All Questions

SO he isn't shy anymore, what does that mean?

Oh man where do I begin. here is a short version about this guy. I have known him forever, we have always flirted back and forth (mainly him to me), and he asked me out once but I thought he was kidding, then in about...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Guys, what's a good comeback for "let's just be friends"?

Guys, if a girl you're interested in tells you "you're so nice/sweet/good" or "let's just be friends", or you feel like you're about to be put in the friend zone, what's a good comeback (words or actions) that can make...

sonic241928

Explorer Age: 41

Family & Friends

I'm falling for my best friend who has a boyfriend!!!

So here's the story! Me and this girl have been good friends for about a year. We always had boyfriend/girlfriend but then broke up with them around the same time. Then we saw each other as single people and began...

Bealifer

Xper 5 Age: 40

Is this allowed in a "friends with benefits" relationship?

I know, in a FWB relationship, the focus is on sex and the two people involved aren't dating each other, but do most FWBs do the simple things that people in a dating relationship do, like holding hands, or is that...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girlfriend Wants To Be Friends, Then Doesn't Contact?

My girlfriend broke up with me about 3 weeks ago. When we broke up she really wanted to be friends after it. A week ago I got the feeling she might want to talk or get back together so I called her and brought it up...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Am I just a piece of ass or is he into me as he says?

So I met this guy off a dating website and we built such a strong connection from the beginning. We share common interests and are looking for a relationship. After a few weeks we decided to meet and at the end of the...

boxermo

Xper 5 Age: 40

Fashion & Beauty

Ladies I need your take on this! Criticism is welcome:)

ok I see a lot girls on here saying that they would not sleep with a guy that has a awesome personality but looked unappealing those men might as well be douche bags and a**holes. I'm wondering if you went to a party and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you prefer if a guy says "What are your digits" as opposed to "What's your phone number"?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is she attracted to me? They avoid eye contact but smile?

What does it mean when a girl gives a shy smile but doesn't make any eye contact? I've noticed for different situations - at work, restaurants etc. I.e. I noticed for different women when I walked down a hall at work,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

Why did this girl keep looking in my direction?

The only thing I said to her was thank you and asked her what class this is. I sat two seats left of her, she kept looking at my direction, so many times during the class. I'm not shy, I can't help but not look at her...

MyLastOne

Xper 5 Age: 35

If a guy calls you cutie all the time, is he flirting or just being friendly?

There's this guy in one of my classes who always greets me by saying "Hey, cutie!" and when I do weird things he'll always say "cute." Is he just being flirty? Or could he be playing around? Honestly I'm the last person...

Anonymous

(30-35)

You like a guy but you flaked on him?

You flaked out on him, (for whatever reason) what kind of reaction would you expect from him, if you like him, that you would respond positively to? That would mane you go out with him.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Texting someone you've never met?

Guys, would you not want to talk to a girl over text that you have never met in person? A guy I have never met before, who knows one of my friends started texting me the other day and we talked for a little bit, he seems...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Why do guys think that girls only care about looks?

I don't know I just don't understand why that's a common assumption for me and I think its safe to say many, many other girls its just not true i am friends with a so called "hot" guy and I have no interest in him what...

Anonymous

(30-35)

'things have changed!'

What does this mean? 'things have changed'. I am currently at uni with my girlfriend and having been going out for a year, each holiday break, Christmas/Easter/Summer she takes a funny turn and acts weirdly towards me,...

sanelunatic

Xper 3 Age: 39

Marriage & Weddings

Husband look at pictures of naked women?

I have explained how this makes me feel and I have begged him to stop doing it. I've been open minded and told him that he can tell me why he does it and I promised not to get angry. He just shuts down and says he doesn't...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend earns a LOT more than me - how do I deal with this?

I am not a materialistic person. I love my boyfriend to bits for who he is. I hope I will be at his side forever, whatever happens. Also, I believe strongly in equality, which means that I always pay at least my half...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Why would my boyfriend delete his messages?

So my boyfriend and I have been going out for three years now. We have a one year old daughter and live together. The other day I was logged into yahoo and the next morning I went on to check my mail. I clicked on mail...

Blueeyes28

Xper 5 Age: 36

How long is too long to not hear from a guy?!?

So the guy I'm totally into last text me on sunday. I text back and its now wends night and still no text again (we've been on 3 dates over the last month..its sort of long distance) but...Is it alright that he's not into...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Being too intense for him?

i asked the guy I was seeing how he felt about me..although I didn't want it to be through texting it was, because I couldn't hold it in any longer because it was driving me crazy..always wondering. He texted me back...

Linsey

Xper 3 Age: 35

Moving in with my boyfriend who is in the Navy- please help I need advice!

I've been dating my boyfriend for nine months and he's the most serious I have ever been. I am going to be 20 years old in a couple of months. I have known him for 5 years also So my boyfriend is joining the navy, which...

luna-

Xper 5 Age: 36

My Boyfriend wants me to change my appearance?

A few days ago, my boyfriend asked me if I could 'gain weight' for him. He told me he'd love if I did that because he "likes it to jiggle." Now, I'm a thin girl, I weigh about 116 lbs. and I'm 5'5 but I'm healthy. I'm not...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I like her, but she says she wants to stay single.

Okay, so I'm a senior in high school. And I've had this crush on a girl since January, We've gotten incredibly close over this year and we have a ton in common. I'll go to her house and we're good friends. She's had a...

hydefro

Xper 5 Age: 34

Girls do you feel self conscious about how big your butt is?

does it make you feel uncomfortable?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

He thinks I'm ignoring him but I'm just nervous and panicked...

so my crush thinks I'm playing games, and he's been trying to get my attention but I've been shy and just look down or away and he thinks I'm ignoring him, he walked past me rudely and left after class...i don't know what...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

When is the best time to text a girl?

During the middle of the week?

ouple

Xper 5 Age: 33

Taurus men??

Coming from aries I can say I've never had a man I had too put my whole life into apart from my ex who's a Taurus. ok we dated we fell in love, sparks, friendship the whole lot and then he ended it for no reason just out...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

What does it mean when a guy wants to take a break but doesn't want to break up?

My boyfriend recently told me he wants to take a break, but he's assured me that he does NOT want to break up. There's a lot of stuff going on right now in my life that is affecting him, and he says he wants to take a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

What kind of guy are you looking for?

This is for ladies only just wondering what your looking for in a guy and what you want out of a relationship with him

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls what you think about nipple piercing for guys?

Does girls like them on guys? what you think about a guy with them?

wally

Xper 4 Age: 46

Girl's Behavior

Girl who I like seems easy for everyone but me...

OK iv known her for a bit over a year and we'll iv liked her since I met her but we've never even kissed. Its not like she has personal space issues with me, we've slept in the same bed, she sits on my lap at parties, we...

Joe223

Xper 5 Age: 36