How to tell if she has a boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

so me and this girl have been friends for a while, then we sort of fell out of contact for a little while. she started to hang out with another guy (which I had no problem with). but now she seems interested (she was asking if we could hang out), but I don't know if she's with that guy, or not? or what?

so my questions are:

1) is she with that guy?

2) is it reasonable to think she likes me?

thanks!

Updates

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ps its not on facebook or anything but she doesn't do facebook very much

[Anonymous]

I don't get it, why can't you just ask her if she has a boyfriend? Especially since you actually know her?

Here let me break it down.

Question Asker: Do you have a boyfriend?

Responder: No.

Question Asker: Want to go get some coffee after this?

Responder: Sure

Something that simple has worked for me for years. I don't understand why people get themselves emotionally drained in these type of situations. Might as well get it over with, so you can make you next move (Exit, or Proceed)

Now you'll be hanging out with her not knowing whether or not something is available. It'll be running in the back of your mind.

[BoobMan]

1) you'll find out soon enough; for the purposes of right now it doesn't matter, and

2) yes, it is reasonable to think that.

You should plan a cool date and have fun with her and see how attracted to you she is. If she has a boyfriend she won't be that attracted. For that matter there could be a NUMBER of reasons that she's not attracted, but none of them matter. All that matters is if she is or she isn't.

[booboo2590]

Get her to hang out with you, if she says no or makes excuses, means she is not interested!

If she does hang out with you, she is probably going to bring up her boyfriend in conversation, and if she doesn't then

1) She does not have a boyfriend

2) She likes you and does not want to mention it (she will dump him soon :D )

Just enjoy while u'll hang out

[ItalianBro]

If she wants to hang out than just hang out... if she has a boyfriend than she will bring him up in a conversation. When your with her don't ask if she has a boyfriend, just have fun.