"Remember men, women don't care about your feelings. You are expendible. She has dozens of "guy friends" who are lined up as her next partner." - Oh.. ok you are one hell of an incel.
You act like women are like children, unable to control themselves, when it's obvious that men are the real sinners in this area. You don't see a lot of women cat call for instance. I don't agree at all.
@DoesltMatter Lovely way to try and manipulate what I'm saying. There is a difference between respecting women and sounding like a male feminist. Male feminists rarely respect women genuinely, but are often out there trying to score pussy points with the feminists in hope to get some action. You can still respect women without being a feminist and without pampering to them. I didn't say that you are a male feminist, only that you sounded like one. Reading comprehension, buddy.
@TruthBringer I'm by no means manipulating what you are saying, I'm just, like you, telling you what YOU come off as. I'm obviously not trying to score points with anyone. I have a woman. Besides, there are much better places for that than practically anonymously on the internet.
@DoesltMatter You would be surprised how many anonymous dudes still try to do it online. In any way, saying men are the real sinners in this area while neglecting the amount of promiscuity out there is typically something a male feminist would say. All in all, you're dead wrong yourself.
@DoesltMatter Um... why should I deny that since it's not even part of the conversation here. What's your next argument? More men being in jail so that debunks anything said in this Take? See? Pulling strawman is not hard
In control in a sense of they hold the cards. Many of them however are impulsive and act on their impulses, which leads to much promiscuity and cheating. Spring break itself speaks for itself
Spring break is an American thing in name, but we here in the Netherlands do have very similar events that match spring break. Only our spring breaks often happen in famous holiday destinations. In the end, the same thing applies really. I would also like to see some evidence of men cheating even though stats are often skewed against men. Don't want to believe me? Then go ask a user named OlderAndWiser and he will be glad to tell you more about it. I believe both genders are on a similar level when it comes to cheating. There are sources that say men cheat more and at the same time you see sources that say the opposite. Cherry picking to suit your confirmation bias isn't going to help anyone.
@TruthBringer I usually try to see peoples point. But I'm coming to the realization that I can't. I don't understand you at all. You say women are manipulative. You say women are impulsive and promiscuous. I even read up on what you've said on other comments. I won't understand why or how you've come to this weird twisted mindset, but I hope you at least respect your girlfriend.
@DoesltMatter Lovely how you call something "twisted" while admitting to not even understanding it.
And plenty of other people who do understand the things I say since they themselves are within the world I speak of and have done their own research. You just happened to be slow. It's called seeing reality for what it is. There is a reason why the datig world in the west is so fucked to the point that both genders are resenting each other more and more. And don't worry about my girlfriend, my knowledge of the two sexes has helped me tremendously within my dating life and she is very satisfied with how I treat her.
@TruthBringer I never said I didn't understand it. I said I don't understand YOU. You are as you would probably say "twisting my words". Intelligence is not a point of concern for me. You can write me when you're out of school.
I'm not hard to understand. It seems you're the only one struggling with this. Not my fault you're slow while others have no issues. And that's my line. Come back when you learn some reading comprehension and know whenever to come back without the use of logical fallacies.
All true. Women do not want to be single around holidays and will wait months after deciding to dump a guy until holidays are over. Women in my opinion don't like to be single and will monkey branch
You should listen to guys like him in order to stay away from the type of women he speaks of. You can see this as a form of warning to what kind of women to avoid.
@TruthBringer for me fatherhood is worth the risk. Yes even with all the potential shit involved. Family is everything to me. My whole life I wanted kids and I will die to attain that.
Fatherhood is worth the risk with women who don't shove red flags in your face. You don't just get invovled with any woman, right? You want to make sure the woman who is going to be the mother of your kids is worth investing in while weeding out all the bad. THAT is my point.
I guess that makes sense but what if she then doesn't date or flirt with other guys all the next summer? Would that mean she just didn't like you in particular?
Because often women don't know themselves or each other. But those who have (dating) experience with women can sniff their movements before they themselves know they would make them. Don't underestimate the knowledge that comes with experience.
"All women" lovely how you think anyone here speaks of ALL women. We do not. And I don't need to act asif I know. I simply know through research and experience. That's the beauty in gaining knowledge. It allows you to see things for what they are and act accodingly. And funny enough, I actually do manage to predict certain behaviors within certain women before they even know they are going to commit them. Another beauty in having knowledge and experience. So my friend, I don't act. I simply KNOW.
