What if a guy remembers every word I say? And can't stop thinking about that?

[Anonymous]

We are not together but we have been friends for a little less than a year.a month or so ago we started to spend some nights together(cuddling, kissing in my bed).but because he is still not over his ex girlfriend,he can't commit and I even don't wait it from him.We feel good together and love talking for hours every day so official status doesn't matter.

the problem is that he remembers every my word!i already don't know how and what to say to him!He can get upset very fast if I tell smth uncareful(just a little bit) and he will remind me that later to clear the situation.He tells that he has been thinking a lot about what I said etc...

We are not in a relationship !

[dreamtime]

I don't see a specific question so I'm just guessing with your issue(s), he might have an excellent memory... I can remember 90% of the conversations I've had with pretty much anyone since I was 16 for example, its not really because I want to be able to do that.. its just because I do.

The fact that he thinks a lot about what you are saying shows that he deeply cares for you and is interested in the conversations you've had, it could indictate that he's thinking about you as more then a friend but I'm not going to say it'll guarantee it regardless of it being the likely conclusion for many due to you saying he's not over his ex girlfriend.

If your happy with what you have, then don't change a thing and just accept him for what/who he is. And if it bothers you, concider bringing it up delicately as he'll likely overthink it and if he's at least somewhat intelligent will actually see why it would be bothering you.

Hope this was what you wanted insight on, if not feel free to comment and I'll respond in a different way