Yeah actually we do feel a lot sometimes. When I broke up with my girl friend I felt a lot for like a couple of months. But when once I realized that she is happy and started to move on then I felt better. Cos I couldn't fit in with her I had a guilt of hurting a girl's emotions. So yeah we do feel.
Yes of course guys feel bad when we breakup. It hurts us. Is there some guilt? Depends on the breakup, how the guy perceived the breakup, and who did what. Ex's are ex's for reasons, if something didn't happen then you'd still be together still.
As stated many times it depends on the relationship and the person. For example I broke up with my last girlfriend and I've never felt so bad as i really liked her.
It depends on the situation but yes i can feel horrible about hurting you so much especially if i still care for you.
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It's not just guys that leave girls heartbroken it works both ways. My ex didn't give a crap that she left me heartbroken/really messed up and reinforced that by using me after we finished because she wasn't getting attention anywhere else.
I did, and I would if I did it again. who wouldn't? makes me feel like shit...
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Cry cry cry, women do it to men too and they are equally callous, if not more, since women have a streak of vindictiveness that men don't. Get over it.
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Yeah actually we do feel a lot sometimes. When I broke up with my girl friend I felt a lot for like a couple of months. But when once I realized that she is happy and started to move on then I felt better. Cos I couldn't fit in with her I had a guilt of hurting a girl's emotions. So yeah we do feel.
Yes of course guys feel bad when we breakup. It hurts us. Is there some guilt? Depends on the breakup, how the guy perceived the breakup, and who did what. Ex's are ex's for reasons, if something didn't happen then you'd still be together still.
As stated many times it depends on the relationship and the person. For example I broke up with my last girlfriend and I've never felt so bad as i really liked her.
Not really. Girls always expect you to text them first and I get real tired of that because it feels like im making all attempts and investments.
It depends on the situation but yes i can feel horrible about hurting you so much especially if i still care for you.
It's not just guys that leave girls heartbroken it works both ways.
My ex didn't give a crap that she left me heartbroken/really messed up and reinforced that by using me after we finished because she wasn't getting attention anywhere else.
Woman do the same thing to men but I'm sure everyone feels guilty about hurting an significant others feelings
Depend if u deserve it or no
How u measure it u deserve it or no it's complex it base on his mind
You can't ask about "guys" in general. Some feel guilt, some don't care.
It totally depends on the guy. Girls do things like that too by the way.
I did, and I would if I did it again. who wouldn't? makes me feel like shit...
Cry cry cry, women do it to men too and they are equally callous, if not more, since women have a streak of vindictiveness that men don't. Get over it.
Depends who. A sociopath who is a player, won't. If the guy didn't break a girls heart on purpose than he will probably feel bad.
Not if its better for me. One girl I do feel bad about but the others its better for them to suffer then me.
I find if they are a nice person that I valve as well as hot, I would feel a little guilty.
If they are total bitch, I would be happy to see them suffer! Ugly and fat women I don't care!
I have broken a heart or two and yes I felt guilty about it.
No, guys are heartless monsters. We do not possess human emotions such as guilt.
Leave as in break up? Yes. Ignore? Probably not as it's unlikely he even knows he's doing it.
When I was younger, it didn't hurt me to break up or hurt a girl's feelings. Now it does. A lot. I think modesty and decency are part of growing up.
I broke a girl's heart and it's eating me up inside. 😭