@MysteriousDarkness The positive reinforcement and succes tell me enough and thus make me feel good. But you stick to your delusional wishful thinking, mate. At the age of 37, you ought to know better, but alas
One cannot fool himself when reality is giving him positive reinforcement for his actions. But by all means, don't let me stop you from sticking to your delusions and wishful thinking ;)
Just read the comments. Several women admit this to be true. This is a secret that women dont even realize they do. Most female actions are subconscious and then other excuses are used to justify behavior. But think about it. When do most breakups happen? Right around Valentine's Day into spring... women are assessing their sexual attraction for the summer. They think of guys. Their mind wanders. Energy shifts. They dump the guy and say... lost interest.. not you its me... etc. but deep down? "I want to be single on vacation..." or "i want to meet new guys during the summer..."
So at 20 you are in college right? So just study your girlfriends in college. dont ask them just watch the girls who have boyfriends. Most likely they will break up with boyfriends from high school when they go to college. why? sex with new hot dudes. Then when they are in college and dating a guy they may break up with a guy during summer break. WHy? get back with ex back home or go to their home town for new hot guys. sex again.
So just watch the times when ladies break up with guys when you are in college. They are either cheating by texting a whole bunch of guys and going to their dorms secretely. or they have a "long distance relationship" back home but are having sex with other guys in college. Or they are just breaking up with guys and then being back in relationships based on new guys that come along. Its all a game at your age.
@Apope16 I agree with most of your points, but I think why you have triggered women (not naming anyone - I swear LOL) and some men is because you are fundamentally speaking, using intense realism and broad statements = natural triggering points. Moreover, application wise, I think ultimately your broad statements come down to how attractive the woman is/if she has options.
My two exes were models and they were the kind of women that had men turning their heads when they walked. At the same time, some girls who I have liked that were not as attractive had a mentality of... a buy and hold strategy.
Everything is case by case. but in my experience, women who have options do adhere in many cases to the points you gave in your mytake, but if she has limited options, these rules will have limited influence.
@kas19 I don't know what feewings you're talking about, but I'll definitely cry about it later because it was such a great insult. My ego is broken. Woe is me. Then again... such a lack of foresight is to be expected from a fat colored orangutan LMFAO!!! Sounds like you're smoking something. Poor girl, it must suck to live paycheck to paycheck, especially being a land whale ;)
This is not about me. I did the dumping. THis is about a pattern when I have been giving advice to many many guys on here. It is also based on women talking to me and telling me their stories.
This is perfect beta dating advice. Or just be an alpha and lock down any girl you want at any time. If you can't compete with the lineup of orbiters she has you are a chump whether she's chooses you or not.
Get gifts you won't have to return any feelings of favors for and then it's spring a good time to go out and find someone else. Sounds like a win win timing.
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"Remember men, women don't care about your feelings. You are expendible. She has dozens of "guy friends" who are lined up as her next partner." - Oh.. ok you are one hell of an incel.
She's Not Yours, It's Just You Turn
if there's a guide for men out there, then this should be one of the first things any man must understand.
I'm not surprised 🙄
It is what it is the truth may be a bitter pill but it will set you free
Valentine's day is a lie to get your money.
Men, chase wealth, not women. Work hard, eat right, and don't let the evil feminist media tell you what to do.
This is what happens when you date liberal chicks and you're a beta. This doesn't happen to me.
You act like women are like children, unable to control themselves, when it's obvious that men are the real sinners in this area. You don't see a lot of women cat call for instance. I don't agree at all.
Clearly you've never seen how it is on spring break. But sure, stick to your male feminist mindset
@TruthBringer Oh I'm not a feminist, and I'm married.
@DoesltMatter I said you've portrayed male feminist mindset. You may say you're not one, but you definitely sound like one. Just saying.
@TruthBringer You don't have to be a feminist to respect women.
And the fact that you clearly believe that is a problem.
@DoesltMatter Lovely way to try and manipulate what I'm saying. There is a difference between respecting women and sounding like a male feminist. Male feminists rarely respect women genuinely, but are often out there trying to score pussy points with the feminists in hope to get some action. You can still respect women without being a feminist and without pampering to them. I didn't say that you are a male feminist, only that you sounded like one. Reading comprehension, buddy.
@TruthBringer I'm by no means manipulating what you are saying, I'm just, like you, telling you what YOU come off as. I'm obviously not trying to score points with anyone. I have a woman. Besides, there are much better places for that than practically anonymously on the internet.
