Why does guy accidentally bump into me all the time?

[Anonymous]

Hi, I work with a guy I like but he never seems to let me know either way what he feels. I get the gut feel he may like me, but I cannot tell for sure. The one thing I consistently notice is he always seems to accidentally touch my hand. When we walk together in the hallways he always walks close on my left side and bumps elbows the entire time and doesn't move over. He wanted to see something on my blackberry one day & grabbed my hand while he was taking the phone. He went to take my book out of my hand the other day and instead of grabbing just the book, he managed to grab my hand too briefly. Then, he sits by me in meetings and always kicks my foot under the table about 3-5 times or taps my chair incessantly. He was at a group lunch with me the other day and chose the seat next to me. The entire time he brushed against my arm with his elbow and and splayed his legs to his right leg touched my leg accidentally . Do you think he is just clumsy or is this a sign he maybe likes me? What is he getting out of this? The reason I keep doubting myself is I wouldn't get anything out of accidentally bumping into someone. He doesn't ever hug me, just always seems to be in my personal space. One time he said he felt like he should hug me, but he said he isn't the hugging type. Thoughts? Thanks for your help.

[ChelseaBSB]

These are definitely signs he likes you! If he only did it a couple times on accident then it might look like he's clumsy, but as often as you mentioned it, it sure doesn't seem like just being clumsy. Maybe that's just his way of expressing himself. It could be his nerves that kick in causing him to do that too. I'd see if he wants to have lunch one day and get to know him better. Hopefully he won't suffocate you at the table lol.