Would you rather break your lover's heart or have your heart broken by your lover? Why?
- DumperVote A
- DumpeeVote B
Most Helpful Guy
I think I prefer to be the "Dumpee" because I get so guilty and start thinking about the other person's feelings if I am doing the dumping. I would tie myself up in knots trying to think of the best way to do it and only confuse the issue making the split ten times harder when it eventually happens.2
Most Helpful Girl
I would rather be the dumpee. I never knew how hard it would be to be the dumper. I always assumed it would be easy to break up with someone. But it's awful, especially when you are doubting your decision. And then you see your ex with someone new.. It's the worst kind of pain.1