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Why does my girlfriend thinks I don't find her...

My girlfriend dieting and she doesn't have to. She not eating a thing. I think started when I jokingly say she's eating too much. Now she wearing baggy clothes also she's thinks I find her unattractive which is not even...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Why are women attracted to scumbags?

I am 39 now, I never had a girlfriend, nor a relationship. I have been told that I am a "nice guy" but women for some reason hate nice guys! I have a job and a car, I take care of myself. but all the time I see hot...

quantumdefender

Explorer Age: 57

Why won't he hold my hand in public?

My boyfriend absolutely hates PDA. He won't hold my hand or kiss me or show ANY affection whatsoever when we're in public. He said he hates seeing people that are all over each other when they're out. I can understand...

lightswillguide

Xper 5 Age: 34

Do girls stalk the guy they like online?

This younger girl I like, Kirsten, I'm pretty sure stalks me online, but denies that she likes me, even tho whenever I see her she blushes, and twirls her hair like crazy, she talks about me all the time with her friends....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do some guys wait for women to make the first move?

I really like this Asian guy but I feel like I have to initiate things first. I've always been told that men should pursue women, but now they say it's OK for women to go for what they want. I feel that if a guy likes you...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Break Up & Divorce

How do I become less uptight and more laid back?

I am really interested in this guy and he likes me. The problem is that I get angry at the drop of a hat. He is more laid back and doesn't take things so seriously. We are comlete opposites. With me the glass is...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

I had sex with my best friend's frat brother now he hates me... Why??!

I have been best friends with a boy since I was in the 4th grade. Now that we've spent years getting to know each other, and become inseparable, I can honestly say that I love him. No, I'm in love with him. We've kept...

ooohlalala

Xper 5 Age: 39

Break Up & Divorce

Should I let my boyfriend know that I'm jealous?

My boyfriend has a friend who is a girl who he is very close with and has been friends with for a long time. There have been things that he's done that have bothered me but I haven't said anything to him about because I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do I attract married men?

I'm not married, but I'm in a serious relationship. Over the last year, I've had two of my married male friends approach me about starting an illicit relationship. I don't understand this - why do these married men think...

Jezebel0202

Xper 3 Age: 44

I have the HPV virus. Should I just blurt this out whenever I meet someone?

I have the HPV virus.and trust me it sucks! First off let me tell you I am not some sort of dirty whore! I have only slept with 8 people in my 13 years of sexual activity. I got this virus from my ex (we broke up like...

jstagurl

Xper 5 Age: 45

Would you dump your boyfriend if he kissed another girl?

Okay, here's the story. I had been dating my boyfriend for two weeks or so, and then he kissed another girl who was a friend of his. The story behind that was that he liked the girl prior to meeting me. But she had a...

punchxcore

Xper 3 Age: 42

My manager and I might like each other...?

Sorry it's kinda long! Ok, so I work at a clothing store where there's supposedly a "strict" company policy against managers (my crush) hanging out with subordinates (me.) Nevertheless, two of our other managers hang out...

yayaya

Xper 5 Age: 38

Dating

Male virgins?

Where does a girl find a male virgin or a guy at least willing to wait above 25yrs old? Or are they completely extinct? If not is there any way to tell that he is a virgin? Are there dating sites for virgins? Don't say...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do guys like tan skin on asian girls? and what about hair color?

I am mixed chinese and thai. And I have yellowish yet still a bit pale skin color. I don't really know how to describe it but it looks uneven-some areas looks darker and some are lighter. So should I get a tan to even it...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I tell her how I feel eventhough she has a Boyfriend?

this girl I have had a crush on for the last few months has a boyfriend. we talk and flirt all the time. sometimes I get the feeling she wants more but I won't do anything until she is single. I don' t know if I should...

lonlyguy

Xper 5 Age: 40

How would you feel if a guy gave you a blue rose?

There one of the rarest roses on the planet but scientists have recently found a way to make a blue rose. We all know red roses for love and romance, yellow is for friendship and happiness, and pink is for liking a...

blue-kev

Xper 7 Age: 52

How to approach a shy girl?

So there's a girl I have already approached once before, however she blushed and quickly ended the conversation and walked off. I could tell it was simply because she didn't expect to be approached out of the blue - even...

Maxxam

Xper 5 Age: 39

Dating

My crush asked me out to go eat lunch...what do I do?

I am really falling for him and I will be very nervous. What should I do? Guys what goes through your mind in this situation? I don't want us to get quiet or boring how do I keep our lunch date non boring? I really like...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Hugging guys...

Is there a difference between putting your arms around a guy's waist and putting them around his neck?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why would a married man remove his wedding band before seeing the other woman

the other woman knows about the guy being married he accidentally forgot to remove the ring so I guess my question is if the other woman know about the ring why does he still hide the ring when around the mistress

allisfairinlove

Xper 5 Age: 57

Women with children from another man?

Okay ladies, this question is based on a recent interaction I had this past weekend. Guys you can chime in too if you have had similar experiences. I met a very beautiful woman while I was out this weekend and we hit it...

Da-Boss

Xper 4 Age: 40

Relationships

When people get really drunk why do they always apologize for everything?

When I got really drunk I remembered saying sorry for every little thing. Do people really mean what they say when they are drunk?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does a girl giving you her number mean anything?

Does a girl giving you her number mean anything? As far as I know, she doesn't just give people her cell number, but she did me when I asked if it was ok if I had it? We are work friends only. Is she just being nice?...

StarDrifter

Xper 5 Age: 52

What does it mean when he says his feelings aren't as strong as yours?

So I have known this guy since I have been 12 I am 22 now. We have been dating for three months now and he said to me today that his feelings aren't as strong as yours. What does that mean?

cr0mbieprincess86

Xper 5 Age: 40

Why do older men find me more attractive?

I'm wondering because I seem to attract the older types more than those closer to my age. These older guys aren't "sleazy" (although there are those too) and I don't look easy-to-manipulate (if so, they'd go for the...

afterschoolgirl

Xper 5 Age: 38

Shopping & Gifts

Should I tell my boyfriend about my birthday?

So I was wondering if its my responsibility to tell my boyfriend that my bday is coming up?.ive already tried to hint to him about it but he doesn't respond. the reason I'm asking is because my best guy friend is throwing...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls, do you like guys with eyeliner?

Do any girls like guys with eyeliner ?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Marriage & Weddings

I'm married & I had an affair with a married man ..I need help.

Hello everyone, This is not the least bit pleasant for me to type but I need help. I'm married and have been for 15 years. We have 2 kids together. The first several years of our marriage,was extremely unhappy.He use to...

caligirl82

Xper 5 Age: 53

She's not affectionate. What can I do?

My girl lol.where do I start. Well me and this girl met a few months ago at work and we did the whole friends thing for 4 or 5 months, then she pulled the let's get serious trigger which surprised me because I never...

amadeus

Xper 5 Age: 41

If she had a dream about me...

a girl that I've been friends with for a while just said that she had a dream about me. I didn't think much of it and I still don't because I've learned not to overreact to signals from her. Almost ever since I've known...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

What does it mean when a guy winks at you while he's talking?

What does this mean? The other day a man that is a patron where I work was talking to me and a coworker and he said something to my coworker and while he was saying it looked at me and winked. He seems to always try to...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Society & Politics

My coworker won't socialize with me!?

I've been working at this one job for 2 1/2 months. And I've noticed this one male coworker doesn't really talk to me.even when I was new.I could be working on a project with someone else and he'll come over and talk to...

obligations

Explorer Age: 40