I have a girlfriend who I care about and tell her I love her and sometimes when I haven't been there for her in the way she has been for me she thinks I am off doing something behind her back. I cheated one time with my ex wife and my ex wife called her 8 mos ago and told her a bunch of lies about me. Since then she has been paranoid since and told her that there is nothing there between me and my ex. I do not enjoy her phone calls because I cringe she is checking up on me she makes me crazy angry and I end up screaming at her and make her cry. She always unload her sh*t on me. She has helped me a lot with money and whatever I ask her she gives me. I have not been able to help her $$ wise & she even lets me use her car which now she gets upset over. I told her I am working and she do not need to worry about $ she does not have to work. I have not been able to give her any $ yet but trying but she blowing up my phone. Makes me upset and no one in my family or friends does this but her and I should be happy to see her # but now I am blocking her ph# and calls. I have 2 cell phones and told her to only call me on one phone not other she calls me on both nuts! I told her to leave me alone and stop blowing up phones, need help she does not believe me. She think I am doing things in her car and I'm not I am just trying to get her $$ to help her (we do not live together because of my beliefs). Was I right to tell her to stop calling me and leave me alone? She stops for awhile then when she wants something she starts all over again she says I am ignoring her emotional, physically financial support..dudes am I right for trying to help this girl back using her car I do not have a vehicle nor can I afford one. I do odd jobs just to try to get money and she always wants me to give it to her which I have not been able to so I can put gas in car. I told her my mind on business not romance right now. She gets mad I do not spend time with her when I need to make money. Am I right? I feel sometimes just to end it but then she says I am using her like everyone else. She is a good lady but has panic attacks when I do not call her like she wants me to. I told her once we out of financial crisis I can relax and be more emotional support for her but can't right now I spent some time with her last night but then after I left she gets crazy thinks I am with someone else.