Honestly I was in a similar situation as you not long ago at all actually & I was in your shoes. I had been stressed due to family issues & family health issues as well & my gf cited communication problems & that I seemed distant & uninterested in her at times. Honestly I think you guys are at the point in your relationship a little after the year mark where you are starting to experience some rough patches. He may have been beginning to feel a little distant from you & because of the lack of communication could have started overthinking/over analyzing things in his head. I think he obviously still has strong feelings for you, but there are a few things he needs to workout in his head being apart for a little. The fact that he asked you to Thanksgiving means you are still important to him and he is probably unsure of whether to completely part ways or work through the rough patch. If you still love him and want to be with him/get back with him then go spend Thanksgiving with him and really talk to him. Have a calm, no pressure, honest conversation about everything. Talk about what went wrong, how/if it could have been avoided and most importantly, if he and you think it is something that can be fixed with some work and a little time. He will feel closer to you if you open up and talk to him having a good honest conversation with him. Tell him what you were going through, let him see your point of view while also admitting openly to anything you think you could/should have done differently. Sometimes a little time a part to gather your thoughts and realize what's most important to you can do wonders for a relationship and help the two of you weather the storm through the rough waters so you can come out stronger and close than ever before while being able to communicate with each other on an entirely different level where none of you are afraid to talk about what's really in your mind to each other. Good luck! If you believe in something, don't give up yet!
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Sounds like he hasn't told his parents and he will expect you to pretend everything is totally normal!
I would suggest that if he is doing it for this reason you don't go but you might as well ask him why he would want you to come when he has just broke up with you and then you may find out his full reason!
If open lines of communication was the main drain 'Reason' he broke it off with you, catpetter, and with all that I am seeing here with his boyish behavior to boot, he may be feeling Guilty now for having said and done this and after everything that has been 'Said and done' He--------Asked me to come to Thanksgiving at his parents.
I am not trying to say here that he wants things to go back to the way they were where you both were two birds of a feather... I am not seeing this. His pattern of being 'Uncommunicative,' uptight, just things that implied he didn't want to be hooked at the hip, is showing me he he wanted to cut ties and maybe be friends, if anything... he may have needed space and a time for himself..
However, it also sounds like he got a little festive and maybe sentimental and now is asking you come to Be with him and his parents so he can keep the Pilgrim peace, not have to talk turkey about anything with them about you and him and-----Happily too not have to do the dishes.
And at this point in time, allow yourselves this space, some serious time to do some soul searching. A wishbone might be nice when you carve the bird and being Christmas is also down the road, maybe by then it doesn't have to be down a beaten path neither... who knows what will happen by then under the mistletoe.
Good luck. xx
Maybe Or maybe he hasn't told his parents you broken up
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Yeah, he's trying to get back in there. If he's not it's serious mixed signals off a guy who doesn't know what he's doing.
People who blow hot/cold are a pain in the ass, it's selfish to mess people about when you can't make up your mind.what was the basis for the break up?
I'd tell him to shove a Turkey leg up his ass
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