@DoesltMatter You would be surprised how many anonymous dudes still try to do it online. In any way, saying men are the real sinners in this area while neglecting the amount of promiscuity out there is typically something a male feminist would say. All in all, you're dead wrong yourself.
@TruthBringer Statistically men do more perverted stuff out there. You cannot deny that.
@DoesltMatter Um... why should I deny that since it's not even part of the conversation here. What's your next argument? More men being in jail so that debunks anything said in this Take? See? Pulling strawman is not hard
@TruthBringer Dude. You and I both know that women are more in control than men when it comes to "being sexual in the summer" and flirting with women.
In the sexual aspect, absolutely
In control in a sense of they hold the cards. Many of them however are impulsive and act on their impulses, which leads to much promiscuity and cheating. Spring break itself speaks for itself
@TruthBringer Men are more likely to cheat than women. Countless researches show this.
"spring break" is an American thing.
Spring break is an American thing in name, but we here in the Netherlands do have very similar events that match spring break. Only our spring breaks often happen in famous holiday destinations. In the end, the same thing applies really. I would also like to see some evidence of men cheating even though stats are often skewed against men. Don't want to believe me? Then go ask a user named OlderAndWiser and he will be glad to tell you more about it. I believe both genders are on a similar level when it comes to cheating. There are sources that say men cheat more and at the same time you see sources that say the opposite. Cherry picking to suit your confirmation bias isn't going to help anyone.
@TruthBringer I usually try to see peoples point. But I'm coming to the realization that I can't. I don't understand you at all. You say women are manipulative. You say women are impulsive and promiscuous. I even read up on what you've said on other comments. I won't understand why or how you've come to this weird twisted mindset, but I hope you at least respect your girlfriend.
@DoesltMatter Lovely how you call something "twisted" while admitting to not even understanding it.
And plenty of other people who do understand the things I say since they themselves are within the world I speak of and have done their own research. You just happened to be slow. It's called seeing reality for what it is. There is a reason why the datig world in the west is so fucked to the point that both genders are resenting each other more and more. And don't worry about my girlfriend, my knowledge of the two sexes has helped me tremendously within my dating life and she is very satisfied with how I treat her.
@TruthBringer I never said I didn't understand it. I said I don't understand YOU. You are as you would probably say "twisting my words". Intelligence is not a point of concern for me. You can write me when you're out of school.
I'm not hard to understand. It seems you're the only one struggling with this. Not my fault you're slow while others have no issues. And that's my line. Come back when you learn some reading comprehension and know whenever to come back without the use of logical fallacies.
Don't attempt to insult me, I don't do temper tantrums from children like you. As I said, my intelligence is not the problem here.
Come back in 8 years. That will be all.
All true. Women do not want to be single around holidays and will wait months after deciding to dump a guy until holidays are over. Women in my opinion don't like to be single and will monkey branch
I always tell men you are not her friend you are just a backup man.
Man if I listened to people like you I wouldn't be on my way to fatherhood right now. Glad I woke up and left the cult.
You should listen to guys like him in order to stay away from the type of women he speaks of. You can see this as a form of warning to what kind of women to avoid.
@TruthBringer for me fatherhood is worth the risk. Yes even with all the potential shit involved. Family is everything to me. My whole life I wanted kids and I will die to attain that.
Fatherhood is worth the risk with women who don't shove red flags in your face. You don't just get invovled with any woman, right? You want to make sure the woman who is going to be the mother of your kids is worth investing in while weeding out all the bad. THAT is my point.
They just want a warm body next to them through the long dark nights of winter, lol.
I donβt even know what to say... 😂
I just hope youβre happy
I guess that makes sense but what if she then doesn't date or flirt with other guys all the next summer? Would that mean she just didn't like you in particular?
@Apope16
Why do you continuously act like you know all women better than any of them know themself in your mytakes?
Because often women don't know themselves or each other. But those who have (dating) experience with women can sniff their movements before they themselves know they would make them. Don't underestimate the knowledge that comes with experience.
@TruthBringer
Do not act like you know how all women are and what all women are going to do before they know what they are going to do before.
"All women" lovely how you think anyone here speaks of ALL women. We do not. And I don't need to act asif I know. I simply know through research and experience. That's the beauty in gaining knowledge. It allows you to see things for what they are and act accodingly. And funny enough, I actually do manage to predict certain behaviors within certain women before they even know they are going to commit them. Another beauty in having knowledge and experience. So my friend, I don't act. I simply KNOW.
