A few years back I dated a guy in college and it worked out well for a while but then it ended as many relationships do. I blocked his number after a while but I did feel bad he was a nice guy and all but he had some issues. I had encouraged him to go talk to someone before and it seems after we broke up he did and he got a job. When I was dating him I worked almost all the way through college and he did not have a job but I did not mind that much. He kept saying he was hopeful and he also wants to be friends on Facebook. He also somehow found me on Instagram even though I am sure I never said anything about that account anywhere.
To me now it seems like he may be trying to either reconnect with me though I am in a relationship now again and I do not want to talk to my ex. I have left what happened in the past and it seems he has not or is still doing so. I think I did tell him to please leave me alone at one point though I have to go back and look for that.
What I learned from this for myself is:
When it's time to move on its sometimes best to and leave the past in the past. Dragging things on and contacting people who do not want to talk and have expressed that to you can cause more problems or damage. It may be best to let things end in peace rather than drag it on.
*This is all personal and how I handled things when it happened*