My ex broke up with me about 1 month ago. I did the pleading and begging once because even though he was breaking up with me he was telling me he loves me. He told me our relationship was not healthy due to our arguments. This time apart has opened my eyes to the root of the problem and I would love nothing more than to give things another chance. He said he cannot do that right now. That I hurt him and he needs space. It has been 15 days of no contact and each day I wondering if I'll hear from him or if he even misses me. I was told by a third party that part of the reason we broke up was because I lied. I don't know where to go from here because I don't want to break no contact because he needs his space but at the same time... I've never lied to him. I guess I feel the need to prove my innocence? I miss him everyday.
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If you really love him, you must trust him and let him come to you.
He is hurt by the innconsistencies and in the relationship and just wishes to feel those feelings of love for you again. You had your chance so give it to him too.
While he figures his feelings for himself, please give yourself time to heal. Go work on yourself and distract yourself as well.
If you want to prove something, listen to his request.0