All Questions

What makes a guy LOOK like a player?

Unfortunately many times I've been told I look like a player. so what makes a guy look like a player? They don't even know me and they judge me.

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Health & Fitness

How much weight can I lose eating 350 calories a day?

I'm 5"3, weigh 180 pounds, at 50% bodyfat and 23 years old. Does anyone have any dramatic weight loss stories? Breakfast: Coffee with milk, no sugar, 3 cups = 20 calories Dinner: 1 cheeseburger from mcdonalds = 330...

993099142

Xper 6 Age: 41

How can I avoid being seen as "easy"?

I don't mean sexually because I am not easy and it's no problem for me not to be promiscuous, but I asked another question about playing hard to get, and my best answerer said that guys hate chases, and they hate girls...

LoveMaeRae

Xper 5 Age: 37

Hugs from behind?

Does it mean anything when a guy hugs you from behind? i.e. Is it a sign that maybe there is some at least physical attraction or is it a slightly more intimate hug? What does it mean?

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do you play off getting rejected?

After much thought and self preparation, I am almost ready to ask this guy out. I have accepted the fact that I might get rejected, it won't hurt because I've spent years building up my self esteem and I know that there...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do women like to go barefoot in a park when having a picnic?

I notice that a lot of women seem to like to take there shoes and socks off when sitting on the grass at a park weather its a picnic or just casual sitting. Why is this? Is it just comfortable? I mean I would like to try...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Dating

How often shall you ask a girl on a date when you already know you like her?

I've been on 7 or 8 dates with this girl and have already established that I like her. I can tell that she is interested in return but since day one has told me she doesn't call guys and likes them to be the pursuer. The...

jd555

Xper 5 Age: 57

Laying your head on his shoulder?

When a girl is watching a movie with a guy and she is sitting by him, lets say he made the first move and took her hand and held it. Then the girl rests her head on his shoulder with other people around, what is the guy...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Boyfriend and His Friend Sleep Together In The Same Bed...?

Okay. So once a week my boyfriend of three years has his best friend come over. To clear any confusion, his best friend is a guy. His friend stays over and sleeps with him on his bed. My boyfriend has a very open minded...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Ladies why do women bash men so much?

I mean lately when you see a bunch of girls together you hear why does my boyfriend do this. Or he is so boring, or guys are clueless. And even the older women my husband leaves the house a mess, all he wants to do is...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

How do you keep him from getting bored?

How do you keep your boyfriend from getting bored in a relationship? Is spending time away good? Not answer all phone calls? I just wonder what is it that guys want from a girlfriend to stay interested in her

Jamerz

Xper 6 Age: 40

Health & Fitness

muscles, or lean?

ok this is a question I have always wanted to know, does a girl like their men all buff with almost no fat or lean with some muscle and fat? i would understand "buff because they can be a real help when we have kids"...

Xavier238

Xper 5 Age: 34

Marriage & Weddings

Do Both Guy and Girl Get Promise Rings or Just the Girl?

I want to give my girlfriend a promise ring and I need to know does that mean she gives one to me when I get her one or just do I give one to her? And what is the difference between a promise ring and an engagement ring?

Goodolboy58

Xper 5 Age: 38

Family & Friends

Promise rings. Telling my parents?

Engaged to be engaged. That is what my boyfriend and I are calling it. I am 16 and he is 15 and 1/2. We've been dating for 8 months. We want to get promise rings for what we have already decided. (he loves symbolism)...

Inkweaver2

Xper 6 Age: 34

My boyfriend won't accept me the way I am!

We've been dating almost 2 years. He tells me he loves me and we enjoy being together. I love his kids he loves mine. The only problem is he says he is concerned about my weight. I'm a 37 year attractive women not...

mcornish

Xper 5 Age: 55

Why are "needy" men such a turn off to women anyway?

ok, bear with me for a moment, I am a lonely guy, I freely admit it, I am in my own opinion a great guy, I just know I got needs and I am tired of rejections. but for some reason women hate it when men admit it openly....

quantumdefender

Explorer Age: 57

Fashion & Beauty

Massage on period?

I have an appointment tomorrow for a massage and I started my period. can I still go? should I tell the therapist (who is a guy)

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

How many days do you wait before you call someone back?

Is there really a rule to calling people back? I heard there's the two day rule so I was just wondering how many days you wait untill you call someone back.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

What color eyes do guys prefer?

I was just wondering if the majority of guys liked a certain color of eyes. If so, why do you like that color?

stargazer1

Xper 4 Age: 37

Guys do you like it when a girl puts her head on your chest?

I have a habit of putting my head against my guy friend's chest (I like him) when I put my arms around him, cos I like the feeling of laying my head there, but never really thought about how guys feel about it. Any...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend's friends think I'm crazy

Ok, so there was a point during our 4 year relationship in which we were fighting all of the time. I must admit, I did some very unbecoming things.as did he. But, of course, they only know his side. Now that we've figured...

NaeNaeHasHeart

Xper 5 Age: 39

Ladies if a girl totally flirted with you when she's drunk does she like you when she's sober?

Ok I recently went on a trip up to maine and I noticed the guys were very laid back. I thought to myself being so laid back how do guys hook up with girls around here. And none of the girls seemed interested in the guys....

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

What do you guys think of a girl with no panties?

So my guy and were getting ready to get busy for our second time with each other and I had no panties on and when he went to take off my jeans and saw that I had none on, he said, "are you serious you don't have any...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Society & Politics

Should I be upset my boyfriend tells other girls their hot via facebook walls and occasionally pokes girls?

So I know my boyfriend loves me very much and he is the sweetest guy when he is around me. However, there is a side to him on facebook where he chats it up with other girls. Most of the time its harmless but one time he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why does he have to pick me up?

I'm very insecure about my weight so when my boyfriend tries to pick me up I won't let him. but for some reason he is determined though. its like I have to stay on guard lol. What's up with that?

ShadowRose16

Xper 5 Age: 34

Society & Politics

I need an excuse to call her

This is kinda' desperate, but I can't think of any good excuses/reasons to call the girl that I like. Any input would be good.

Anonymous

(30-35)

He said he was thinking about me...does he like me? HELP!

Guys if you text a girl out of the blue a few weeks after a date and say "Hey girl.was just thinking about you.hope your day is going well" do you like/are interested in her?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why are a lot of guys so secretly attracted to shy, quiet girls?

I've always been a pretty quiet girl, and most of the time guys don't seem to notice me as anything more than a friend or flirt with me that much. But quite a few guys have admitted to my friends that they think I'm...

LeftEntails

Xper 6 Age: 37