I found out just over a week ago, and I didn't know what to do so I left town for 3 days to go to my parents. When I came back I broke up with her.
The problem is I don't know if I made the right decision. She said all the things you see in the movies about it being a mistake, and she still loves me. We were together for 2 years and 3 months. I can't stop thinking about her either. I definitely still love her and I think about her all the time still. No matter how hard I try to hate her I can't I end up just blaming myself. Asking what I could have done more. I have not talked to her since I broke it off 5 days ago, but it is driving me mad. I don't know what to do. But I do know that I could never trust her again deep down. She said she cheated only once 2 months ago, and I believe her (I think) however she was still hanging out with the guy that she cheated on me with. Any advice? I don't even know if I should email or call or anything.
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I definitely believe you made the right decision. Leaving someone which you were together with for 2 years and 3 months is not an easy thing to do, and I acknowledge that. However, I cannot position myself to understand why someone would willingly disrespect and degrade another so greatly by cheating- I use the word willingly as it was ultimately a choice, these things do not just happen.
Advice- Do not email, call or anything. You deserve better.2