Girlfriend broke up with me because she "lost feelings". What? Help!

So my girlfriend and I were together for 6 months. We are in our last year of high school together. She told me she wanted to end our relationship because she just doesn't feel the same way like she did in the beginning. I asked a mutual friend that she's close with and she said that what my ex told me is what she told her. I don't think there's another guy. I know her well enough to know that. I have noticed her distancing her self from Me when we were physically beside each other and her pattern of texting changed. She said she thought about everything for a month which is when I noticed but I thought not much of it.

Anyways, she is my first love and I really do care about her. We had soooooo many things in common, even down to the finer details. I really miss her a lot and I want her back so badly. She's an amazing girl and I hope she finds a person who will appreciate her as much as me if not more. But coping is so hard and it's a struggle cause I love this girl.
I just don't get how you lose feelings all of a sudden and what I'm afraid of I guess, is that I'll never find someone as unique and relatable as she is to me. I'll always be there for her no matter what, but if you have a similar experience of how she lost feelings or how to cope; please do share.


Most Helpful Girl

  • Distancing yourself from her is probably good. If you keep hanging around, it'll only be harder for you to move on.

    • Thanks, I guess I'll have too.

Most Helpful Guy

  • It is hard for you to realize because you still love her so much. She just doesn't feel the same way. There was something there in the beginning, but it wasn't enough to sustain a long term relationship. She didn't lose feelings all of a sudden. Most people start to realize the relationship isn't for them a long time before hand, but they don't show it and pretend to act normal while they assess the situation. They do not want to hurt anyone and continue in the relationship for as long as they can. Either they find a way to make it work, or look to get out. What ever happens, just appreciate the time you had together and her honestly about how she felt.

    • I really appreciate your insight. It makes logical sense and you're right. But it honestly does suck simply because of how much I liked her :/

    • Yah man. I do feel sorry for you. Been there! Just be reassured, there are lots of great women out there!!!

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  • if you just broke up and you want her back you better win the breakup game

    if she has any feeling for you then completely ignore her and she'll either come back or be gone forever either way showing that you still want her after the breakup will never work im getting a girl back that broke up with you

  • honestly dude, know it must be hard, but think you just need to walk away and try to move on... you'll find someone who cares just as much for you as you do for them :3

    • Thanks man, I guess you're right. But it sure is a rocky road ahead..

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