He is overall a good guy and I love him. But ever since we started dating he never showed any mature interest in my life. At the begining we were like horny kids and now after 3 years together I feel like I matured but he stayed a horny kid. He would never ask me how was my day, or how is my new project going, or how am I. He asks what I'm doing and then when I don't give clear answers he starts questioning where am I and with who I am. Like for example if I got cold, he won't even ask me the next day if I'm feeling better. I talked about this with him and he just said "well if something happened or you want to talk about something, just say it" and then continues beng the way he is. He is a good listener and would always listen but he barely asks questions. It's really confusing, makes me feel like he is not interested, but then again when I do bring stuff up he is more then happy and interested to talk about that topic. Should I break up?
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Hell no. Sorry for my language but you sound ridiculous to me. Unfortunately I know majority of women are going to agree. I'm gonna tell you a story of a man and women who've been married 25 years. Both of them work different jobs. They don't talk much about them. When one gets sick they usually keep to them self and if they need something they ask. They rarely go on dates. And when one off them gets upset they talk to each other or other their siblings. You see this couple isn't emotionally dependent on each other. When they married they didn't become the only thing in thier life just the most important. These are my parents my dad doesn't bother my mom with his anger at his project manger and my mom doesn't complain about that knew receptionist. They both accepted they married an imperfect human and they try to handle as much as they can independently. And when they can't that's when they pull through for each other. They don't depend they support. You don't need someone to do those things for you you just want i. And if you feel like you need it he may not be the best place to go. My dad may need advice on how to handle a situation at work who does he ask? His brother because he works in a similar field not his wife. If he's got a problem with me or my brother then he talks to my mom. Your spouse isn't suppose to be everything to you. your suppose to do as much as you can on your own and your spouse is that person that walks up behind you and whispers you can do it before they push you forward. Or at least that's what I've been told. Your not two halves of a whole marriage but two wholes that've decided to walk together1
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