I dumped him for being sensitive.

[Anonymous]

He was crying because of financial losses, hardships and his friends betrayed him. And instead of being a man, he became a little boy in which I lost my attraction to. So I dumped him and told him to never come back again. I unfollowed him on all social media and deleted his number. He even sent me a letter telling how I broke his heart. I realized that he just wasn't ready for a relationship and is weak. I didn't bother reading it as it's useless and a waste of time so I just glanced at it then threw it away. I think of him as immature and insecure, given the fact that women are faster to get over something, by the time I'm already out there making success, he's still out there sobbing and realizing my worth. I'm happy alone and having a guy is just a bonus to me as I don't need them anyways. Sorry, not sorry!

[SueShe]

And it is because of situations like that that I have decided to stay single. You have realized now what advantages being single. I would not give it up for anything or anybody.

I am not the least interested in being sexual or intimate, which makes my single life even better.

I don't know about you and how much you would miss intimacy or if that would be another reason to start another relationship.

[Bananaman177]

You're just scared, that's all.

You think it makes you brave? Hiding from the world, hiding from life?

Just makes you a loser and coward.

That's what kind of man you deserve, the kind you despise the most.

[SueShe]

@Bananaman177 whatever

[Bananaman177]

Color me not surprised that you fold like a wet rag when challenged.

That's how you would be if you had a man, too. You'd fold up on him anytime he needed you to stand firm and back him up on anything. He'd be fucked, alright, but not in a good way.

[SueShe]

@Bananaman177 As long as most guy only think with their primary brain between their twins and not with their secondary one between the eyes, then it is useless to even argue with them. We all know what matters most to a guy in a relation, right?

And that is end of conversation. I am not here to argue with you on your inaptitude to understand anything related to the issue here.

That was my last waste of time with you and don't expect any further replies.

[Bananaman177]

Hmm, but did you block me tho?

[Bananaman177]

HOLY SHIT FUCK YOU FORGOT TO BLOCK ME!! HA HA HA HA HA HA!! WOOO!!!

Okay, I'm done. Fuck you too.

[FeministDestroyer]

I'm pretty sure I know why you're single and it has nothing to do with you own free will XD

[Guy13]

I hear ya. One expects those qualities that another falls in love with to be real representations of the person. It sucks, that only in success and/or failure, do we see the truth of the person we are with.

[Lightning8]

So, I'm pretty sure this is misandry if I've ever seen it played out through a relationship.

It's disgusting, as if a man emptionally abused and dumped you because you temporarily couldn't control your weight. That would be seen as misogyny; because that shouldn't be the only reason you are with a woman, to use her. Only it's worse because the poor guy actually experienced loss.

Attraction is just attraction; that's one dimension of a relationship; kindness and humanity should also be present I guess? So especially for a woman, you should be able to understand the very basic social cue of giving comfort to someone who experiences loss and distress. Maybe you experinced trauma or otherwise developed differently to lead you to a different conclusion regarding social cues.

But I don't know, maybe you don't believe relationships should be anything more than shallow a mutual shallow attraction, with commitment thrown out the window to get any available "better option".

Good luck to you

[DarkyFinn]

Ok this. This is why toxic masculinity exists in the first place.
"man cannot be weak, the can't show emotions cuz that's how real men work"

No, that's wrong. Men have feelings. They are allowed to cry. If life keeps kicking in the head, ofc they are allowed to be upset, and EXPRESS THEIR EMOTIONS ON IT. why should feelings be "female exclusive" - thing, that I do not understand.

[Oram52]

There is NO such thing as "toxic" masculinity. Just pseudo-intellectual BS.

[Wally48]

Ah but there is a very fine line that guys have to be careful not to cross. Most women will not tolerate whiny little bitches for male partners. A guy can cry at the death of his mom or the birth of his child, but if they come home crying because someone was mean to them at work, female partners see that as weakness and many will ultimately leave them.
Additionally we all have a responsibility not to bring each other down with petty shit. I call it emotional responsibility.

[Bananaman177]

One of these days, you'll be the weak one, and someone you love and depend on will find your weakness unattractive and they'll toss you out.

Whatever pain and suffering you put out, it'll go all the way around the world but it'll always come right back to you in the end.

You'll pay your debt. Plus interest.

[standingUP]

I could only read a few comments before laughing and here I go. GOOD, that pussy should have never been dating a woman in the first place. What is wrong with the gender switch in this generation. This message should be a lesson to every male who commented against this. Fair warning men, women don't want pussies. It is simple. Man up and get your **** together.

I have a test I give to my daughters before they date a dude. Tell them to change a tire first and then see where this goes for you to continue talking or not. ALL BEFORE THE FIRST DATE.

Then go ahead but be aware of some talking points while on this date. Does he validate himself too much or even does he need too much validation? both are red flag warnings to just walk out without explanation.
A woman should never have to watch a man cry about everyday topics and especially poor me BS.
Good for you for posting this !

[TB_Cosmic]

Well then, I am sincerely happy for this break up. I don't know either of you but my guess is that he doesn't deserve a woman who is that cruel to him. You clearly lack some form of empathy. The only reason why he would cry is because he is in emotional pain, as his girlfriend you should have been there for him. Financial losses are hard to deal with especially if you are the one bringing home the income in the relationship and having friends betray you is also very painful. I hope he can find somebody better than you in his future because you wronged him.

