OK so here's the deal guys. I was a senior in college and just recently graduated in 4 years with a job offer that requires me to move 11 hours from my hometown. My girlfriend is also in college and she's about to be a senior also.
We have dated ever since high school with one bump in our relationship my junior year in college where she left me and after 2 weeks of not talking to her slept with one of my ex-friends. After that happened we got back together and been together ever since. She has been closer to me ever since her "mistake" and said that she loves me and wants to be with me forever. I love her too and want to be with her. However, her parents dislike me somewhat because I have a mother who is mentally unstable and freaks out about the littlest things. She has yelled at my girlfriend in front of them and ever since they haven't liked me. I am nothing like my mother. Her family is also well to do as they have a lot of money and my family is considered just a little above upper class. Ever since then we have dated secretly. Today, her little sister who is spoiled beyond disbelief told her mother we were dating and my girlfriend called me and said we couldn't go out anymore. Now her mother didn't forbid and say she couldn't date me but she was really disappointed and sad that my girlfriend was dating me. My girlfriend loves her mother very much and whenever her mom gets sad about something she does, my girlfriend will take her side. So my girlfriend ended up dumping me today. I just don't understand why my girlfriend's parents are so judgmental and why her sister hates me so much because I have never done anything really wrong. They have supported her dating a guy after she broke up with me once who was worse than me as he was caught smoking pot by a drug test. However, his family is pretty wealthy too. I don't know what to do anymore or what actions I should take. What do you think? Please Help!
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Your story sounds like a modern day Rome and Juliet except Juliet listens to her father and dumps Romeo and everyone lives. There's a logical reason why she would want to take her parent's side: dolla, dolla bills yall; Disobedience=out of the will. Like most rich people, they have the snob attitude. So, anyone who is not at the same level as them are looked down upon and categorized as "unsophisticated" or even "ghetto." Her sister is just a bitch and just likes to cause drama;moreover, she probably did it to annoy her sister due to the sibling rivalry syndrome. I think it's just a misunderstanding of the incident with your mother. You are right; your mother's actions and mental stability should not reflect your personality or reputation, but it does. I say you deserve better, and you should move on. If she truly loved you, nothing would stop her from being with you. Unfortunately, she doesn't love you that much. She probably cares about you, but she's not choosing you over her parents. Focus on your work and be patient. You will find that honest, loving Juliet.0