I have liked this girls for over two years and she goes to the same school
I want to stop staring at her because most of the time she is with her boyfriend and it hurts looking at her but it's hard to stop. Whenever I look at her, she is hugging him or kissing him
She seems happy and that is great, really.
I want to not want to look at her, it hurts so much. I want to get over her
ps. I know that people say that you need to go out with friends and meet other people but it hasn't worked
Most Helpful Girl
Aww I'm so sorry to hear that... but I know exactly how you feel... the boy I had a crush on for almost 2 years went out with my best friend its a long story but... Trust me I know... and I'm not saying this is necessarily the best way to get over someone... but... honestly... if you like her that much then only time can help... it is what helped me really... It was a very hard time I must admit but what really helped for me was pretending I'm happy and in a really good mood all the time... thinking about things that made me laugh... that entertained me... and everytime I stared at him I just started saying "Eww I hate him" and things like that in my head (as hard as it was to say)... obviously when I got home I just cried... but then I saw it as a way of getting that 'thing' out of my system and now till this day I still remember the last time I cried (even after they broke up) and let me tell you that I am glad! I'm with someone better now! And I love him a lot more than I loved that thing! Sorry for the long text but... my only advice is: Time... and obviously... don't let her catch you staring...(trust me you don't wanna go through that) but yh as I was saying... one day you will realise how stupid it all was you'll see!! You will laugh at yourself (trust me you really do😂) good luck darling I hope I helped in any way!3
Most Helpful Guy
No. Dude, don't listen to what everyone else on here is telling you. Don't waste your time & energy by repeating to yourself "I don't like her anymore" or "she has a boyfriend and I will never have her". That's some bullshit that won't produce any realistic results. This is what you MUST DO :
1. Approach a single girl you're attracted to that you're pretty sure you can get, and begin flirting with her. Seriously; flirting only at first! This will warm her up to you and compel her to develop a crush on you. It will also determine whether there's any chemistry and compatibility between the two of you.
2. Make genuine overtures to this new girl. Do not approach her wanting her purely for helping you get over the girl you're in love with. As you develop a chemistry and rapport between each other you'll find yourself thinking more & more about her because you know this is a girl you can likely get.
3. If this process simply isn't working–either from still not making any progress in losing your feelings for the original girl or you can't find a new single girl who likes you in return–then your only recourse is to tell the original girl whom you're infatuated with about your intense feelings for her even though she has a boyfriend. You have to do this! It can only produce a desirable result. She'll either want to give you a chance or she will reject you; thus leading you to not like her anymore after she breaks your heart.2