All Questions

Why did he blow me off?

So I met this guy in a band. We started talking, sometimes till 4 in the morning. He told me he started looking for me at his shows and invited me to ones he had out of town. I couldn't because of just things like work or...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I feel ashamed that I've never had a boyfriend:/

In the 20 years that I've been in this world I feel horrible that I've never had one. I feel ashamed when people ask me, I kind of change the subject and brush the question of. I mean I have talked to guys and gone out...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys check me out, but never talk to me. I don't get it..?

I don't really understand why guys seem to check me out a lot, or point me out to their friends (and make it obvious), but will never come and talk to me. I am extremely shy when it comes to flirting, and I've never...

JennaMarie

Xper 5 Age: 38

Is it a bad sign if your date burps in front of you?

...that he probably doesn't like you

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Why do women love those cheesy romance novels?

You know those ones you see with the guys who look like fabio with a hot girl on the cover. What's the deal, the appeal?

kriskiss

Explorer Age: 39

Family & Friends

Megan Fox and My Boyfriend.. Grrr. :P

Alrighty, so, my mom and my dad have an amazing marriage, and they both tell me that the boy I go out with should only love *you* and find *you* attractive. They also always tell me that my dad will never think another...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

What does it mean when a guy says a girl is decent looking?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why does she avoid being alone with me? (after I asked her out)

I asked her out and got the friend zone treatment and she said she wanted to stay friends. It seemed like she may have started to like me, after we got to know each other more. However we usually hang out with at least...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Interlocking arms with me while walking home?

I was at a party with a bunch of my friends including the guy I like. When we left the house, he caught up to me and interlocked elbows with me (his reasoning was for "warmth", as it was extremely cold out.. yeah right)...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Can it show a girl likes you? Grinding?

Well I was at this party the other night, and this girl who goes to my school added me on facebook randomly and I am in no classes with her, but she sees me in the hallways. So we are at this party and she comes ups to me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Ex called me after 20 days of no contact?

ok...so my boyfriend of 5 years broke up with me because of a few fights over stupid things... he sounded pretty adamant on the breakup! i tried to call him a few times but received cold response from him. so I stopped...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it weird to tell a guy straight forward that you like him?

A lot of friends told me that I shouldn't tell the guy I like that I like him "straight forward", and that I should flirt with him and wait for him to ask me out. But I don't feel like waiting. He's kind of shy and I...

Milleah

Xper 5 Age: 32

Shopping & Gifts

My boyfriend doesn't want his birthday present?

so it's my boyfriend's birthday on Thursday and I wanted to get him something interactive, something we could enjoy together. then he told me about a concert he wants to go to that's happening a day before his bday...

sherrybaby

Xper 3 Age: 36

Guy's Behavior

Guy gave me a ring, what finger do I wear it on?

I've been dating this guy for about a month. we see each once to twice a week. so it's serious, but not that serious. and we are exclusively seeing only each other. Recently he went away on a trip and when he came back,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Ex calling me buddy. [Please read]

I'll try to keep it short. Ok, so I was going out with this girl [now my ex] for a while, and then we broke up. She has had a Boyfriend after we broke up, but they recently broke up. I was talking to her, and when the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys what do you think of girls who sit alone?

If they are reading a book, sitting by themselves going through their phone, sitting alone while they eat, Do you think of them as loners? Is there a time or place where it is weird to see someone alone, and other times...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

He doesn't want it to be facebook official

My boyfriend and I started our relationship and we put it on facebook, but we broke up and got back together and never put it back on. now its about 2 months later and it kinda bugs me. I understand how he doesn't want to...

jeanie721

Xper 5 Age: 34

I asked her out, she said no, but still texts and calls all the time.

So I met a girl and we have become really close friends over the last few months. To the point that we text each other most days, normally meet on the weekend. We talk about nothing much but are always there to support...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why does ex keep putting the ball in my court?

He dumped me/treated me terribly about a month ago for someone else when I only wanted to have casual sex with him/be friendly (we broke up for real a year ago and were together 3 years). Now every time he talks to me...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Has anyone ever been to a rainbow party?

My and some friends were discussing the "myth" and that it had to stem from somewhere so it has had to have happened. Wondering if any of you could chime in.

awwcudivans

Xper 4 Age: 35

Are woman really fickle minded?

i really don't understand what woman is thinking.. one moment she said there is no way in patching up with her ex boyfriend , soon after they patched up again... can a woman's words be trusted ? or are they really just...

im_sad

Xper 5 Age: 37

I keep my distance. Is it bad that I do this?

When I first get into a relationship (like casual dating), I don't want to come off as clingy to the guy so I keep my distance. It's not so much that I'm trying to play a game, but I'm afraid that I will come off too...

Anonymous

(36-45)

If a girl asks you if you have kids?

There's this girl at work and in the last couple of weeks we've become pretty close and we tease and joke with each other a lot. We are both in our mid 20s and in all of our conversation we have never mentioned if we are...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shopping & Gifts

He calls me every day, but doesn't want to see me. what should I do?

I really don't know what to do. I like this guy, but he doesn't seem able to fully commit. ..here's my story I know him for 6 months. we didn't date too much in the first 3 months. we did see each other, but one or twice...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Got number from waitress, text for a bit or ask her out for coffee?

Hey, so I while I was out for dinner with a friend, long story short, at the end if the meal I started flirting with our attractive waitress and she seemed fairly receptive to it. When after taking care of the bill and...

another-user

Xper 5 Age: 40

Guys, what do you think of girls who are surrounded by a lot of men?

She could be either 'one of the guys' and/or just extremely attractive that many men throw themselves at her. Either way, does that intimidate you from approaching her? I have more male friends than female, however my...

HopeIessRomantik

Xper 6 Age: 36

Girls: Would you date a guy who uses a cane?

Girls, age 25 and younger: Would you date someone who uses a cane to walk around with? Due to an accident I suffered in the past, I've been re-learning how to walk again and I have gotten myself to the point where I can...

Anonymous

(36-45)