[kingakuto]

What the literal fuck, if it was the other way round you would say it's justifiable for a women to cry and be weak but when the man doesn't he means nothing to anymore. That's some cold shit right there. Am not lie and said that if he didn't meet you standards you shouldn't move on but your reasoning is just cold, callous and egocentric placing your own preconceived notions and care first. That's some cold shit right here

[Shamalien]

It's coming off as a troll... I'm gunna guess this is a troll. A lot of what your saying really rings true in my mind though. Women argue against this shit so hard, but I've observed the world cautiously... and I've noticed that if a man shows too much weakness around his girl, she starts looking elsewhere. Women ultimately just want it all, they want a man who can be emotional but they also don't want to think of him as weak, so next time you cry around her make sure to punch a hole in the wall as well just to show your still a badass warrior

[Anonymous]

You’re clearly the immature and insecure one. If you lost your attraction to him, fair enough, but the rest of what you just said was the stupidest shit I’ve ever heard. Some People unlike you do have emotions. Dating him in the first place was completely pointless.

[WildNekoWolf]

Oh boy. I may be only 16 but even I can tell you're messed up. He was experiencing financial loss, hardships, and got betrayed by friends. He had a perfectly good reason to cry. And then you go and make it worse by breaking up with him. Honestly, I'm glad you did because he doesn't need your negativity in his life. He deserves way better than you, who's just willing to dump someone as soon as they're experiencing such difficult times. It's a good thing you're not dating anyone because you're just a jerk.

[QuestionsOSex]

Nice. How would you like it if I dated you? I would come over and make you cry then leave you for being a fucking bitch that doesn't fucking realize that he could have mental disabilities or he could FUCKING BE NORMAL AND CRY LIKE EVERY HUMAN BEING LIKE YOU WILL WHEN I FIND YOUR ADRESS AND LOCK YOU IN YOUR HOUSE WITHOUT FOOD OR WATER

[myTake Owner]

Hahahaha, like it's gonna happen! Not!

[QuestionsOSex]

Ya know what's not gonna happen? You ever having anyone ever again you piece of shit

[Carlos_Dyer]

to upfront you really have no heart if the shoe was on the other foot you would want to comfort you and console you to the point that you are reassured everything is going be alright. how comes when breakdown many see it as a flawed weakness its ok for a man to cry to be sad to get upset its all apart of being a human being these are the characteristics and moods and emotions that comes with the entire structure of the human race yet some display emotions others do not but it does not make them any less of a person as its within their normality to function this way it just causes for some to be more compassionate understanding and sensitive to what those are feeling and experiencing at such moments and times and if you as a partner lack these things if love has a firm root within you you'll find away but if there is no love you'll find an excuse to get u off the hook so you can make a quick exit from such a relationship

[Daniela1982]

Wow, women always criticize guys for not being able to express themselves verbally, but when someone shows emotions they dump them. But as an anon probably none of it is true or you would be considered a heartless wench.

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

Yeah it's such a bad double standard, we can't win either way

[Jersey2]

This is right in the money.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Sure, he may be a sissy but you could have been supportive. If you showed him some positive actions, they could have rubbed off onto him that he can learn from. Instead, you just exercised your selfish side. I will however give you credit for being headstrong despite being heartless.

[Nadim171]

You're the kind of woman that I really hate. I will intend to cry in front of a partner to know if they think that way, because if they really think "men shouldn't cry" it's better for me to leave then already, and shoot them before I do so if I could

[Clinton321]

Damm... to cut it short , sorry what you did was worng. if you truly Love's someone u hardly live him/her.. even if u cut a distance if he comes back to his sense u follow up with him.. put yourself in his shoes☺

[LadBoiOfTerror]

Wow. You sound like a cold bitch who will end up in a colder grave. I get you're not a fan of the guy and you didn't want to be with him. But I think deep down you actually feel kinda bad for what you did and that's why you wrote this post saying these horrible things. Like you need people to celebrate your actions so you can stop feeling bad. The guy might have been insecure, but you're no better.

[Harmseygrace]

You're a horrible person. Good luck finding a guy with that sorta attitude, you'll be alone for the rest of your life.

[robertKugler]

No she.. ll take u r guy.. n show him shit he can describe. to u later.. so be careful..

[Harmseygrace]

@robertKugler Pardon?

[robertKugler]

Madam

[Harmseygrace]

@robertKugler I'm a little lost.

[Sabretooth]

unless she settles for being a booty call or, an escort.

[Harmseygrace]

@Sabretooth Haha yeah true. Probably the best she's going to get though.

[Sabretooth]

exactly. i do not promote, endorse-or agree with those choices-i've made my feelings about both very well known-but with her attitude, no one will want her... well, unless she finds a sociopath...

[Harmseygrace]

@Sabretooth She probably is a bloody sociopath

[Sabretooth]

that, or just a feminist-a group i can't stand... i'd gladly take a non op versatile trans girl first-some i've stumbled on look hot as hell-i spend a lot of time online.

[GuidoThePizzaMaker]

Who needs a weak man? its ok to get emotional occasionally, but guys who are always in their feelings are so annoying.
Great reason to dump him. Dude was going through some shit, he should have overcame his problems and not confided in you.

[MajesticTwelve]

I always wonder about these kinds of stories. If they're true, why post them anonymously? Anything you say, especially something shitty like this, either own or don't post.

[Sabretooth]

she's a coward-as proven by her action.