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It may be because he hasn't gotten over you. I broke up with mine because of some terrible things that happened behind closed doors and he messaged a friend of mine a few days ago to see if I was okay. I did speak to him and told him I was doing great and told him about all of the axcomplishments I've made in the last year without him which he understood was my way of saying I didn't need him.
Don't get me wrong it is hard to get over somebody you have dedicated your life to. But with the right support from friends and family it does get easier. I just had to think of all of the good I was achieving from not being with him. I had more time for friends. More money to save for my own place. I can now go on holiday. I realised that the sooner I knew who I was and what I wanted I'd find somebody more suited for me. It is hard but the quicker I let him go the happier I became X