@TruthBringer
Keep telling yourself whatever you need to so you feel better about yourself.
@MysteriousDarkness The positive reinforcement and succes tell me enough and thus make me feel good. But you stick to your delusional wishful thinking, mate. At the age of 37, you ought to know better, but alas
@TruthBringer
You are only fooling yourself.
One cannot fool himself when reality is giving him positive reinforcement for his actions. But by all means, don't let me stop you from sticking to your delusions and wishful thinking ;)
Dude what are your MyTakes 💀 What are you smoking
Just read the comments. Several women admit this to be true. This is a secret that women dont even realize they do. Most female actions are subconscious and then other excuses are used to justify behavior. But think about it. When do most breakups happen? Right around Valentine's Day into spring... women are assessing their sexual attraction for the summer. They think of guys. Their mind wanders. Energy shifts. They dump the guy and say... lost interest.. not you its me... etc. but deep down? "I want to be single on vacation..." or "i want to meet new guys during the summer..."
@Apope16 Absolutely well said!
@Apope16 Never been in that situation so I don't know. It all sounds silly.
@kas19 You perhaps don't (thank God). But shit ton of other people have and this post is directed at them.
@kas19 You sound triggered. You must be shivering, little snowflake βοΈ
@Inbox Did you have to find something I said weeks ago just to use my own saying π Still triggered I see.
Relax guys. SHe's only 20 years old apparently.
So at 20 you are in college right? So just study your girlfriends in college. dont ask them just watch the girls who have boyfriends. Most likely they will break up with boyfriends from high school when they go to college. why? sex with new hot dudes. Then when they are in college and dating a guy they may break up with a guy during summer break. WHy? get back with ex back home or go to their home town for new hot guys. sex again.
So just watch the times when ladies break up with guys when you are in college. They are either cheating by texting a whole bunch of guys and going to their dorms secretely. or they have a "long distance relationship" back home but are having sex with other guys in college. Or they are just breaking up with guys and then being back in relationships based on new guys that come along. Its all a game at your age.
So report back to us what you see. I am curious.
@Apope16 There you go again. It all boils down to sex somehow π₯±
@kas19 Did you have to use the same insults over and over as before? LOL Please don't breed.
We get it, no man has wanted you since dinosaurs roamed the earth so you like to vent on GAG.
@Apope16 I agree with most of your points, but I think why you have triggered women (not naming anyone - I swear LOL) and some men is because you are fundamentally speaking, using intense realism and broad statements = natural triggering points. Moreover, application wise, I think ultimately your broad statements come down to how attractive the woman is/if she has options.
My two exes were models and they were the kind of women that had men turning their heads when they walked. At the same time, some girls who I have liked that were not as attractive had a mentality of... a buy and hold strategy.
Everything is case by case. but in my experience, women who have options do adhere in many cases to the points you gave in your mytake, but if she has limited options, these rules will have limited influence.
@Inbox Genuinely have no idea what any of that means. I think you're projecting my dude. Sorry I hurt your feewings π₯Ίππ
@kas19 I don't know what feewings you're talking about, but I'll definitely cry about it later because it was such a great insult. My ego is broken. Woe is me. Then again... such a lack of foresight is to be expected from a fat colored orangutan LMFAO!!! Sounds like you're smoking something. Poor girl, it must suck to live paycheck to paycheck, especially being a land whale ;)
You got dumped because you're not worth her time. Do you think buff alpha males get dumped before summer? No, they do the dumping.
This is not about me. I did the dumping. THis is about a pattern when I have been giving advice to many many guys on here. It is also based on women talking to me and telling me their stories.
This is perfect beta dating advice. Or just be an alpha and lock down any girl you want at any time. If you can't compete with the lineup of orbiters she has you are a chump whether she's chooses you or not.
i literally have not learned a thing from any of your posts. what is the purpose of all of this?
You are a woman. Of course you have learned nothing new. guys on the other hand are learning quite a bit
i don't think anyone is learning anything with you. its just that you can't get anyone else to agree with you other than misogynists
I used to like to dump girlfriends just before Christmass so I wouldn't have to buy them a present.
Because women are like a roller coaster. The line is long, the ride is short, and there's hundreds of men in line behind you.
how about: "cause it would be kind of a dick move to ditch someone during the holiday time, when family visits are planned"?
Get gifts you won't have to return any feelings of favors for and then it's spring a good time to go out and find someone else. Sounds like a win win timing.