on my confidence think. I think I love...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

My ex changed his number, I'm hurt?

my ex changed his number I feel alone my heart broken

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do girls sometimes ignore me when we walk past each other?

Do girls do this to all guys they don't know or is there another reason? And by ignore I mean look straight ahead and not make any eye contact.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

My ex says she's over me but I don't believe it?

my ex says she's over me but I don't believe it because she has said this before and we got back together, we've been on and off for a while, how do I get her back and make her want me

Anonymous

(36-45)

Are you ever afraid of sending a friend request?

Do you sometimes not send a friend request because of the fear of rejection? Like on Facebook, Myspace, even on here? How about sending messages, does that ever intimidate you?

itscool23

Xper 5 Age: 37

Why is it that some girls can get any guy they want?

My best friend is that girl that can get any guy she wants. She's super pretty, but she is the biggest liar, and cheats on every guy she dates. Most of the guys know this when dating her, yet they still date her! It's...

djammin

Xper 5 Age: 35

Why do girls give other girls dirty looks?

I went to this dinner thing at my college or whatever. && I sat at a table with my friends&& some other familiar people, and then her. Instantly she would give me dirty looks, && frowns at me whenever I smiled or laughed....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Ex holding my belongings hostage in order to see me?

My ex (I'll leave out the details) told me last night he has my belongings and something he made me but instead of mailing them tomorrow, he said "I'm going to hold it hostage and you can pick it up on your way to your...

Anonymous

(36-45)

She hates me, I miss her. Is there anything I can do...

I dated my best friend, and it got bad. She was very jealous, and got controlling near the end because of her insecurity. It made me really stressed out, but I loved her so I stuck it out, but I was a mess at the end of...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My girlfriend makes my life so miserable, she doubts me so much for no reason, Help.....

I am in a relationship with a girl from the last two years. since I am in relationship I have got so many opportunities to mingle with other girls but I didn't availed thinking that I will disturb my relationship. God...

Anonymous

(36-45)