All Questions

Liking someone within your group of friends?

So I like this guy, and he happens to be one of my good friends that I hang out with often. Obviously I know you can't help who you're attracted to, but is it worth risking a friendship by getting involved with him?...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Why do girls make guys chase them?

I think its the stupidest thing ever. I would do it for a girl no matter how much I wanted her because it seems like when they do that their doubting you...

akkenny

Xper 3 Age: 34

Crush on exchange student?

Last year, there was an exchange student in my class, I already kinda liked her since we met, but the last two months of the school year I did a project with her and two other guys, and I got a crush on her. I went out...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is being the mysterious man a good thing?

So basically all through high school I was friends with virtually all the popular guys and was kinda one myself except I'm shy and don't talk to girls. I also played junior hockey (still do) and a part time soldier (in...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My boyfriend broke up with me because of his life issues. He said he is stressed and depressed.

We've been together for like 8 months and everything changed when he found out his grandpa has cancer and dying soon. He told me he is so stressed about his life issue and his job. He's an only child and he has a big...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What size is considered "FAT"?

Guys and girls, please explain this to me. I just got done talking to someone about 'fat' girls and 'skinny' jeans...they said that all jeans are skinny on a fat girl. I need some opinions so my mind can be at ease here.

Kiste91

Xper 5 Age: 34

Fashion & Beauty

Guys, what do you think of girls with glasses? Do you like it or not?

My general assumption is that most people tend to look better without glasses, but if somebody is attractive and has a nice pair of glasses they will also look really nice. I am a heavy contact lens user (prescription...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

If you were rich and single, would you hide being rich from someone on a first date with you?

If you acted normal, and not cheap, on a first date, and you were wealthy, would you hide that fact from someone you dated the first time?

BobSacamano

Xper 4 Age: 45

Fashion & Beauty

Ladies, what do you notice about a guy's smell?

Like not BO or anything because that's just nasty, but just generally the way he smells. When you can tell that it's a guy's scent and it's strong, not overpowering, not all cologney...I think I'm doing a really bad job...

myspacemybroke

Guru Age: 33

Are skirts more comfortable than jeans?

It appears there's a clear comfort advantage skirts have over jeans...why aren't skirts more popular with girls?

denyfortunes

Xper 6 Age: 35

My boyfriend won't cut off his ex, what should I do?

We have been together for almost a year and things are very serious but he keeps in contact with his ex. I wouldn't normally have a problem with this because I trust him and I talk to my ex every so often, but we have a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

If you haven't seen your boyfriend for over a year because stuff always comes up does he really love you?

Me and my boyfriend have been dating a year and 4 months and right now he is in Tennessee and I am in Texas.. so I guess its long distance but all year its been like a strive for him to come home! but each and every times...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to Cope With Androphobia (Fear of Men)

I think I may have Androphobia (fear of men). I have always been nervous around men & find it very difficult to talk to them. I have never had a boyfriend & the idea of having one terrifies me. It is not that I don't like...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Why would an ex girlfriend want to keep tabs on you?

well my ex had been contacting me and asking our friends about me. Our friend told me that she just wants to keep tabs on you. I don't understand this because she broke up with me. Its not making much since to me,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Do guys care if girls have razor bumps?

I'm constantly pressured to shave my pubic area but when I finally did I got a razor bumps ... do guys notice those?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Does no contact work 100% of the time?

Ok so I have always sworn by the no contact rule because its the only way to move on. But also because so many people claim it's the best way to get an ex back and have experienced this myself. But a friend of mine is...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What's it mean when a guy asks about your family?

I like this guy and we text all day basically. Every now and then he asks me how my family is or how my mom or sister is(he said he would ask about my dad but he knows my dad is kinda strict..) and I'm just wondering if...

Cantfightfate

Xper 4 Age: 32

Is hearing a zooming sound in your head normal?

I was just wondering because it is keeping me up its nearly half two in the morning its like a car zooming in one ear and out the other so fast? any idea what this is?

Anonymous

(30-35)

I lied about my age, What to do?

I met this girl at a Halloween party, we where instantly attracted to one another. we became BF/GF 3 days after. About 2 weeks ago we started using the L word. I know we are moving kinda fast but we are both weird in...

stonerman

Xper 5 Age: 39

What do women mean when they say: Tall, Dark and Handsome?

Hey, so I've been reading up on this site ( I'm fairly new), and when women are asked what they find attractive (physical-wise) most of you say tall, dark, and handsome and I can't be the only guy wondering what's...

hALLDAY

Yoda Age: 34

I'm kind of falling for my ex boyfriend's best friend...

I have no intention in making him jealous, but just out of sheer curiosity, do you think he will get jealous? Or get mad? I don't know if I want to date his best friend yet... and we just broke up a month ago. It used to...

GirlsGetBoners

Xper 5 Age: 34

What should I do about a difficult crush?

Okay so basically my crush and I started off by fb messaging each other a lot. Our conversations were interesting! We flirted, teased quite a bit. He finally gave me his # and told me to text him. On the same day, I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Why is she suddenly being silent?

So I met this girl online in early October, we started talking and ended up having a lot in common. She was living in Michigan at the time, but was moving to Florida in December, so was looking for people in Florida. We...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

Not getting why does she buy me stuff?

I like her but not sure how she feels. She buys me stuff I'm talking food and drinks not expensive things. She never buys things for her other guy friends, if they ask she just tells them they can get there own. I don't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Crowded trains and buses?

if you are on a crowded train or bus and a man is behind you, and is pushed on you, and stays there. what do you think?

Anonymous

(30-35)

People who don't like sarcasm are the people the just don't get it?

agree or disagree. Personally I'm a bit of an intellectual snob :/ so I agree with this and with other things when people don't get things they just say the don't get them.

thisislifebaby

Xper 5 Age: 32

What does it mean when someone says...You're too much?

I honestly DON'T get it. Too much what?!?!?!?! help :/ thanks :]

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shopping & Gifts

Is it rude to exchange a gift for something different?

My boyfriends parents got me jeans and a jacket for xmas. They kept saying to me if I didn't like it then I can exchange it and just to let them know. Anyways, the clothes aren't my style and I would much rather exchange...

topnotch69

Xper 6 Age: 45

Whats the minimum height for you girls ?

whats the minimum height of a guy you would date or FWB with ? and be sure to say your height too

Anonymous

(30-35)